Name: Westminster Memorial Park and Mortuary
Address: Westminster, CA

I will miss all the good quality times spent with you and family in California.  I love you so much aunty!  Will miss your beautiful and kind face, your beautiful smiles,  generosity and your kindness.   You are a beautiful person inside and out!  

My mom loved to have fun anytime with anyone. 

I will miss having lunch with you after the doctor appointments. 

She was also the best friend to all of her friends. 

We always had the best time, whether it was a random day or a holiday 

Ba Noi's smile could light up any room, anywhere

We love you. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and love with us. We will miss laughing and talking with you.

I’ll miss driving in the car with Ba Noi and having her tell me to drive more “cowboy”. I’ll miss going to Pechanga with Ba Noi and playing the slot machines with her. I will miss the amazing woman I was so lucky to call Ba Noi.

You like to travel the world with family and friends.

Christmas won't be the same without you and ba.  

You travel to Minnesota to attend my graduation.  Love you grandma.  Josh

We will miss you so much during Tet now.  

I will always remember auntie as a strong person, always smiling and full of compassion. She is now in peace. – Barbara

She always takes me shopping and I miss travelling with Grandma-- Jerry

Dear Grandma, thank you for being there for me when I was upset or needed someone to cheer me up as you were always there.  You took care of me when I was a kid and bought me a lot of toys which you probably spent thousand of dollars or more worth of toys.  Whenever I see you, you make me feel happy and relax as I will always remember and love you – Jacob

Ma Bay is the best example of the “The Virtuous Wife” Proverbs 31:10-31. Asia Pham

You were always there for your brothers and sisters. 

Ba Noi would be so animated when she told me stories of her childhood. I will miss spending time with her and her laugh and her hugs. Bianca Aboubakare

Ba Ngoai was the embodiment of the Proverbs 31 woman. She worked humbly, loved deeply, and gave generously. She also had an amazing sense of style! I am thankful for past memories with Ong Ba Ngoai and the everlasting promise of heaven.  Vivi Pederson

One of my favorite memories with Ba Noi was when we took her on her first bus ride in the US. We had just learned that with a few quarters, we could go to the Westminster Mall. The bus was our first experience of "freedom" on our own, and we were so excited to tell her all about our adventure when we came back to the store. She shared with us that she had never taken the bus in the US, and asked us if we'd want to go again, but this time with her. Despite it being our second time around, we were still very excited. Similar to how we didn't need our parents to drive us, she didn't need Ong Noi to drive her - it was just us "braving" the world together. As silly as it was, it was just another moment where she just made us all feel as though we were entirely special and invincible. Any time I was with Ba Noi, I would always feel completely safe and as though nothing could touch me. I'll miss soaring with her, protected by her wings. Carissa Aboubakare

You were always there for me.  Love you Ba Ngoai, Kelvin.

You were always there for all of us.  You sacrificed your life to provide for us.  Thank you mom.  You are now with Dad in heaven.

I will miss you mom, you were always there.  You always give me advice in subtle way.  You sacrificed so much and did not expect any in returns.  You will forever be in my heart.  You always wanted to look beautiful and always taking care of all of your children. 

I remember when I was in the hospital, she came in out of nowhere and pleaded with the doctors to give me pain meds.  Then to soothe my pain,she massaged my legs and arms and kept telling me "it will be OK".  I will miss her voice and her touch. Forever you will remain in my heart ma.  Roselynne.

Today my mom went to heaven.. she is in the better place joining my dad in heaven.. the hardest part was letting her go, she is my mentor and my best friend..we have everything in common.. the same style, and we love bling bling stuff.. I will miss her so much, not one day goes by that we don’t talk nor see each other’s.. I missed her at work and I missed her phone calls every morning.. I will miss our yearly vacation.. I will miss our shopping days.. I will miss us hanging out with my boys.. Jerry and Jacob will miss u grandma.. I know when u go away I will be lonely and I will loose the most important person in my life..But i know that u have been lonely since dad went to heaven and now u are in a better place and happier next to dad.. I just want to thank you with all my heart for being my mom.. always there when I needed you and always caring and loving me.. I will miss your smile and beautiful face.. you will always stay in my heart.. one day I will see you again in heaven but for now I will see you in my dreams.. I will always love you mommy...🙏😘😘😘❤️❤️❤️ Dalida

“Strength and dignity are her clothing, And she smiles at the future. She opens her mouth in wisdom, And the teaching of kindness is on her tongue.”
‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭31:25-26‬ ‭

Our mother/grandmother/great grandmother Zaubedah Aboubakare went home to be with our Lord in heaven and joining our father/grandpa/ great grandpa on Wednesday November 21st 2018. Even though we are heartbroken with her departure, but we know that she is no longer suffering with pains and sorrow.
The following services will be held to celebrate her life:
1. Visitation and prayer service - Friday November 30th, 2018 4PM - 8PM
2. Celebration of Life service - Saturday December 1st, 2018 9AM - 12PM
3. Burial service will follow right after Celebration of Life service.
All services will be held at Westminster Memorial Chapel, 14801 Beach Blvd, Westminster, CA 92683.

We would like to thank all of our family and friends who have prayed and continuously supporting us during this difficult time.


My mom and I we took this picture on her last birthday celebration. I cannot believe that would be our last birthday picture together. 
She went home with the Lord and reunited with my dad in heaven. I am so happy she has no more pains and sufferings but I miss her so dearly every day since she passed. I miss holding her hands to comfort her. I miss her eyes looking at me when I brushed her hair, washed her face, and told her everything would be fine. I miss listening to her breathings, her soft voice, her smile and even her heartbeats. 
My mom is more than an amazing woman. She is generous, forgiving, genuinely loving, and sacrificing mom. She only gave but never expected to receive back. She cared not only to her children, grandchildren, great grandchildren but to her extended family and friends. She tried to please everyone. She loved to host her relatives and friends as much as she could even the times she became ill. She was always ready to listen to your troubles and went her way out to help and support you. She only showed you her beautiful smile even when she was in extreme pain and sorrow. Everyone came into contact with her even the nurses and doctors fell in love with her. 
I am very proud to be her daughter. I will miss her phone calls to check on me. I will miss her comments on Facebook “LOVE YOU CON”. I will miss traveling with her. I will miss her so much in every holiday celebration and every family gathering. I will miss taking her to the doctors’ appointments. I will miss the most her comforting smile telling me everything will be ok. 
Love you always, Má. I will see you again one day in heaven.

OBITUARY

Zaubedah S Aboubakare

10 June, 1944 – 21 November, 2018

Westminster Memorial Park and Mortuary

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