This is Cary Lothringer writing of my sincere surprise n condolences of Lyndsay ' passing.  Yes, it's 2025 n I have just tried to look up her mom, Lisa.  Totally shocked.
God bless the Segal-Bator family.  💓🙏✨️ 
Sincerely,

I was best friends with Lindsey when we both resided in Boston.  We met at the tanning spa I worked at, and instantly connected.  I loved every time she came in to my work, because she always knew how to make me smile, even when I was down.  Lindsey was the life of the room, the party, anything she was involved in.   I was devastated to hear about her passing-- I was thinking about her a few months ago and reached out to her on social media.  I didn't even know she was gone.   We kept in touch until 2018.  My condolences to her family and loved ones-- her family and friends that I never met.  May God bless you in the hard days to come.  I feel so happy to have known such a smart, beautiful and resilient woman, my dearest friend Lindsey.  

I just recently learned of Lindsay's passing.  I was her teacher at First Choice For Children in Pembroke.  I am crushed and heart broken that she is no longer with us, absolutely devastated by her loss. Lindsay was a fun-filled, spunky little soul from the moment she walked through our doors. She made friends quickly to the delight of other teachers and her many school friends. I also had the privilege of knowing her parents, especially mom, Lisa and her extended family as well.  My sincere condolences to her entire family.  My heart breaks for all.

Very sad to hear the news of her death. I remember her as a child when the family was in Pembroke. More recently, I would run into her in Bow, and will remember her at her best walking Ms. Tilley (dog) on a warm spring day. Although I didn't know her well; it seems to me she lived life on her own terms and there's a lot to be said for that.

Kind Regards

David T. Swett

Todd, Lisa, Sydney, Jackson and to all the Segal /Bators, please accept our heartfelt condolences. You are all in our thoughts, Lois and Todd Fahey

Lindsey had a heart of gold. She’s was motivated, smart, funny, and caring. Lindsey accomplished so much during her lifetime. Her and I had a special bond. She was my Concord Hospital buddy, born in the next delivery room over. That bond remained and her memory will exist every time I hear the Segal-Bator name. She will be greatly missed around Bow/Concord. My thoughts and prayers to the Segal-Bator families. 

Although it's been years since I've seen Lindsey I remember her bubbly personality and sweet ways. She will be sadly missed by family and friends. So sorry for your loss. Deborah Billian

Lisa, I remember when you were pregnant with Lindsey.   She grew into a beautiful young woman.  You have my deepest sympathy for your loss.  She's in God's kingdom now keeping her grandfather company.

Lisa,  Please accept my most heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your precious daughter, Lindsey.  Her bright smile and sweet nature are what I remember most from the the elementary school days.  I can see from her photo that she grew into a beautiful woman!  I am wishing peace and comfort to you and your family.


Lindsey and I were finally able to meet and spend time together last year. She immediately told me she loved me and thought the world of me. She had so much faith in me.. when I had none at all. She was ALWAYS happy. ALWAYS optimistic. ALWAYS energetic. ALWAYS selfless. She was such a ray of light when everything else in my life was darkened. She totally hated on me having a candy drawer..but when she thought I was asleep I could hear her rummaging around in the drawer eating tons of sweets lol, she loved my large variety of marshmallow cereal in the pantry, she loved when I came in her room for ‘tea time’ with her cat Binx, she also hated on our brother(Adam) for taking the car causing us to be home bound for days on end..but in those moments we were able to bond and learn so much about one another. I thank God for giving me the time I had with her even though it was cut entirely too short. I love you my sister. 

I met Lindsey in the lobby of the Beth Israel emergency room in the early morning after my brother died. I found out later that after Ari and I went in and found out Tony was gone, and promptly lost all sanity, she sat in the waiting room for hours, worrying about us.

We got to know each other mostly over text in the following 9 years. She was very much like my brother in the way she only ever talked about her struggles to make me feel less alone in mine. She would text me out of the blue just to see how I was. Since Ari died in late February, Lindsey was a rock for me; I swear I could have called her in the middle of the night and she would have answered. 

To Shayla and Connor specifically, please know Lindsey talked often to me about how much she loved you and how proud she was of you.  To the rest of the Allston Family, you've all experienced so much pain and trauma in your adult lives and it never seems to end but I know Lindsey, Tony, Ari, and Sully are watching us from somewhere and must be so proud of how hard you are trying to keep moving. 

All my love to everyone who knew Lindsey and adored her,

Cate

Dearest Lisa, Todd, Jackson, and Sydney

Please accept our deepest sympathy for the loss of your lovely Lindsey. We will remember her engaging smile, unwavering friendship, keen wit, and shining spirit.  We cannot imagine what you are going through, but we are here if you need anything.

The heavens have made surely room for a new bright, bright star.  
With Love and Sympathy, Bob, Jane, and Maddie Palisi

Lindsey you will be missed so much. I am so Happy I  got to know you over the years and I really enjoyed our conversations.  Had a few good laughs when you would come to the warehouse and help me ship some UPS. Such a wonderful young lady with a beautiful heart ❤️.  Lots of hugs to your family. 

Our cousin, Lindsey, was such a beautiful young lady. She will live in our memories forever. We remember when she was traveling to Hawaii and had a stop over in Los Angeles. We picked her up at LAX Airport and spent the day in Manhattan Beach. We had such a lovely time and got to be together for the whole day. Lindsey will be missed forever, but never forgotten. She is a shining star in heaven and with her beloved Da. Jody and family, wish we could be there with you, in person, but we hope you can feel our presence as we are there with you in our thoughts and in our hearts forever, Abbey, Lisa and Todd 

Lisa I cannot believe that I am reading this about your beautiful daughter.  I pray that you can heal with every loving memory of Lindsey.  Its a parents worse nightmare to lose a child.  My heart breaks for you and the rest of the family.  Sending you much love and healing thoughts.  Rest in the knowledge that your Dad was there to welcome her with open arms.



Lisa, Todd and Family, 

I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. Know that everyone who knows you is thinking of you and Lyndsey and remembering the many wonderful memories they have of their time with Lyndsey and how she touched their lives.  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. 

I am so very sorry to hear of your daughters passing. I cannot begin to imagine how painful  it is to lose a  child. I will keep your whole family in my thoughts and prayers.

I remember Lindsey walking across the street… sitting on the 
front steps with me and just chatting… Maybe paint our finger nails 
(And some times Jack’s)… just being neighbors.  She was a bright light that has been extinguished too soon.  Our deepest sympathies to the Bator and Segal Families…

Dear Lisa and family,
Trish and myself have just learned of your beloved daughter’s passing. Please accept our deepest sympathy. We never had the pleasure of meeting Lindsey and it has been years since we have seen each. nevertheless, the warmth of memories have stayed with Trish and myself regarding the Bow years. Jodi, Bobby, David , Becky, and Alan, you will all sustain each other as you go forward, and may you find comfort that your Lindsey is now with her most wonderful grandfather George whom we have no doubt loves her dearly. 
With sincerity , love , and some measure of peace one fine day. 
Anne and Tricia McGowan 

I am so very sorry to hear of Lindsey's passing.  My deepest sympathies to her family at this very difficult time.  May she Rest In Peace.  Deb Dugal

Although Lindsay left Bow High School many years ago she is warmly remembered by all who knew her here.   It is with sadness that I have heard of her passing.  Surely the world is a little less bright this week than it was.


Lindsey's bright light shone for so many students while she was at Bow High School. I was lucky to get to know her and benefit from her compassion and understanding of people. She will be missed. 

Lindsey was such a bright light. Her kindness, sense of humor, and strength lives on in everyone that was lucky enough to know her. From soccer camps to babysitting our bros to speaking in Harry Potter quotes - thank you for all the laughs, Linds. You are so missed. <3

Lindsey was a beautiful person inside and out and an incredible fighter. 

Sending my love, thoughts, and prayers to Lindseys family during this time of healing. 

Lindsey you were a very kind hearted loving girl! You were always smiling! I've known you since you were a little girl! You are family to me! I'm going to miss you very much!!!!! Love you!!!!! 

Tom and I were so saddened to hear of Lindsey's passing.  She was a beautiful woman and loved her family dearly. 
Our family sends our deepest condolences to you, Lisa, Todd, Sydney and Jackson, as well as Lindsey's extended family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.  
Love to you all. 
Lisa and Tom Rogers

Such a beautiful photo of Lindsey and a great way to remember her. I am so sorry I will not be there to share my condolences with Lisa, Todd, Jackson and Sydney, as I am out of town. But my thoughts are with all of you at this sad time. 

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.  Cyndy and Tom Chagnon

Please accept my heartfelt sympathy on the loss of your beautiful daughter, Lindsey.  
Lindsey was in our ALPHA group last summer. She was an amazing young woman who had much to offer our group. She was always open to sharing with all and was always quick to offer comfort to others even when she was dealing with her own struggles.
She always talked lovingly about her family.  Especially her parents and grandmother. 
She was well loved by her ALPHA family and will be missed, always.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this unimaginable loss.  If there is anything that we can ever do to help, please let us know 
Lindsey will forever be in our hearts.  thoughts and prayers.  May she rest in the peace that she so deserves.
Marie Marquis


This news of Lindsey passing is incredibly sad. Even though we weren’t the closest of friends we were still friends. Whether we we hanging out outside of school, in math class together or after we both graduated we still stayed in touch even if it was just to say hi or go to the gym. She was always the sweetest person whom truly loved her family and her kitty! She will be missed by many but she will never be forgotten and will be looking out for you all from above. 

OBITUARY

Lindsey Bayla Segal-Bator

3 November, 1989 – 4 April, 2022

Bennett Funeral Home

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