Eric Francis Mccann

Life is never perfect but it is always beautiful. Year 1998 was no ordinary year for me. A certain tall, good looking and charming guy took the initiative to break the wall of silence and the first meeting happened. Eric McCann was his name.

Shy and demure I am, I reciprocated to the invitation of friendship. Then, going out for dinner or movie became a regular routine . Until, the tough decision came. Eric proposed that we should live together. Year 2001, we finally bought our first house where we stayed as a couple at 6914 Pembridge, San Diego.

Life came like a force of nature, because we treasure the kind of friendship we have. 2007 was very memorable for me because we took a special vacation trip to London, England. Enjoying the unique culture, old architectures and landscape with somebody you love, for me it was eternal.

Craving for more of what Europe can give us, we took the bullet train to see famous Eifel Tower of Paris, enjoyed the food and bought some souvenirs in a place where fashion and culture are their statement. We were younger than that we both expressed the wild and adventurous part of us.

On our way back to London, we passed by Bath where we enjoyed churches and old building. Last in a space of antiquity , we were not minding the time our tour bus left us. This time, our adrenalin rose up and panicking we looked for a transportation to bring us to our hotel because the following day was our flight back to San Diego.

Luck of all lucks, we found a last trip to London. Well, I told him as long as we are together, we can always solution..

Yes come and go, Eric was a very workaholic. I worked as well. Life became so routinely. Until 2011, I decided to pay a visit to the Philippines in which Eric decided to come with me. Sad to say, he really don't enjoy because it was monsoon season back home. But after days, ne appreciated the rain and found out that life must go on despite of rains. Staying at home with families, relatives and friends with food on the table which our culture enjoyed became common activity. For both of us, we enjoyed it.

I know, it was quite a challenge for the both of us to put our best together. I came from a different culture. He came from a different background.

But Love makes it very possible and easy.

Yes, no man is perfect. I am not perfect, but through the years that we were together, we surmounted those differences. I was able to accept him for who he is. Frustrated sometimes because he was hardheaded especially when it comes to visit a doctor for a check up but I managed to live with him with a caring heart.

In the most sacred place of our home that we have lived from 2006 up to now at National City, the relationship that we have has grown to a level of love which no one can question.r

I have taken cared of him with so much dedication being his wife but more that my caring heart, Eric has always been the loving, caring, generous and gentle man that I have been with. I have not regretted that I had him for almost 20 years. Eric thank you for the Man You Are. I always love you...