Ray was born in West Covina, CA on August 19, 1964. He joined the Marine Corps in 1983 and served for 17 years. He then joined the Collier County Sheriff's Office in 2000 and was employed until his death. Ray loved to coach football, photography, and watching the Raiders or Lakers play.
He is survived by his children; Raymond Trujillo III, Alexander Trujillo, and Jason Trujillo; siblings and many coworkers and friends.