What a wonderful lady and supportive mother to her children. I remember her wonderful laugh when she listened to a funny story shared by any of us. Blessings to each of her children. Requiescas in pacem, Toni!  Mark Mathern

The physical time I got to spend with Toni was not very long but the impact she made in me lasted a lifetime.  

Toni, I wish we could have breakfast together just one more time - with our mama's!  Wish I could be there to celebrate your beautiful life today but will be there in spirit!  Can't wait to see you again for eternity! 

Praying for your precious family and those you loved.  Micki

Toni was a wonderful friend and neighbor.  She was always there for us when my daughter Peyton had leukemia. She attended several Miracle Parties with us, all of them were very special! She was such a wonderful kind person! We will miss her dearly. 

Over the past few years I have had the privilege of meeting and conversing with Toni at gatherings hosted by Erik and Gina.  She is an absolutely lovely lady and beautiful spirit.  Her loss in our physical world is heartbreaking.  Her spirit will continue to embrace her family and all the sweet memories will live on forever.  Big love to all of the Van Decar family.  Rest In Peace, Toni. 

Toni wasn't in my life much but it was qualitative time. I reached out to her a year ago to make it known to her how special she was to me. My earliest memories of her were when she lived here in Lamar. I came to be in close company with her because of her shared love for God with Aunt Mary and my Grandmother who kept me close to her as often as possible. That tight circle of Godly love held me in the warmest embrace of my life. Not much time with Toni but she was an essential figure of that company that impacted my life more than I can say. She is beauty in symmetry. Her physical beauty in complete harmony with her beautiful soul. Thank you Lord for loving me through Toni.

I was a neighbor of Toni’s for years in Lamar and reconnected on Facebook. She was such a sweetheart. Sending prayers and sympathy to the family. 

I worked  with Toni many years ago at The American Cancer Society. We always had so much fun. She was so funny and such a team player. She helped me during hard times and her hugs were the best!  We kept in touch over the years.  Rest my dear friend. 

Monica Wilde

So very honerd Toni walked the lap , with my granddaughter at the Rely in Billings last July!! 😂

What a lovely photo of Toni!  We had the privilege of knowing her and her family thru Magic City Soccer in Billings, MT - spent many hours cheering for our boys on the field.  Toni had such a passion for her family and was the proverbial Mama-bear!  Those were great years for all of us.  We remember the Van Decar family with fondness.  We wish you all peace at her passing and comfort in your memories.  Till we meet again sweet lady.
Art and Julie Pietschman

Over the last 7 years, there have been too many fond memories to name just one. You loved us passionately, feared God willingly, and never failed to to remind us what is important in life. For all these reasons and more, we are happy to have had the opportunity to call you mom. We are lucky to have had  someone like you that makes saying ‘goodbye for now’ so hard. 

I had a short introduction to Toni but I had visited Colorado with Richard, her son, and my boyfriend at the time.  We had a delicious meal with her, in her home, and she made us feel like family.  She was so kind and fun to chat with.  Condolences and prayers to all in this hard time.  <3

I had the privilege of working with Toni at the American Cancer Society ~10 years ago. She was always such a pleasure to see first thing and say good morning to. And she sure was able to keep everything moving successfully for everyone in the office. I am so saddened to hear of this loss for her family, our ACS colleagues and others that were fortunate enough to know her. Rest easy, Toni. 

Alison Jolin Stafford

OBITUARY

Toni Van Decar

3 April, 1957 – 25 October, 2021

Olinger Funeral, Cremation & Cemetery - Crown Hill

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