OBITUARY

Franklin Merle Steele

December 18, 1942February 28, 2021

Franklin (Frank) Steele, 78, of Yakima, passed away peacefully on the morning of Sunday, February 28th, 2021 from Lewy body dementia. Some know him as Frank, Stubby, Mr. Steele, or Coach. He was born in Chehalis, Washington to Robert and Mary Steele on December 18, 1942 and raised on a farm in Onalaska, Washington.

Most of his childhood was spent on the family farm or working in the woods for his dad’s logging company. Frank was a three-sport letterman and standout athlete in football, baseball, and basketball at Onalaska High School, graduating in 1962.

Frank spent a year after graduation to attain his barber license and cut hair at the Olympic Hotel in downtown Seattle. After a year of cutting hair, Frank went on to play football for the legendary coach, Jack Elway, at Gray’s Harbor Community College. Central Washington University was his next stop for collegiate athletics. Frank played two more years of football under Tom Parry who had an enormous influence over his coaching and educational journey. Frank graduated from Central with a bachelor’s degree and teaching certificate in physical education.

It was at this point that Frank found his true-calling in life---working with and inspiring young adults in high schools across Washington State. Frank made teaching/coaching stops at Hoquiam and Highland High Schools before settling in at Toppenish High School. It was at TopHi where he was an integral part of Bob Winter’s football coaching staff for over a decade, culminating with a state championship in 1989. At the same time, Frank built, from the ground up, a state-recognized powerlifting program having numerous state champions, most notably, Sophia (Sophie) Trevino who became a National Powerlifting Champion. The program’s success, eventually, led to Frank being sought after to speak at national conferences throughout the United States. But more importantly, the years at TopHi allowed Frank to inspire and touch the lives of many young adults who remember the stories of Coach Steele to this day. Frank will always be a Toppenish Wildcat and wear the gray and maroon with TopHi pride.

Frank concluded his coaching and educational career sporting orange and black at Davis High School where he brought with him the same passion, tenacity, determination, grit, and love for young people that he had at Toppenish High School. He coached football and built Davis’ powerlifting program into the same powerhouse that he left at TopHi. The metal patch weight room inspired many Davis Pirates. Earning a metal patch t-shirt can be found throughout the valley---just ask a graduate from TopHi or Davis from the 1980’s through the early 2000’s; they’re worn with pride knowing Coach Steele made them work hard to earn it!

When Frank wasn’t in a gym or football field, you could find him spending his summers coaching at TBI or Stottlemyre’s Baseball camps or he was in the woods logging. There was never a day off for Frank---he worked hard and played even harder! It was during these summers that Frank developed his passion for fishing.

Frank hung up his coaching shoes, retired from teaching, and picked up a fishing pole that never was far from his grasp. He loved fishing because he could take his family, friends, and old coaching buddies out to Ilwaco, on the Columbia River, or wherever the fish were biting in Washington State. The truck, boat, and trailer were always hooked up and ready to roll out to his next destination. The stories and pictures that came from Frank’s years fishing filled his cup. He, absolutely, loved fishing! He, also, had a wild sense of humor, making those around him laugh until their stomachs hurt. Many of his stories (and there were many) would have you laughing to tears!

Throughout all of this, Frank’s number one priority was his family. Frank and Susan met in high school and later married in July of 1967 and were married 54 marvelous years! Before having children, the two were adventurous and traveled either backpacking in Europe, camping in the woods, or riding motorcycles/dirt bikes with friends. Eventually, Frank and Susan put roots down in the country, out on west Ahtanum Road (West Valley) and together they raised three children: Trent, Tori, and Timi. Frank’s oldest son, James (Jimmy) was an integral part of his life, as well. Frank was an exemplary Dad, as he was always supportive and loving. He was incredibly close with his kids and always their biggest fan. As they needed his advice or creative words of wisdom, he did so in a firm, gentle, and loving manner as they followed their dreams. Frank was an incredible role model to many throughout his life, but the ones who admired him the most shared his DNA. Being a Papa, was the highlight of his life. Frank adored his grandkids and spent countless hours making memories that will last a lifetime. Whether it was something as simple as taking them swimming in his backyard, changing irrigation pipe, spending time in the shop, or helping with the cattle, life was good with Papa! He made the most out of every minute with his grandkids and taught them how to work hard, be mentally and physically tough, but most importantly be a good person who loves others. They all have incredible memories fishing, camping, going to Willy D’s, and just hanging with their Papa---he really was the BEST PAPA EVER! Frank loved them dearly and their love for him is unmatched! Peace and hay bales, Papa...

Frank was preceded in death by his parents Robert and Mary Steele and his sister Bobbi Perkins. He is survived by his wife, Susan, four children James Scott, Trent (Cherie) Steele, Tori (Kevin) Brennan, Timi (Lincoln) Nugent, and grandchildren Riley, Sy, Tai Lyn, Marli, Seri, Jett, Carli, and Chase. The family would like to thank Highgate Senior Living for the last five years of unwavering love, patience, and care that was given to our Dad. We can never thank Highgate enough for all that was done to make our Dad’s last years content. Also, the family is grateful to Memorial Hospice for their compassionate care in the last year. Thank you for your transparency, guidance, love, and understanding. Most importantly, the family would like to recognize George Benedetti and Sophia Trevino for their compassion, love, and support as our Dad declined in his health. We know it wasn’t easy to visit and for that, we will always be grateful to each of you!

Frank left a lasting legacy and made a positive impact on this world and so many lives. He will be greatly missed by many. The family would like to invite those who were impacted by Frank to a viewing, which is scheduled for Thursday, March 4, 2021 from 4:00pm-8:00pm at Keith and Keith Funeral Home (902 W. Yakima Ave., Yakima, WA 98902). There will be a private family burial.

A celebration of life will be held this summer where many can gather, reminisce, tell stories, and laugh about Coach Steele, Frank, Stubby, Mr. Steele, or whatever endearing name you had for him. Memorial donations are requested to the booster clubs at Toppenish High School or Davis High School in honor of Coach Frank Steele

Services

  • Visitation

    Thursday, March 4, 2021

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Louisa Larson

May 26, 2021

My condolences to the family of Mr. Steele.........he was always one of my favorite Teachers at Top-Hi! He was engaging and had a wonderful sense of humor. He showed much courage as a Drivers Ed Instructor, getting into a car with multiple students with little, or no drive experience. This had to be terrifying and yet he did it every single day. He was adamant about completing our "head checks" and I cannot tell you how many times that has saved me! Honestly, I have had a few close calls over the years & have silently always thanked "Mr. Steele" for drilling that check in. He was so very dedicated to the students & athletes & we were blessed to have him as a Coach & Teacher. Rest in Peace Mr. Steele.......you were loved and you will be missed!

Abby (Hovsepian) Coleman

April 3, 2021

My deepest condolences to the Steele family. Mr. Steele was one of my favorites at Davis High back in the 90s...He pushed us to our limits (and beyond) in the weight room, and encouraged us to be our best in life. He was be dearly missed. And to his family who I was lucky enough to also get to know, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

ANTHONY BUENO

March 13, 2021

Here's Oscar Martinez and I at a meet, notice he's watching to see if I complete the lift. All Mr. Steele bringing out our best. Best times in our powerlifting family under Mr Steele.

ANTHONY BUENO

March 13, 2021

Hey Mr Steele,
Thankyou for being an inspiration to me and creating the "munchie" award for the little guys. Even though pound for pound we were the strongest. I won , 2nd and 3rd places at all our meets and even a few 1st place trophys. Oscar Martinez and I were back and forth under you, taking home the trophys, except when that guy from Hoquim was competing. But we never gave up because of you. You will always be remembered as the GOAT to me.
Anthony Bueno

Dawn Lustre

March 10, 2021

Hello, I met Mr.Steele at good ole TopHi in the 90s. I heard about this powerlifting team once I hit the 9th grade, but I end up going to a different High School my freshman year.
I did go back to Toppenish my sophomore year and joined the Wildcats powerlifting team and I was so shocked at how serious the lifters were. I jumped right in and got one of those t-shirts once reaching the goal of all three lifts combined as one. Great memories shared with this team.

I did not know he passed away and my condolences go out to the family and friends who knew him.

Amy Kay Lindh

March 7, 2021

Frank was a very giving person. He gave of his time, talents and care. He always lifted your spirit with his humor. Prayers for Susan and the family. May you be surrounded in God’s love and peace.

Rodney Heit

March 6, 2021

Frank Steele. And i mean Steal. Tough and never surrendering,but with a great heart. Frank Will always hold a special place in my memories,i was a TA for Frank in Drivers Education Class at Toppenish Hi School and he was my football coach and mentor. He will be missed greatly by many including me. I am proud to have known such a man . rest in peace my friend. RH

Dana Carson

March 5, 2021

My mom, JoMarie Carson, and I would like to extend our deepest of sympathies to the Steele family.

LeDonna Charley

March 4, 2021

Coach Steele, You Are and Have ALWAYS Been the Biggest Impact for Many of Us. Thank You for Your Guidance & Passion You Shared with All of Us. Your Training Has Always Been Used Throughout My Life. You Will Be Missed and Always Loved. ♥️😔 RIP COACH STEELE! 🧸🕯

Joelle Staudinger Loveless

March 4, 2021

I wanted to thank Mr. Steele's family for sharing him with our school and students. I was a student of Mr. Steele's, off and on for 3 years at Davis High School. He was so inspiring to me and I was not a great lifter! But when I finally won 1 t-shirt, I was so proud! And it was because of him....I still have it and I graduated over 25 years ago. I even took a zero period class one year, just so I had room in my schedule to take weights. I also remember him hosting lifting events at Davis...I didn't compete, but I helped out and those kids were so driven and inspiring, all because of Mr. Steele. Very fond memories of that weight room, with the radio blasting, and Mr. Steele as our leader. I am so sorry for your loss. Lots of love to your family. xo, Joelle (Staudinger) Loveless

FROM THE FAMILY