 Sean, I still cant believe this is real. We just spoke days before. I'm so glad we did get to speak and catch up when we did. You were always a favorite of mine and I'm so glad we became friends when we did. Meeting you and getting to know you was truly a blessing. I have more wonderful memories with you than I could count. The time you were leaving the house for work in a hurry one morning and slipped down the front hill in the mud. You came back up to the front door laughing hysterically and looking like swamp thing. When you came to my rescue when my truck broke down trying to come rescue you! Teaching me how to become a slightly competant carpenter and helping to pull splinters out of my finger when I was incompetent. So many long conversations about life that I will always hold dear and I'll never be able to thank you for keeping me sane after I lost my dad. Don't you worry about a thing my friend, I'll keep watch over your sweet Samantha and give her all the hugs and kisses and dog treats. It breaks my heart knowing you're gone and Chris and I will miss you always. Rest easy my friend. Until we meet again.  - Jessica Butler & Chris Rainey 

 You know it's hard reading a high school friends obituary. As we enter a phase of our lives that's used to only be that of the generation before us.. Sean I look at all of the pictures of your beautiful family .. you were a blessed man.. you left your mark on this world and clearly in the hearts of the ones you came in touch with.. That's what a man could hope for as he lived his life.. Soar with the clouds and my condolences to this beautiful family..

 Beautiful in Blue was purchased for the family of Mr. Sean Jeffrey Cavender. 

 Sean Cavender there is so many memories and wonderful things I could say, you were the truest most kind man I have ever known you have a heart of gold, I will forever cherish the times we spent together, no matter how much of a brat I was you were always there for me through it all. We had a relationship that most people will never get the chance to have, I'm forever thankful to have had the chance too! My favorite memory is so many there isn't just one but if I had to choose something it would be the births of our babies finding out Seany was a boy, or you telling me jonathon had my eyes he is for sure a perfect mixture of us! I will forever miss you but I know I will be seeing you again one day. Fly high Sean J, love Solly 

 Just one of many memories, me and Sean at the hospital when Candy and Lee Lee we're having Halston we both had our ear to the door waiting to hear Halston cry lol so we could finally go in and welcome him to the world !! He was there when I married Steve and we rented a huge cabin to stay in for me steve our boys and Soll abd him and our nieces and nephews , y'all should have seen us in the hot tub joy dish liquid bubbles abd the snow falling down what a blast we had , we always did everything together as a family .. we were blessed to be able to see him once again not long ago he come and hung out all night with us we had so many memories and laughs I'm so very grateful to have gotten to do that ... he has and always will be my brother my friend , Steven and I were reminiscing abd we both looked at each other and said you know we never not once had a cross word with him , just a laid back easy going guy that was real , you will be missed brother but never ever forgotten , my prayers go out to his sons his dad family and friends this is a hard one to take , much love abd hugs prayers for peace and comfort, love GoGo and uncle Steve 

 To Sean's family. My prayers are with you all. He was such a good hearted man.. I am sorry for your loss... RIP Sean 

 I only met Sean a few times, but I can say he raised a fine young man in the man Jonathon has become, Jonathon and my granddaughter Tatum make me proud everyday hearing how well they are doing, Love and prayers for Tatum, Jonathon and family. Pray you all find comfort and peace in the days ahead. MeMe and PaPa 

 Dear Calendars,  My heart and prayers are with you rt now. Sean Cavender is one of the only ppl I can honestly say hands down is&was my friend he taught me what the word friend means&I mean truly means from the min I met him to the min he passed Sean was the most loving,loyal&very defensive towards the whole world to stand up for me") so I'll end this with our favorite friendship saying that I send when his mom passed-  True friends are like stars,  You dont always see them,  But you always know they are there!  &  A real friend walks in,  When the rest of the world walks out!  Love always,  Jennifer Theiss 

 I met Sean Cavender when his son Sean Jr. started dating my granddaughter Raven. I know his love for his boys was strong. His love for Sean and Raven's children was even stronger. His joy was just being in the room with them, talking to them, and watching them play. He told me his favorite place was at the lake fishing. He said being at the lake was so peaceful and important to him. He will be missed but always alive in the hearts of his family. 

 Penny & Wayne Wright lit a candle in memory of Mr. Sean Jeffrey Cavender 

 Penny & Wayne Wright and family. purchased the Simply Elegant Spathiphyllum for the family of Mr. Sean Jeffrey Cavender. 

 The cavenders have been more family than friend for over a decade I'm deeply sorry for y'alls loss and feel just as the same that Sean. Would want y'all to be happy and remember him and the love and joy he brought to all our lives. All we can do is try may the Lord bless our struggle 

 Our deepest sympathy for the entire Cavender family. Although we can't be there, know that our love is with you. Aunt Penny, Uncle Wayne, and family.  

 So sean an the Cavenders been in my life since I was little when they lived in the hideaway trailer park with my mother who is gone rip mom never forgotten . Well sean an I been best friends for a very long time. Even when things were rough he was always there for me. I got clean a year ago an I hit him up on Facebook an till the day he passed we been talking an hanging out together till he came back in my life when I needed him the most I got pregnant an he was there for me when I had no one.. i have so many memories of him an i will never forget him nor will ever forget his smile.. he always knew how to make me laugh .. sean Jeffrey cavender u will never be forgotten. I will always love you. 

 Sean was my cousin. I always knew it was special when they all came to visit us. All of us kids would go outside and play. We all grew up went our separate ways. I was so happy to find everyone on Facebook n just look thru pictures. You were all loved and missed. Fly high Sean. We love you 

 Amber lit a candle in memory of Mr. Sean Jeffrey Cavender 

 I have known Sean since I was 5 years old. His niece sierra was my best friend. The best thing about Big Sean is that he loved you right where you were at, he never batted a judgmental eye, he just loved you with the best unconditional love. He has got to watch me marry his nephew and create two amazing kids - my daughter asked me this morning to call the hospital to see if her prayers were answer and I told her that big Sean is in heaven and she looked at me and wiped my tear and said "don't cry mama he is our angel now" we will miss you and those bear hugs forever Sean, March around about us and keep reminding us you are still watching over us, just from an amazing view from above, you are so loved. Hug gram for me  

 I have had a lifetime of memories with my father but one that sticks out the most is when he was teaching me how to drive a stick shift in his old ford ranger and I backed it into a telephone pole. He didn't get mad at all he just laughed at me I sure wish I could go back to sitting in that truck with him for about 5 minutes just to tell him how important it was to me. 

 Jonathan I'm sure he left this earth knowing that if nothing else,you and your brother were his world and drive in everything he did along with everything he was:""(

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Sean Jeffrey Cavender

February 28, 1975 – December 1, 2019

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