Lola Marie Walley

Lola Marie Walley, lovingly known as “Mama,” “Meemaw,” and her self-proclaimed nickname of “Spunky,” passed away at the age of 97 surrounded by the legacy of fierce love, laughter, and family she so beautifully created throughout her life.

Born on March 8, 1928, in Troy, Mississippi, Lola was a bright light who gave a piece of herself to everyone she met. Whether a lifelong friend or a first-time acquaintance, she created with others an unforgettable bond marked by laughter that lingers, hugs and kisses that remain through countless memories, and sweet whispers of “I love you, Baby.” Everyone knew Meemaw, and everyone who knew her loved her.

Lola was a woman of deep and genuine Christian faith. She lived those values daily and passed them on through her example, teaching her family what it meant to love, serve, forgive, and believe. Her faith was not just something she spoke about—it was something she embodied.

At heart, she was a comedian. She loved to be silly, to laugh, and to make others laugh right along with her. She had a playful streak and enjoyed practical jokes—never mean-spirited—just enough mischief to keep life light and joyful. Her sense of humor, paired with authenticity, made people feel at ease and deeply loved. Even during illness and hospital stays, visitors returned again and again, drawn by the warmth and joy she carried so naturally.

“Spunky” was a wordsmith who discovered her gift for writing early. One of her first poems, “At Granny’s House,” was published while she was still in high school—an early sign of the storyteller she would always be. Later she would serve Lee Street Elementary School as a Title 1 Reading Aide, helping countless students while sporting funny socks to bring a smile and encouragement to struggling readers. During her years at Aberdeen High School, she served as editor of the school’s local newspaper page in the Aberdeen Examiner and was crowned Queen of Aberdeen High, reflecting both her leadership and her vibrant spirit.

Lola attended Jones County Junior College in Ellisville, Mississippi, with plans to become a licensed schoolteacher, but instead met the love of her life and married James Lazon Walley. Together, they built a life with their three daughters and their families rooted in devotion, laughter, and love.

Meemas shared 63 devoted years of marriage with her beloved husband. Together they found great joy on the golf course during her younger years, from her late 30s well into her 70s. She worked at Beaver Run Golf Course in Jonesboro, Georgia, where she became as much a fixture as the fairways themselves. The adventurous couple also traveled extensively with friends and family, sharing love and laughter wherever they went. Lola and James, who always dressed alike for every occasion, lived in Mississippi, South Carolina, Texas, and Georgia, before retiring to “the cabin” in Otto, North Carolina. They spent their last years together in “the yellowbird” in Trailer City in Winter Garden, FL.

For eight years, Lola made her home at “The Benton House,” an assisted living apartment where the staff that loved her became family. It was there that she continued a cherished daily ritual: writing a poem for every walk she took. Her family published these poems in a book called, “Spunky Takes a Walk.” Even at age 94, Mee Maw faithfully transformed everyday moments into verse—infusing the ordinary with humor, insight, and profound warmth. Her words reflected a life well lived, a mind ever-curious, and a heart that never stopped observing the beauty around her.

Lola and James’s three daughters and their families have grown to a joyful total of 24, a legacy Lola and James fondly referred to by saying, “We started all this mess,” with more always “to be announced.”

Lola Marie Walley leaves behind a family enriched by her stories, strengthened by her love, and forever inspired by the way she taught them to notice life. Lola is survived by her three daughters:

Belinda “Lindy” Jane Faulkner, and her daughters Spring Lugo (Moses) mother of Raine and Zale, and Starr Faulkner (Julius) mother of Noble and Enzi;

Cindy Marie Harvey (Dave) and her children Brooke Lefevre (Trent) mother of Gabriel, Isaac, and Aaron; Bethany Kiesshauer (Ryan) mother of Brin and Milo; and son Ric Burrell; and

Melinda “Mindy” Walley Dietterick (Tony), and her child Ant Dietterick.

Lola was preceded in death by her husband, James Lazon Walley, her brother Johnny, and her sisters Nadine and Eloise.

Lola loved her family—fiercely and selflessly. She always wanted the very best for them and would readily sacrifice her own comfort, needs, or desires to make sure they were cared for. Her love was steady, unconditional, and unwavering.

Lola Walley lived a long, full, meaningful life—one marked by joy, generosity, faith, and connection. Her laughter echoes on, her lessons endure, and her love remains woven into the lives of all who were blessed to know her.