Think of u often. Leave music on your Facebook app. You are so missed. Love and hugs.❤️🙏🏻

Sue and Tom,

My heartfelt love and thoughts are with you today.  My heart breaks for all of us who have lost a child  but know that you are not alone in this sad time because you are thought about along with your precious son.

My love, 

Cappi Duncan

It’s hard to believe you have been gone a year, you are Loved and missed forever ♥️

Can't visit anymore or support your girls. Got hacked June 11, 2022. Can't send you music videos anymore. But I can remember you growing up on Merry Lane and being Mark's friend. Nothings changed still in recovery hospital since Nov. 13, 2020. Hope you have lots of music in heaven. Missed be so many of us.

MY LOVE…..
THOMAS THOMAS THOMAS 

HE was a lot more complicated than we could have ever imagined…

HE had a heart the size of the Grand Canyon and every single one of us all felt that we were special in his eyes…

HE always made you feel like you were the only one and he loved you and only you unconditionally…

SO how could anyone of us think that he would love us anymore than the other…

HE loved us all the same…  God blessed him with this love NOW his job was done… 

HE showed us all how to love one another unconditionally.. as he had loved us all individually…

There will NEVER be another love like HIM except THROUGH the love of Jesus…

UNTIL that time we must practice what THOMAS/Tom / Tommy/ Dad / Father /Friend /Son lived, breathed, believed, preached and taught us all  “ UNCONDITIONAL  LOVE”

Love you…
My Fred 
Yes your Wima 



Tom, Sue and family.  I was Facebook friends with Tom and I was so in awe how he handled it all with love, Courage. He amazed me with his strength… my love and prayers to all of you.    Your cousin Debi. 

Tommy, Sue and family,
It was good to see you all on the visitation recording tonight.  My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time. I was following Tommy on his fb page and I am admired by his courage and his comfort in moving toward the gates of heaven. He is obviously loved much by his children and others that he touched in life.  Stay strong cousins.

I’m so lucky to have had you in my life. No matter where I was in life. Good or bad..right or wrong. You always came  with unconditional love and never any judgement. I’ll miss your laugh.
You were the best. I’m so glad I got to tell you that. 
No more pain for you Nino. All my love & thank you.

— Tami

Tom and Sue,

Please accept my heartfelt condolences on the death of your son, Tommy.

I didn't know Tommy, but I worked with so many Lara children over the years and have spoken with you or waved when I walked my dog past your house.

I also have lost an adult child, my daughter Dixie, 4, four years ago.
I feel your pain and sadness because this is not how it is supposed to be, losing a child.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this very difficult time of your lives.

Sincerely,

Cappi Duncan
Cherry Valley

I love you too the moon and back dad. I will  hold you in my heart forever. No one can ever replace a fathers love for his kids and vice versa. I miss you dad soo much . 

Love always your baby girl Nessie 

Tommy, my brother, my best friend.
I can't put into words the emptiness I feel since you left me. For 8mths I lived my life caring for you, and watching the changes come over your life. During this time I learned so much about life.. How tomorrow is never promised, yet the fight to get through today goes on... You NEVER gave up.. You are a true soldier with alot of heart.. I want to thank you for trusting me with your life, loving me and  always making me feel special. You showed me more love in the 8mths I cared for you than I have felt in my life.. I miss you so much Tommy. I was with you through it all and I told you, I would never leave your side. Up until your last breath, by your side is where I remained.  P.s you'll always have a room in my house.. (Reflections of my life) 
by Marmalade: 
Love your lil sister Mandy

My god where do I even start ;( dad i never thought the day would come when I would not be able to call you and tell you about my day and what I made for dinner…..my life is so incomplete with out  you dad I’m lost  I keep telling myself it’s going to be okay but dad you we’re everything’ to us …. I’ve never met any one as strong as you dad …. You fought til the end and I am so glad you made heaven your home as bad as it hurts for me to say that …. It kills me to wake up every day and your the first thing that’s on my mind I love you dad so much man and I miss you like crazy … it’s killing me not to be able to call you and hear your voice. I have never been so out of it in my life …. This definitely changed me …. I promise to do what you said and take care of my siblings and honor you and try to love the best that I can …. I’ll forever miss you and cry for you daddy …. My heart is broken  I’ll see you in my dreams fly high with the angels and always know you did the very best you could do raising us kids !!!! 
We couldn’t have asked for a better father then you !!!! I love you daddy so much make sure you save a spot for me 

Missing you so much pop, fought till the very end. We prayed for a miracle day in and day out although it may seem nothing happened God mended what was broken on the inside. My right hand man whenever I needed something I thank God he gave us time to mend our relationship for that I am forever grateful. Never claimed to be perfect but strived to do your best and I will always remember your laugh, little rhymes ( hey you’re a big guy). So much to say pop but not enough words to amount to who you truly were. This is not goodbye because ILL DEFINITELY SEE YOU LATER!lol. We will rejoice and celebrate your life. I love you pop ps I got one more silver dollar (Allman brothers Midnight rider)

BROTHER,what can I say that every one else doesn’t know.brother was the best truly,brother had a heart some people strive to have in this world. I’ll never forget watching tv and talking or just listening to music hanging out.which was probably the thing you like to do the most.brother  I will miss you and your company. I keep a case of Diet Coke in the house because I know that’s what you always wanted and it reminds me of when you were here.brother I won’t forget you and I am proud to have called you my friend 

My condolences to my best friend Genessa,  her sisters, brother, and the rest of the family! He’s with you always! And will forever be proud of all you did! I love you Ness! 

My condolences to the family. Tommy was always  taking care of, loving and supporting his children. He was always a true gentleman. Rest In Peace Tommy 

I love you daddy and I miss you so much!!! 

My thoughts and prayers go out to Tom, Sue, Mandy and the whole family, at this difficult time. Tommy will be missed very much by his family. I will miss him. Tommy and I have been in and out of each other's lives since high school. I know he is with Jesus so that brings me Comfort. But a world without Tommy in it very weird.

Tommy was my next door neighbor as a kid. We lived next door to his family from 1969-1977. Tommy was a good friend and rival. We were sandlot buddies and played cowboys and Indians together. We use to listen to Earth Wind & Fire and pretend that we were in the band up on stage. I would run into him from time to time and catch up. I saw him for the last time back in 2017 and said hello. 
I know he had a relationship with our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ so I look forward to seeing you once again my friend.
God Bless!
  

OBITUARY

Thomas Lawrence Lara

9 September, 1964 – 16 November, 2021

Weaver Mortuary and Crematory

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