Xiulian Han

If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Xiulian Han. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Xiulian was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.

       Xiulian was raised in 中国河南省安阳市. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Xiulian was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Xiulian's personality throughout her life.

       Though Xiulian was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with her family, she was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. Xiulian was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, Xiulian worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. Xiulian was raised with 一个姐姐，一个妹妹和一个弟弟. Xiulian and her siblings had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another.

       College can be a challenge, but Xiulian appeared to be well equipped to succeed. She had a knack for staying focused and on track no matter what was going on around her. Xiulian had the ability to work undisturbed through all of the constant interruptions that are a regular part of college life. Xiulian enjoyed using the skills she'd already learned and applying them to new courses. She knew the facts and rarely made factual errors.

       Xiulian was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Xiulian cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. Compassionate and devoted, Xiulian worked hard to make her new life partner happy.

       Harmony was important to Xiulian and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Xiulian was blessed with 两个女儿, 于竹和于科. They were also blessed with 一个外孙, 赵禺. Xiulian was always conscious of the feelings others had. She was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Xiulian was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Xiulian would listen before she would act.

       Taking her work seriously came naturally to Xiulian, and she expected the same from those around her. Xiulian was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. Xiulian was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that Xiulian handled well. She could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

        Xiulian was one of those people who took pride in constantly putting forth her best effort. Nowhere was that more visible than in sports. Xiulian was always enthusiastic and a great team player. 篮球. Xiulian also liked being a sports fan and enjoyed following her favorite teams whenever she got the opportunity. 观看各种球类比赛.

       Since it was easy for Xiulian to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and talking about the good old days. Since she was practical and cost effective, Xiulian was ready when that day to retire finally came in September 5, 1991. 中国北京. Even in retirement, Xiulian stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.

       Xiulian passed away on December 5, 2012 at 加拿大温莎市. 心脏病突发. She is survived by 夫于成光，女儿于竹和于科，以及外孙赵禺. Her services were held at Anderson Funeral Home, Windsor, Ontario, Canada. Xiulian was laid to rest in Victoria Memorial Park, Windsor, Ontario, Canada.

       Xiulian was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Xiulian was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Xiulian Han.

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1936年9月5日出生在中国河南省安阳市

1956年考入中国北京石油学院读大学本科，学制5年

1961年大学毕业，分配到黑龙江省大庆市东北石油学院工作

1964年2月和于成光结婚

1966年调入辽宁省大连市中国科学院化学物理研究所工作

1971年调入北京中国航天工业部第三研究院工作

1991年9月5日退休

2001年出国定居北美加拿大温莎市

2012年12月5日凌晨因冠心病突发辞世，享年76岁

致爱妻

日升日落，年复一年，

相濡以沫，形影相随。

心心相印，似水流年，

白头偕老，淑德常昭。

欣登极乐，福寿全归，

音容宛在，永铭心中。

夫：于成光

缅怀母亲 感恩母爱

2012年12月5日是敬爱的母亲离开我们的日子。我们姐妹及其家人怀着无比沉痛的心情，带着那份眷恋母爱的忧伤，满怀深情地祭奠母亲的辞世。

母亲在那个初冬的子夜，悄悄地、永远地离开了我们！她走得那么地匆忙, 那样的平静, 就好像平日里外出上街一般。她没有惊扰任何家人，不曾留下一丝烦怨，就那么静静地、轻轻地离我们而去。留给活着的亲人们无尽的哀伤和不舍，留给作女儿的难以承受的悲痛和恨憾！让生前的好友亲朋哀伤惋惜！

母亲的逝世，使我们失去了有生以来绵长而细密的温情呵护和叮咛，使我们承受了生命中最最无法承受的别离之痛。

母亲的逝世，使我们母女永别，天各一方，团圆不再，相见只在梦中，思念成为永恒。

感谢母亲，感恩母爱！

母亲的一生，勤劳而朴实，平凡而伟大！多少露来霜往，多少夜晚黎明，多少月寒日暖，多少春夏秋冬，母亲始终如一地，无怨无悔地陪伴着父亲一起，走过贫穷，走过饥饿，走过风雨，走过坎坷，走过青春，走过暮年。母亲用她清纯的心灵，勤劳的双手，温暖的怀抱，孕育和养大了我们姐妹俩人。

母亲的品德是高尚的。母亲是天底下最明事理的妈妈，开明、睿智、贤良温婉，热情、勤恳、任劳任怨。母亲的一个微笑，一个眼神，让我们倍感亲切、开心。有母亲在身边，可依可偎，平安、踏实。母亲的一句平常话，胜似千言万语，给我们的心灵撑起一片温暖自信的天空。

缅怀母亲，音容宛在！！

愿温馨珍贵的母爱如春雨般“随风入夜，润物无声”，给女儿们带来好运、快乐和吉祥！愿彼此间神圣的心灵感应，有如海深水长，天上人间共享。

祝母亲在那“鹤翔云飘，金沙铺地”的西方极乐世界里，安然、安乐和安祥！在女儿们虔诚的心香祝福中拥有永恒的天堂幸福。我们愿把对母亲无尽的思念化作孝敬父亲，使他老人家安享晚年，健康长寿的实际行动。

感恩母爱，刻骨铭心！！！

安息吧！母亲，我们永远怀念您！！您永远活在我们的心中！！！

女儿：于竹，于科 敬上

悼念岳母

勤俭操劳， 晚风驾鹤音容在

爱至亲朋， 良操美德万古存

婿 光志 敬挽

怀念敬爱的姥姥

敬爱的姥姥在2012年12月5日那样一个宁静的深夜悄悄地走了。您知道吗，这样的不辞而别对全家来说是怎样一个巨大的震撼！

姥姥，您在天堂过得还好吧！想起您，就想起和您一起度过的每一刻温馨时光。当年您和姥爷一起不远万里从中国来到异国它乡等待我的出生，从此我便在您的亲切关爱和精心呵护下健康快乐地成长起来。您对我的爱和谆谆教诲，点点滴滴都记在我的心里。

姥姥，知道您已经离我们远去，但是您的形象却深深地印在我的脑海里继续陪伴着我。我相信您也会在天上永远地凝望着我们，守护着我们，祝福着我们。其实您从来就没有走远，您一直在我们每一个人的心里。

怀念无尽，姥姥千古！

您的外孙：小禺

怀念姑姥姥！！！

您的逝世，使我们的亲人和戚友失去了一位崇高敬重的老人，您生前无论为社会和家庭都奉献出了毕生精力和坎坷的半生，您的一生是极不平凡的，您与亲人告别离去人间，再次相遇相见唯有在梦中追寻。让我们化悲痛为力量，寄托哀思，发扬您高尚情操和美德，悼念一生，为您送行！

姑姥姥一路走好！我们永远怀念您！

刘杨于雪夜洹上！