Carol Sue Weidler

Carol Sue Weidler, a beloved educator, lifelong learner, and cherished family matriarch, passed away peacefully on November 26, 2024, in Matthews, North Carolina, surrounded by her loving family. Born on March 31st, 1941, in Dayton, Ohio, she was the eldest of five siblings.

Carol was a radiant light in our lives, known for her positivity, love of life and her sharp wit.

She earned a B.S. in English in May 1963 from the University of Dayton and graduated valedictorian of her class. She was also a Dayton Flyerette, showcasing her love for dance. In 1984 she earned a master’s degree in communications from Wright State University.

Carol’s passion for education blossomed into a 40-year teaching career, beginning at Van Buren middle school in Kettering, Ohio, in 1963 and concluding at Fairmont West high school in 2003. Her creative and engaging teaching style endeared her to both students and fellow educators.

While nurturing her career, Carol also embraced motherhood, welcoming Jeffrey (1964), Jennifer (1965), and Benjamin (1974). Her dedication to learning extended beyond the classroom, as she later taught communication classes to senior citizens and writing to elder adults at Matthews Glen.

Carol loved to travel and had fond memories of a special trip to Ireland for her 75th birthday with her children and grandchildren. She also enjoyed Florence, Italy with her husband, Raymond.

Carol was preceded in death by her second husband of 26 years, Jerry Bourne, and her siblings Valerie Payne, Craig Mahan and Kevin Mahan.

She is survived by her husband, Raymond Weidler; her son, Jeffrey Judd and his wife, Susan, of Columbus, OH; her daughter Jennifer Payeur and her husband, Louis, of Weddington, NC; and her son Benjamin Judd and his wife Fumiko, of Osaka, Japan, as well as her grandchildren Luna (29) of Columbus, OH; Austin (28), Katie (27), Benjamin (23) and PJ (22) of Charlotte, NC; Joanna (13) of Osaka, Japan. Carol is also survived by her sister, Melanie Schneider of Ocala, FL and her stepson, Kevin Bourne and his wife, Cathy, of Cleveland, OH.

Carol’s family is grateful to the staff at Matthews Glen for the compassion and care they provided to her over the past 1.5 years.

She leaves a legacy far broader than can be contained in this short account of her life. She was known for her kindness, generosity, strong faith, acceptance of all people, and for her deep love of family. Rest in peace, Carol. Thank you for the joy, love, and laughter that will remain in our hearts forever.

A memorial service will be held to celebrate Carol’s life on December 7th, 2024 at 1:00pm, at McEwen Funeral Home, located at 7428 Matthews-Mint Hill Road, Charlotte, NC, 28227.

A reception will be held immediately following the service at Jennifer and Lou’s home.

If you are unable to attend in person and wish to participate, please click here for Zoom link: https://us02web.zoom.us/j/5364342132?omn=85906093524 and join a few minutes prior to 1:00pm.