Aunt Jessie, Pam and Jamie,
 My deepest sympathy to you during this time of sadness in your lives. Its so painful to lose someone you love so much. I pray that you feel the peace of the Lord around you to help you through the days ahead. I have many good memories of Jim myself...they make me smile! He will be missed by many.

Love and Prayers to you all!

jim i cant even find the words to say but i will start by saying I am lost. I feel like a part of me has died the day you did. WHY WHY WHY???? I do feel very great full to have had so many great childhood memories having you as my brother. even if you thought mom just had me so you could use me as your punching bag.lol i would give my left arm my right arm whatever you might want to punch right now to have you back here. no matter what kind of abusive brother you were I would'nt have exchange you for anything! not even if someone offered me a free procedure.I know dad was there to welcome you into the next part of your life please give him a kiss for me.I have lost 2 men in my life that have meant everything to me. but the only thing that keeps my head up is that i will see you both again some day,until then please keep watching over all of us down here and keep us all safe! I LUV U!!!!

Jamie, I am so sorry for your loss. You have lots of good memories and that's what you hold on too.Never let the kids forget him talk about the good times..y'all are loved and prayed for daily.Mama Carol

Jim, You maybe gone but  never forgotten . I loved you as my own. I will never forget the flood of 1994 you jumped into the boat when you saw the snake.I will never forget the good family times we had.  Jim you and I always wanted the best for your kids Jamie and Ian,I will always love you for that.until we meet again Mama Carol ( you always called me your favorite  Mother in law)

Dear Aunt Jessie, Pam and Jamie,

We were all saddened to hear the news of Jimmy's passing. I think Cheryl summed it up perfectly when she said that there will be many wonderful family members waiting on the other side to welcome him home.

May the days ahead become a little easier for you all and know that we all are thinking and praying for your well being.

In sympathy and sent with much love,
The Borgerding Girls - Jeanette, Debbie (Andrews), Mary Ann and Diane (O'Leary)

Jamie our heart goes out to you and your family for your loss and pain, there are NO words to express how sorry we are about the passing of your daddy!  Its so hard to lose a loved one especially your parent. He was an awesome person. We use to have so much fun getting our families together for camping/fishing trips and playing dominoes with all the friends.  He is your Special Angel now!

I'll always remember the goofy tricks we would play on each other like the egg fights and crashing Traci's sweet 16 party with shaving cream. There was also the serious side like my daughter's wedding and getting me a buddy pass so I could say goodbye to my dad before he went home. Jim may be gone but he won't be forgotten.

I will remember all the goofy tricks we used to play on each other old friend. The egg fight in the house, crashing Traci's sweet 16 party with shaving cream, ya da ya da. Gone but never forgotten.

Jamie I am sorry for your loss my sympathy and condolences go out to you and the kids . 
I Love You and kids Jamie

                                                        LOVE YOU ,
                                                         Mom

Jim,  I was so sad to hear of your passing!! You have always been a great and caring cousin. We had lots of fun times together when you would come visit for the summer. You were always our personal tour guide whenever we would visiti El Paso. Even when we visited you in Houston you did the same. I'm thinking now that maybe you went into the wrong profession!! You have so many great and wonderful people waiiting for you on the other side, now you have no worries. You left behind a daughter and grandchildren that can carry on your legacy.  And don't worry we will take great care of your Mom, we all love her like our own. 

Love and miss you!!!
Cheryl Flaherty-Wold
(your forever cousin)

Jimmy, you are in our hearts and prayers today and always..Love you

We can take comfort in knowing that now you have special guardian angels to watch over you. You will always be in my heart and prayers, we sure did have some fun together. Thanks for making our trips to El Paso so memorable and special just like you were! Love you and know we will meet again some time Jimmie, my lil cuzzin!

I am so glad that I had the chance to live in Elpaso with Jimmy at Aunt Jesses house.I will always cherish that time of my life.I will never forget you Jimmy. your favorite cousin Ron Worm Jacobson.   "

Dad I dont know what to say. I do know that I miss you so much and I love you even more. Daddy please know I love you and you will always be a big part of me. Thank you for being a great daddy and grandpa. We all miss you RIP daddy. Love you always Jamie

I am so sad about the passing of Jim, I still can't believe that He is gone. I will miss Him & our chats we had on FB I will always remeber him for His Big Heart, He was so caring, I can't tell you how many times He had asked me how I was doing over the past year. and all the times He was our fantastic Tour guide when we went to El Paso  Texas. He Loved His White castles any time He came to Minnesota, That's the first place we would have to visit,   The next time I have one it will be in Memory of you Jim! and let's not forget He loved the MN State Fair! 
Jim Loved His Family and Extended family in Minnesota . I will never forget Jim's last words He wrote to me on FB,  "Remember I Love You" 
Jim I sure wish we could have had you longer, Say Hi to Mom & Dad for me, And I love you too Jim!
 Love, your cousin Jeannie

OBITUARY

James Carroll Ashley

Born 20 DECEMBER, 1961

Cashner Funeral Home & Garden Park Cemetery

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