OBITUARY
Eric Jacob Bowen
December 15, 1939 – January 18, 2021
Eric Jacob Bowen, 81, passed away at 4:20 pm EST on January 18, 2021, at Mount Sinai Beth Israel in New York City, due to complications from COVID-19.
Eric was born in Rawalpindi, Pakistan, on December 15, 1939. His early life, much like his later life, was filled with mischief and fun, laughter and joy, good times that served to provide him with years of warm, happy memories. These were shared with his family, and especially his siblings, whom he loved dearly.
In September 1964, Eric wedded Elizabeth Lester in an arranged marriage. The couple had four children, and Eric and Elizabeth struggled to make a good life for their family. In the 1980s, in an effort to better their fortunes, they decided to immigrate to the United States, settling in New York City. Shortly after their arrival in Manhattan, however, their daughter, Jacqueline, tragically died at age 24 from brain cancer. It was a devastating blow, but the family persevered and, over time, was able to succeed in their adopted country.
Eric got a job as an air conditioning mechanic at Columbia University, where during his 22-plus years he befriended many people and touched many lives. He retired in 2011, opting to travel the world and dedicate his time to those he loved so much. He visited family and friends everywhere, roaming to Australia, Pakistan, Germany, Canada, Jamaica, the United Kingdom, Trinidad, St. Maarten, Italy and Norway. Eric had a passion for travel, and an equal passion for food. Vacations with family were his biggest source of joy, however. The only thing he loved more was to see everyone happy.
Eric is survived by his wife Elizabeth and their three children: Ivan, Jasmine and Andric.
Services
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Reposing
Friday, January 22, 2021
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Mass of Christian Burial
Friday, January 22, 2021
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Laid to Rest
Friday, January 22, 2021
Memories
Eric Jacob Bowen
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ADD A MEMORYLunéy Sánchez-Tubis
February 3, 2021
I was sadden to hear of Eric’s passing. Although I did not know him personally, I will always remember his contagious - brilliant smile. He always greeted my family with such joy when walking around BG grounds. Sending my deepest condolences to his family and friends.
Jessica Nuñez
February 1, 2021
My condolences to his loved ones. It is hard to think that I will not see him wave and smile from the bench anymore. He was so kind and friendly with his neighbors. He will be missed.
Amanda Vaughan
February 1, 2021
I met Mr Bowen years ago when he would walk his granddaughter to school (he would follow behind her since she was old enough to walk alone but he kept an eye on her). We would talk and he was always so kind and happy. He would always put a hand on my shoulder in church as he passed and I would do the same. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. My prayers and sympathy go out to his family.
Celia Odonnell
February 1, 2021
Like many at Boulevard Gardens, Mr. Bowen would brighten my day with his always sunny smile and greetings. I am so sorry for your loss.
Michael Fitzpatrick
February 1, 2021
So sorry to hear of Mr. Bowen's passing. He always had a big hello and a smile for my kids and I, every time we met on the grounds of our apartment complex. R.I.P.
María Giraldo
January 28, 2021
My deepest condolences to the Bowen family. It was always a pleasure to cross paths with Eric at the Boulevard Garden grounds. He would always greet you with a smile. His kindness and good humor will always be remembered.
Maria Cerretani
January 25, 2021
I am so sorry to hear about Eric's passing and extend my deepest condolences to the entire Bowen family. Eric was so kind to me when I first moved in down the hall a few years ago. I always looked forward to running into him and being greeted with that hearty hello. We often talked about where we had traveled to recently and he even brought me back a gift from his trip to St. Maarten, along with stories about the incredible descent onto the beachside runway. One Easter he showed up with a plate of incredible homemade food because I had told him earlier in the week that I wasn't going to be with my family. He clearly had a generosity of spirit and zest for life that will be truly missed by everyone whose path he crossed.
Muhammad Khalid
January 24, 2021
Will Miss You Uncle Eric. May You Rest In Peace. AMEEN
Khalid c/o Jonathan
Ernest Bowen
January 23, 2021
Matthew Bhonsly
January 22, 2021
To me, Nana was perfect. He was there for my entire life, and he was a part of my daily routine. Every evening he never failed to call me just because he wanted to use the minutes on his cell phone. He was truly the most caring, sweet, and genuine man on the whole planet, and I believe that with all my heart. Nana is my role model, and he is my hero. His sense of humor was the best, and he didn’t even have to speak to crack a joke. Everyone who knows my Nana knew he could make the whole room light up and laugh with just a simple hand gesture. In fact, I don’t think anyone can say there was negative energy when he was in the room. The loss of nana was not only a loss to me, nor was it only a loss to the family, but it was a loss to the world. The lives that he had touched, the smiles he brought, the joy he carried. My nana was 1 in a trillion, and I know there’s no one out there quite like him. One thing is for sure though, he’s definitely up in heaven watching us and smiling, letting us know he’s happy with us and for us. He wouldn’t want tears or sadness, he’d want happiness and laughs. He was a man that everyone loved, and I loved him with all my heart, my Nana.
Marco Cristiano
January 22, 2021
We loved Eric Uncle’s visits to Australia. He was always there for the special occasions in our life, my wedding, Ava’s baptism, my papa’s funeral. I will miss joking around and sharing a drink with Eric uncle. He was always kind, optimistic and open hearted. We will miss him terribly. May Eric uncle Rest In Peace. Love from Marco, Mino, Irene, Yogi, Ava and Joy.
Hina Perwez
January 22, 2021
Dear Mummy, Ivan Bhai, Robina Baji, Jacky ,Dolly Baji and all family,
We were saddend to know that Uncle Eric has left us. He was a wonderful soul , full of life and enthusiasm. He was an amazing person and he spent a remarkable lifetime. We thank God for such a person who was generous ,kind and adventurous.
We know we can’t make your pain go away, but we want you to know that our prayers stand by your side.
Stay Blessed all.
Perwez and Hina.
Nederland.
Hiba Badel
January 22, 2021
My deepest condolences to the whole Family. I met Eric Nana the first time when we visited New York in 2002 and he showed us all the sights. He was a caring and loving soul and loved to laugh and joke around. Whenever I think of him I always see his smiling face. May Eric Nana rest in peace.
From Hiba and family
Shireen Chugtai
January 22, 2021
I am so saddened by the loss of Eric uncle. He was a kind, caring and loving soul. He wasn’t just a great uncle to us but he also loved our mother, his Amy sister, very much. I was fortunate enough to spend my childhood with him and make some great memories. Eric uncle will be missed so very much. My deepest condolences to all the family.
From Shireen
Andrew Thomas
January 22, 2021
Dear Eric Uncle,
You were, are and will Always be a very Blessed Man.
May You rest in God's well deserved eternal Peace.
We Love you Eric Uncle and Will Miss You,
We didn't have the privilege of spending much time with you here, but you gave us so much Love and Care that we Can Never Ever forget and surely look forward to reuniting with you in Christ Jesus Our Lord and Savior ☦️ forever and Ever.
Amen.
"Thank you Jesus for one of the such beautiful Gifts on Earth like Eric Uncle 🌷🌺🌻."
Love,
Andrew, Tim and Sam.
Attaul Chugtai
January 22, 2021
Eric Nana was one of the kindest, loving and caring person I knew. Throughout his life he gave us love joy laughter and so much more. I will always remember his smile. He was a great example of a brother, Father, an uncle and a grandfather. After the death of our grandparents (Amy and G.M.Y. Patel) Eric Nana was our Nana. He supported his family in all matters of life. We all will miss him. I pray to God almighty that may God grant Eric Nana highest rank in paradise. May God give his family strenght through these difficult times. Amen
My deepest condolences
Cheeku
Attaul Chugtai
January 22, 2021
Eric Nana was one of the kindest, loving and caring person I knew. Throughout his life he gave us love joy laughter and so much more. I will always remember his smile. He was a great example of a brother, Father, an uncle and a grandfather. After the death of our grandparents (Amy and G.M.Y. Patel) Eric Nana was our Nana. He supported his family in all matters of life. We all will miss him. I pray to God almighty that may God grant Eric Nana highest rank in paradise. May God give his family strenght through these difficult times. Amen
My deepest condolences
Cheeku
Joshua Morrison
January 22, 2021
My condolences to the family and all friends. I first met Eric 23 years ago, almost to the day, in the workplace. His professionalism, courtesy, eagerness to assist and to teach, and his unsuspecting humor, are the traits which always stood out. These are the memories I’ve retained since and solidify what I’ll carry forward always.
Abraham Francis Bowen
January 22, 2021
Eric Bhai was a father figure to us when our parents died. I will always treasure a souvenir he gave me in 1974. He said"keep this with you wherever you travel". He was looking forward to my youngest son, Dean's wedding in August this year. We will all miss him. Rest in peace, Eric Bhai.
Patrick Mullens
January 22, 2021
My sincere sympathy to the Bowen family on the loss of their Dad ,his smile will always be remembered .
Ernest and Neelam Bowen
January 22, 2021
Eric Bhai what a great man.
Surely Neelam, me and the children will miss your cheeky smile and talk, never the less you did fight a good fight and have won the race. You have just changed your post code be happy and worry not. May the perpetual light shine upon your face as you are with God now. God Bless Elizabeth bhabi and the children and grandchildren during this difficult time. Our prayers and love are with you all.
Elliott Bowen
January 22, 2021
Uncle Eric/Taya Eric or as I called him Mini Uncle as he and my father look so alike, the only difference in their appearance was their height, he was shorter than my dad but he was such a fun loving uncle who had the funniest stories to tell and was always happy to have a scotch with his nephews. Ambreen and I had the pleasure of having uncle present at our wedding in 2010 where he put the Sehra on my head at my Sehra Bandi. We enjoyed his company many times after that when he would visit Australia. To my son Isaiah he was Big Dada from New York. He loved all his family and we loved him and his company just the same back. May his soul rest in peace with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
Margaret Rose Massey
January 22, 2021
I don’t have words to say anything. I am very saddened by this loss of us we lost a gem of our family a man who was full of joy and full of heart he was the best brother not only brother but he became a father to us he was always beside us in our goods and bads no one can take his place in our lives he was a good son a very good brother and a good human he always supported us in every way possible he used to go out of way to help everyone. Every year he used to visit us . He always took Albert as his friend not only his brother- in - law .Eric Bhai will be missed dearly. He will always be remembered in good words we all love you Eric Bhai..
Sarah Stewart
January 21, 2021
We are heartbroken by the loss of our Eric Papa. It pains me to sit here and reflect on my memories of the role he played in my life. I regret not celebrating him and appreciating him for the wonderful Papa he was when he was here. He wasn’t just our Uncle he was like a Grandfather to us. He was always happy and excited to see us. He greeted us with so much love and excitement. Walking over to the corner store to buy treats was always the highlight of our visits as kids. Our love language was definitely an animated type of sign language that we all understood (due to our lack of Urdu speaking skills). He had a childlike playfulness to him. He was definitely a free spirit who loved to have fun, travel the world, eat well, drink well and boy could he rock the dance floor! And if you were not married it was his life’s mission to make sure you were getting married in the near future. I’m sure all my cousins can attest to this. I can only hope to live my life the way he did. To work hard, put my family first, stay in touch with those I love, love with all my heart, travel the world and dance like no one is watching. May his beautiful soul rejoice in heaven with our Angel Sister by his side. Until we meet again. With all our Love, Sarah, Jermaine & Jalyn.
Suzy Bowen-Pinheiro
January 21, 2021
An amazing uncle full of life and love. He loved to dance and travel and go out and buy us ice cream and pizza and anything he thought would make us happy. I have so many memories of visiting New York every summer ... it was always such a treat! He reminded me of my dada and treated us as such. Even though you are gone you will forever be in our hearts... Rest In Peace Eric Uncle 🙏🏽❤️
Love always Suzy, Paul, Tiago, & Matteo
Jasmine Francis
January 21, 2021
It is with heavy hearts that we have all come together to celebrate the legacy of Eric Uncles life. Especially in times when it is difficult to be physically close to him and his family. My memories of Eric uncle are far and distant but it is easy to see from the memories being shared, Eric Uncle was a family man who had a zest for life. His heart exploded with love for his family as he encompassed them in all of the travels he ventured across the world. Although he lived a full and meaningful existence he seems to have been taken too soon from his loved ones. This makes his loss even more difficult to bear. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to all the people in the world Eric Uncle has touched, but above all to his family.
God has taken you by His timing Eric Uncle. By this we know “Wherever a beautiful soul has been, there is a trail of beautiful memories”
May God bless you and may you soul rest in eternal peace.
Jacquline Bowen
January 21, 2021
My Dada has always been there for me even when no one else was there. I know that when I got stitches as a baby, the doctor said that I was saying his name over and over again in the emergency room, “Dada, Dada, Dada”. I remember he always took us to the park everyday and just sat there on the bench watching us play. I remember he would always pick Matthew bhaiya and me up from school every single day. I remember him dropping me off to school and stopping at the bakery on the way everyday just to buy me a treat and to tell everyone there that “this is my granddaughter”. I remember when he even walked me to my first day of high school. All of our road trips together were so special whether it be to Canada or Lake George. My favorite trip with him was when we all visited St. Maarten. Especially the car rides in St. Maarten, I remember the two of us sitting in the back giggling together at everyone in the front. He was my Sponsor at my Confirmation, because he’s always been my biggest supporter and role model. I will forever miss having him by my side cutting the cake. I still remember him giving weekly allowances to Matthew bhaiya and I, all the way from elementary through high school. I remember him waking up early on Monday mornings just to give me the allowances and he would always tell me “don’t forget to give it to Matthew first thing when you see him at school”. There are so many more memories with you Dada. For the past 18 years, Dada has done everything and more for me. Dada will always be in our hearts forever. I will try my hardest to make him proud and live each day in his memory.
Nasir and Beena Patel
January 21, 2021
Uncle Eric was a beautiful soul and meant the world to both of us and our children. He was their famous Dada. We will always remember his smiling face. He was always so cheerful and happy. He loved his family with everything he had. He was there for everyone in their happiness and sorrow. Eric Uncle we are so lucky to have had you in our lives and we will always cherish your memories. May God be ever so Merciful. And May you rest in peace. Amen
Rebecca D’Souza
January 21, 2021
Eric Uncle was such a joyful, fun loving man. He was kind and loved his family so very much. His dance moves were unforgettable. His memory will always live in our hearts.
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Becky, Hill and Elijah
Joshua Bowen
January 21, 2021
To my Papa/Eric Uncle/my partner in crime. Papa lived for the children. He was always able to tap into his inner child spirit which made him so easy to connect to. He always made me laugh for as long as I can remember. Whenever mom and dad said no, Papa always said yes ! Although my Urdu is horrible we always managed to communicate through smiles, laughs and outrageous hand gestures. I’ll miss how every time we came to New York Papa was already waiting downstairs ready to greet us because he was so excited to be with family. As soon as we put our bags down he would always take me to the corner store to buy “Papa Juice, aka Tropicana Orange juice” I’m 27 years old today and I will only drink orange juice if it’s Tropicana aka Papa Juice :) ill miss you papa and I’ll miss your kind hearted spirit. You were more like my Dada than my Uncle. My deepest condolences to my older brothers and sister Ivan Bhai, T2 Bhai and Dolly Bhana. I love you guys. To my Elizabeth Aunty, your little Kalu will see you soon to give you a big hug and kiss. To Jacky and Matthew , keep strong , i love you and we will create memories together just like Papa would have wanted us to.
Sunil Bhonsly
January 21, 2021
I have no words to express and say anything because anything I say and express is no match for my Father he was like a angel and pure from his heart to anyone and everyone regardless of who you are and how you are never I know he ever hurt anyones feelings, he was always their to support anyone regardless he knew you or not he would go out of his way to help them ,That’s why I know today he is with Jesus and may his soul Rest In Peace and continue to bless all of us.
Robert Bowen
January 21, 2021
I am very saddened by the loss of my brother who was more like a father to me. What I will remember most about my brother is that he was always a happy-go-lucky guy. He never got upset and never held any ill feelings in his heart. He was a good son, a good brother and a good father. He took care of the whole family. He was a very loving, caring and helpful brother. He always checked on all his brothers and sisters. He was a jolly person who worked hard and also enjoyed his life to the fullest. I wish everyone could be as lucky as me to have a brother like him.
Margaret and Bunny Francis
January 21, 2021
Eric bhai was a loving, caring man who was full of life and pure of heart. He was so proud of his grandchildren. We are deeply saddened and sorry to learn of this loss. Please accept our warmest condolences. The laughter we shared with Eric bhai will always be echoed in our memories of him and stay in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers are with bhabi and the kids, their grand kids. May God bring peace upon his soul and may he rest in peace.
Don Schuellein
January 21, 2021
To the Bowen family - I had the privilege of working with Eric for many years. You could not find a harder-working gentleman than Eric. He was always willing to help out any mechanic that needed a hand and no one was more honest than Eric. Columbia University was very lucky to have such an employee and we were all fortunate to work with Eric. I will miss our phone chats and going with him to visit the men at our old shop at Columbia. May the Lord bless him and hold him in the palm of His hand. Don Schuellein
TracyAnn Massey
January 21, 2021
It is with deepest sorrow and sadness that I write this tribute to you. You were an uncle in a million;
Uncle Eric Bowen was humble, kind, loving, caring and good at heart and soul.!!! You touched so many lives by your selfless and countless acts of kindness, always giving and never expecting any favours in return.
Your Death came as a shock to us and as you sit in the arms of the Lord, your family and friends mourn your death.
we all love you and will miss you deeply.
Rest In Internal peace🙏🏻uncle Eric Bowen
Vishal John
January 21, 2021
Eric Sahab as Everyone calls him India, Eric Uncle and Grandpa will dearly be missed. As Pramodhini Aunty says how humble, simple and hearty as a person Eric Uncle was. As Suresh Ji says his persona was one in a million and a loyal child of God. Dolly and Vincent lost a fatherlike person and Vishal and Joy will miss their Santa Clause who always sent his love through their Maami & Maama. We really wanted to have some time spent with you in India but we're sure you are at Rest.
We will see you on the other side Eric Sahab.
All the Relatives from India also sending their thoughts and Prayers.
Santan & Margaret Lobo
January 21, 2021
Our deepest condolences to Aunty Elizabeth and the family on the sad demise of Uncle Eric. Eternal Rest Grant unto Eric O Lord and may Perpetual Light Shine upon him and may his soul Rest In Peace. Amen.
Jonathan Thomas
January 21, 2021
Eric Uncle/ Nana, there are times in life where words are not enough one is speechless and thats exactly what we feel today. Like all your loved ones, we found one of the most dearest person and soul in you. You gave us love, laughter, joy and care which is unmatched and this came because you had a heart of gold.
For your ever abounding love throughout our lives and the countless memories we shared together, from our hearts we say THANK YOU.
FAREWELL AND ENTER GODS GLORY OUR DARLING SOUL. MAY REST IN ETERNALLY PEACE.
FROM MICHAL, JEHON, MARILYN AND JONATHAN
Mr. Peter Bob
January 21, 2021
We feel really privileged to have know Eric. He was a Gem of a person young at heart, down to earth and very lively Human Being .
We meet last year on his vist to Pakistan.
May God receive his soul and give the courage and strength to his family to bear this irreplaceable Loss.
Joanna Griffin
January 21, 2021
It was always a pleasure spending time with uncle whenever he came down to Pakistan. He was a genuine soul. People like him are extinct in this world. He always spread love, joy and laughter to old and young. We will miss him greatly but nevertheless we will see him again one day.
We salute you uncle for living such a beautiful life! You were an inspiration! You were a jewel of a person!
Jonathan Massey
January 21, 2021
Uncle Eric was not only an uncle to us but a good friend , he liked to talk and listen to one’s problem and was alway there to give a helping hand and best of all a great drinking buddy to most of his nephews. The parties were always fun with him and with his signature dance moves. A good hearted, positive thinker kind of guy. We are already feeling the void he has created in our hearts. Cheers uncle Eric, i will always give a toast for you. The beautiful memories you created will always be with us. Rest in peace dear.
Alicia Robrecht
January 20, 2021
Eric Uncle was always so good to us and when we were little. I have so many memories of visiting NYC. He would give us money as then we would walk to the corner store when they lived on 106th street. We’d buy chips and candy, and feel like grown ups paying at the counter all by ourselves. He was so kind, playful, and always wanted everyone to be happy. All the weddings, anniversaries, birthdays, family celebrations, and holidays are such good memories. He loves his family with his whole heart. My condolences to the family. May you find comfort and peace. Prayers and love - Alicia, Alan, and Bradford
Anita & Atul Karnik
January 20, 2021
Dear Jasmine and family,
We are still trying to reconcile with the bitter reality that dear Uncle is not with us anymore. Unfortunately, life suddenly takes such a sharp turn that leaves you totally benumbed. Though we are very sad, we are feeling blessed that dear Uncle heartily enjoyed the home-made dosas he had longed and wished for and that too on his birthday.
We will always cherish and celebrate his goodness, compassion, love, and affection that he bestowed upon us and all those who came in touch with him.
May his kind soul rest in eternal peace 🙏🏼
Anita, Atul, Ritika & Romir
Marina Pinto
January 20, 2021
Please accept our deepest sympathies. No words can console you now as you are grieving but time will be the healer and will help you cherish his wonderful memories for years to come. He must be happy with Jackie by his side. He loved his family and lived a happy life. He was a caring and kind man. We are praying for Uncle’s soul to rest in eternal peace. Will be praying for strength, peace, and comfort for you and your family. Hugs
Michael Massey
January 20, 2021
We will miss you dearly Uncle Eric. May you rest in peace! There are so many priceless and unforgettable memories shared with you from childhood which will be cherished forever! We went for a road trip from NYC to Washington DC, Bus Trip to Atlantic City, You attended mine and Christina wedding in Pakistan, visited us in Trinidad and Norway! We also enjoyed good time when ever we visited at your place for vacations in New York! Its difficult to choose favorite as ALL of them are PRICELESS! We will always remember you and miss you! We know now you are in a better place and resting in peace! Love you always from Michael, Christina and grand children (Seth,Marc & Levi)