Dear Barrie, Bev and Steve.............we had such wonderful times with your mother and dad and think of them so often.   We thank you for your phone call and we do plan to attend the memorial for your mother.   We will enjoy seeing you since we remember you from when you all were quite young!  We fully intended to visit your mother this fall since Jan lives in Hudson,  but obviously we didn't get there and haven't gotten up to visit Jan and Dave as yet.   Our sincere condolences to you and your families.   Love,  Eleanor and Bill Moody

Dear Barrie and Bev, the loss of a beloved Mom is always heavy on your heart.  Rejoice in the many memories I know you have of her.  My thoughts are with you.  Love Vernell

September 24, 2012

Dear Bev,
I was truly sorry to learn of the death of your beloved mother.  My thoughts are with you.  When we lose someone we love, it seems that time stands still.  Having lost my mom ten plus years ago, I know how hard it can be. Hold tight to memories for comfort. Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.  To lose your parent is to lose a substantial part of your past -- and that is a significant loss.   I only met your mom briefly, but to leave this world a daughter as fine as the woman that you are is no small accomplishment, and for that, alone I wish I could have gotten to know her better.   I am sure that she was a well-loved person, wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother, and friend.  She and your beloved dad were amazing when you had to make that emergent unplanned trip to France.  They never skipped a beat and were always there –ready, willing, kind, caring, able, and gracious.  They were a dynamic duo.
There are certain people who touch the lives of those they know in a very special way. Knowing them brings us joy and inspiration. When they are gone, the memories of their warm, guiding presence stays with us.  I am certain that your mother was one of those people and that she has left an indelible mark on the hearts and souls of so many individuals who knew her. I feel blessed to know you -her wonderful daughter.  Her legacy will live on through her family.  
Words are futile at a time like this to assuage your anguish and that of your family.  May the warm memories sustain you and may you be comforted, too, by the thoughts and compassion of others who are sharing this sorrow with you.   I pray that in the years ahead the good Lord will sustain you and your family and give you all peace and great health.   May you have a tranquil heart, knowing that you were a wonderful and attentive daughter who did so much for your mom and got her through many difficult times. Without you, she may not have enjoyed her longevity.  
Please accept my heartfelt sympathy and know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I am so sorry that I was not able to attend the services.  If I can do anything for you or your family, please don't hesitate to call me.  
Sincerely,  Marianne

Our sincere thoughts and prayers go out to the Butler family. May the God who gives peace be with all of you.-Ro. 15:33

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Helen Mae Butler

17 December, 1918 – 17 September, 2012

Bennett Funeral Home

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