OBITUARY
Meigan Daishi Kacir
November 12, 2000 – February 12, 2021
Meigan Daishi Kacir, age 20, passed away in her current home of Tallahassee, Florida on February 12. Meigan was born on November 12, 2000 in Guangzhou Province, China.
Meigan came into our family at 18 months old, and, in her time with us, was a constant reminder to us of God's loving providence and care. She constantly impressed us with her uproarious sense of humor, her talents for cooking and art, and her willingness to ask hard questions about important truths. Having recently transferred from Valencia College to FSU, she was pursuing a degree in International Relations, as well as studying Mandarin. Meigan worked at Bonefish Grill (both in her hometown of Winter Garden and in Tallahassee) and deeply enjoyed cooking in her spare time. When not at work or school, Meigan was an avid fan of K-pop, often spending hours memorizing and performing choreographies. Graced with compassion for the suffering of others and an advocate for mental health and suicide prevention, Meigan was a gift to us for every day God allowed her to remain in our lives.
Meigan is survived by her parents, Russ and Nancy; her siblings, Chiara, Ernesto (spouse: Shawntel), Omar (spouse: Naomi), Karen (spouse: Cutter) and Jordan; her grandparents, Ivan, Betty and Luisa; and her beloved cat of 16 years, Smokey.
A service to commemorate Meigan's life will be held at Church at the Cross (700 Good Homes Rd, Orlando, FL 32818) at 9 a.m. on Saturday, February 20.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the National Alliance of Mental Illness or to Live Action https://www.liveaction.org/
Services
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Visitation
Saturday, February 20, 2021
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Funeral Service
Saturday, February 20, 2021
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Committal Service
Saturday, February 20, 2021
Memories
Meigan Daishi Kacir
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ADD A MEMORYGage Lamoureux
February 21, 2021
Meigan and I met through Valencia in our math class and immediately her and I got along. 2 years later she reconnected with me and after that me and her would spend many nights together playing games, nights where we should have both been asleep. They were some good times. Frequently me and her would would talk and just chat about life, and send each other snaps and memes. I'm heartbroken to hear about the news.
My heart goes out to the family, and anyone else who was touched by this charming soul. I hope she finds peace and solace on the other side and can rest easy.
Juan and Lory Ojeda
February 21, 2021
We are so sorry and so saddened to hear about Meigan. Our love and prayers are with her family and friends during this difficult time. ❤️
Teirrah Robinson
February 20, 2021
I worked with Meigan at Chipotle and boy was she a joy to be around. She was always so full of life making everyone around her smile. My greatest memory with Meigan is when we attempted to make the world’s largest burrito and it was actually a success! So much love and laughter and always a good time with her. I’m so saddened to have to say goodbye to her but I now know that she’s at peace and with God. Love you Meigan! Until we meet again
Sarah Kurtin
February 20, 2021
Meigan was the only other girl cook at bonefish, I had the chance to cook with her for about two months. I saw her for the beautiful soul that she is, we would always talk anime or deep conversation and I felt a connection. One that didn't develop enough, because I never knew she was in pain, though I wish I did. She smiled, joked, and surprised me with her strength every time we worked. She cooked circles around me and would never ask for help. No one outright roasted me the way she did and I loved her for it, but the way she looked at me when i felt anxious or insecure it was as if she could sense the moment I was off. She was extra kind to me then. Always. Meigan was such a kind and deep soul. I wanted to know more, and I should have asked, but her impression will forever have an imprint on me. My deepest deepest condolences to all family and friends of Meigan.
Delaney Taylor
February 20, 2021
I worked with Meigan at Bonefish Tallahassee. She is the wittiest young woman I have ever met. It’s not easy being one of the only females working on the back line of a restaurant, but she really knew how to hold her own! She was beautiful in everything she did, wildly intelligent, and her spirit will be so so missed among all of her coworkers.
Tara Duncan
February 19, 2021
I met Meigan while training... I remember thinking how bright her light shone, how strong she was... we joked, we laughed... we kept in touch when I went back to training with my longtime team. I will always remember how special she was. My heart breaks for her and for her family and all those who love her, but I know that bright light will always shine.
Brandon Wisler
February 19, 2021
I met Meigan working at Chipotle. I remember thinking to myself a lot that she seemed like she could do great things. I remember when she started deadlifting competitively and cheering her on because she was able to make it to the Olympic Stage. She was just a kid who was ready to start her life.
I may not have been the closest to Meigan but she was like a little sister to me. Always cracking jokes and checking in on me and obviously making sure I knew she was better at grill than me haha. There’s nothing I can say that can take away the grief I or anyone else feels losing someone like Meigan but I can offer this one grim reminder. She isn’t hurting anymore. We should at least be able to find some comfort in that fact.
Dominique George
February 18, 2021
I met Meigan when I returned to chipotle after I had my daughter . My first impression was “ WOW she’s a beast!” and she really was. She was great at everything and I loved working with her. Meigan was full of life , strong , smart and loved. She was such a hard worker and wise beyond her years. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of grief. She will forever be apart of our chipotle family and will truly be missed❤️
“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand. For I am the Lord your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.”
Isaiah: 41:10, 13
John and Helene Delgado
February 18, 2021
We will always remember Meigan’s beautiful soul, her wit and incredible talent. She was a gift to our family and a tangible reminder of God’s Grace and providence.
May the Lord’s comfort, strength and healing be with our family.
Rest In Peace, Safe in the Arms of Jesus.
Love Tio & Titi
Tiffany Rogers
February 18, 2021
I met Meigan at Longhorn. She was this ball of energy that I loved to be around. She was always chatting about something, asking questions, learning something new and having fun. She had a huge smile that I will always remember. Many prayers to her family and friends she was a sweet lovable woman that will be missed.
Emma Joseph
February 17, 2021
I met Meigan when I started to work at chipotle in 2018. I always looked forward to shifts with her as she always made work and fun time. I knew we were going to be good friends when she asked about the Day6 picture in my phone case, making her my first friend at work. Meigan was such an amazing and beautiful person who had so many passions such as cooking, art, weightlifting, kpop. Her bright smile and laugh always made my day whether it was at work or seeing her at Valencia. She always spoke and raised awareness about mental health, even sharing her own stories. I remember sending her a message thanking her for always speaking about these things as I always felt alone and had no one to talk to about my own mental issues. She responded to me with “ I think coming out on the other side gives me insight and I can use that to connect with other people. I think talking about these things can start a change.” Her family and her loved ones are forever in my prayers. May God bless your family.
Nahir Rosado
February 17, 2021
May Meigan be at peace. It is my sincere hope that the Kacir and Ojeda families can find comfort and strength through their faith and in one another. There is no pain greater than the passing of a loved one. Please accept my deepest condolences.
-Nahir Ojeda Rosado and family
Jenna Quiambao
February 17, 2021
In the summer of 2018, I applied and had a job interview at Chipotle. I had a friend who worked there, and she invited me to sit at a table full of her coworkers during their lunch break. I sat beside someone with a BTS phone case— her name was Meigan.
Since then, I learned that Meigan Jin Daishi Kacir was such a hardworking person and kind friend. She wasn't strong just physically, though I admired her weightlifting skills like crazy. She pushed through so many things in her life that I got to hear and witness. I can walk through Winter Garden Village and know that she has worked in practically half of the stores there. I'll always remember our conversations about KPOP artists and music we loved, especially at my house over ramyeon; I was honored to be with her at her first KPOP concert. I'll remember the one time she visited my church for my sister's birthday and prayed with us at our sleepover after. We prayed over so many things and talked some more. I'll definitely remember her goofy laugh and ridiculous jokes, our playful disagreements, and how short she was. (I can joke about this because we're like, the same height.) Meigan was a smiley star.
I love her so much. I know so many others do too. Her family and loved ones are in my prayers. I remember what Kalley, a worship leader from Bethel, once said: "Sometimes it’s an unwelcomed mercy to be interrupted by limits, to be forced to rest, gathered into dependency, sustained in my weakness by something stronger until dawn’s relief. To remember that I didn’t design the seasons and I may not dictate them like I think I ought to. Night is not intrinsically evil, we should not be ashamed if we’re in a season of it. I’m learning to not rebuke the night, instead, let it fall and trust the eyes that can still see when I can’t, the intentions that can carry me through."
May John 16:22 gently carry us all— "Now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy."
Rebecca Garcia
February 16, 2021
Meigan and our oldest son (Israel) shared their Senior year together learning through Classical Conversations, as the Kacir family has been instrumental throughout the homeschool community. As I look through the pictures from the family, I am overcome with a need to plead with God for Him to reign His comfort and peace to you all during these hardest of days. May He strengthen you all and give you all a unifying call to embrace one another and care for each other during this grief that is intense and real. God is so very close to the broken-hearted, this truth is worthy of claiming right now!
Rachel Klopp
February 16, 2021
There are no words to convey what my heart is feeling for your family. It is my prayer that Jesus' arms are wrapped around you as He promises to be close to the broken-hearted and to never leave or forsake you. Your family is in my constant and continued prayers. Love, Rachel Klopp and family
Steve & MaryBeth D’Auria
February 16, 2021
Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this time of grief. No words can express what you must be feeling. We are so very sorry for your loss. Please let us know if we can do anything for you. We will continue to pray for you & your family.
Sydney Douglas
February 16, 2021
Meigan was one of the first people to befriend me when I moved to Florida and started at Classical Conversations, and she will always hold a special place in my heart. She was a close friend and someone I could confide in. I admired her strength and dedication to everything she loved doing.
I can only imagine the grief the family is going through right now, and you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Juan and Olga Ojeda
February 16, 2021
Ours deepest condolences to The Kacir Family by the loss of Meigan. No amount of words can express the pain that you are going through. We are sending you love, prayers and strength during this time.
God bless your family.
Caprice Hairston
February 16, 2021
Our deepest sympathy to the Kacir family. My daughter & I met Meigan through CC . Nancy was my daughter’s teacher & Meigan was her classmate. They shared birthday get togethers & sleepovers. I remember Meigan coming to our home to cook a birthday dinner for my daughter. I always admired Meigan spirit of individualism . We will miss her greatly. Nancy, our prayers are with you & your family.
Caprice, Darrell & Destiny Hairston
Luisa Ojeda
February 16, 2021
Gerardo, Ariana and I are deeply saddened by the loss of Meigan.
There are no words that we can express for her sudden departure, but know that you and the family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Jose “Chegui” Ojeda
February 16, 2021
We are so saddened to hear this shocking news. Our hearts goes out to the entire Kacir family after this sudden loss. We pray that she has found peace. We always be here for the Kacir family if you need anything. With all our Love. God bless!
Tío Chegui and family
Tito Ojeda
February 16, 2021
To the Kacir family,
We are deeply saddened by your loss and extend our most sincere condolences and offer our prayers and strength during this time of mourning. We mourn with you.
May Meigan Rest In Peace.
Chiara Ojeda
February 16, 2021
Such a talented, funny, sensitive, and woke young woman. As you grew up, I was continually proud of and amazed by the deep passion you showed for your interests--weightlifting, culinary arts, social justice, KPop, art...you have left a hole that cannot be filled, and I will miss and love you forever.
Dyanna Hough
February 15, 2021
Our hearts go out to you in this time of grief. This world will not be the same without Meigan. Although we didn’t see her often, Gavin and I thought about her and enjoyed sharing the sport of weightlifting with her and sending her encouragement from across the miles. We are in shock and devastated and will continue to pray for you all. We love you.
Dyanna, Gavin, Calista and Harper