Been missing you more then usual with graduation coming up Dad. Hope you’re looking down and you’re proud of me. Love you so much.

The love and memories of my grandsons will never leave me. Tommy and his brother Tyler  are in my thoughts and prayers every day of my life and will never leave me. 
I pray every day of my life that they have joint the lord  in heaven along with other  family members that we have lost over the  years. 
 With all my love POP  SPANGLER💕💕💕

Tommy,
I haven’t found the words to say yet, bro. And I still haven’t. But man, I miss you. A lot. We had some great times together and some tough times, as well. I still am not quite sure what I’m trying to say here, but I wanted to post something. I wanted to post that I still think about you. And that I still miss you. A lot of people do, bro. Anyways, you’re still living  in my head and in our memories. As you would say, “take ‘er easy.”  Love you, my friend.  

Dear Tom and Dawn,

We’d like to express our sincere and heartfelt sympathy over the tragic loss of your son Tom. These few words come with many prayers but, no words can heal and comfort parents pain and suffering over such a heartbreaking loss. Hopefully support of friends and family may warm you and continue to sustain your spirts in your struggles and times of stress. Again, Tom and Dawn with our deepest sympathy and prayers to you and family.

Sincerely,
Gordon and Nancy  


Thomas,

I’ve been trying to think of things to say or how to put something together and I just can’t. Although growing up together 13 years apart, you always were the cool cousin to be around. The “black sheep” of the family if you will. I always looked forward to hearing your crazy stories and watching you peel wheels on the bike. We would all hear you from a mile away and say “here comes Tommy”. I promise I’m going to get my MC License and make you proud (lol). After we lost Tyler you and I become closer within these two years. Come to find out we had a lot more in common then we thought. You were a total badass with a great heart and I know you felt the same about me. Your tough love proved it and I am forever great full that I got to spend the last 6 months with you working by my side. You were so smart, comical and anything that broke you could always fix. I just wish I could have helped fix you( we all do). This hurts us all so deeply but I am trying my best to accept it and hope you are at peace. Please watch out for us all with your brother by your side and don’t forget to visit me during “witching hour”. Next time we meet shall be in a place where there is no more darkness. Rest easy Thomas, I’ll love you forever. ❤️

Tommy was my grandson that we both shared our love for each other for 38 years. When Tommy left me I lost a part of my heart and the memories of Tommy will live within me for the rest of my life. I also lost Tommy’s brother Tyler two years ago from being addicted to drugs. I can only hope and pray that we do not judge our family members, and others for the mistakes they make in their lives caused  by the addiction of drugs to support their addiction. My prayer is that others with drug addiction problems find ways to get the help needed to overcome their addictions to drugs and other families, and loved ones do not have to feel pain and hurt that my family and I have.

Dear Tom and Dawn,
I remember our children playing together and loving watching them be carefree and hearing their laughter.   May you find peace and comfort in all your memories.  We love you and are very, very sorry for your loss. 
Love always, 
Sandy

Our group of friends having a drink at Sean Bolan's.  Tommy, reading aloud from a random book he found. It was embarrassing and hilarious all at the same time. 🖤

Dear Tom and Dawn.  We were so sorry to hear about your son Tom.  Please know you both are in our thoughts and prayers. We love you 💕💕💕

OBITUARY

Thomas Richard Hoerr, III

20 December, 1982 – 27 December, 2020

Schimunek Funeral Home

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