William James Tomalonis Jr.

Born on May 26, 1929, in Hartford, Connecticut, William was the beloved son of the late Maude (Edgerton) and William James Tomalonis, Sr.

He graduated from Bordentown Military High School in 1947, where he combined a love of discipline with an unstoppable passion for sports. Summers were spent at camp, where he thrived as both a camper and counselor. When asked if he ever missed his parents, William replied with a smile, “Sure, but I was too busy playing sports for it to bother me.”

In pursuit of excellence, William attended Brown University, graduating on June 2, 1952, with a degree in civil engineering. Shortly thereafter, he entered the United States Navy, serving aboard a destroyer the U.S.S. Macomb (DD-458), during the Korean War. He served from 1952–1954 obtaining the rank of Lieutenant Junior Grade (LTJG)

While stationed in Virginia Beach, William befriended a Japanese soldier, Yasanaga, and together they cruised the town in William’s convertible, joking they were the “cool kids.” Their friendship endured across decades, culminating in a once-in-a-lifetime trip with William’s sons to visit Japan and reunite with Yasanaga.

Later, while on liberty in South Carolina, William’s life changed forever. Invited to a roller-skating rink with nothing to wear but a suit and bow tie, he caught many glances that night—but one stood out: a redhead named Virginia. From that moment, William often joked that his liberty was over, for Virginia became the love of his life. Together, they shared a marriage filled with adventure, travel, and joy—spending summers in Colorado, traveling across the globe, and building a family rooted in love.

William and Virginia were blessed with three sons: William, Joseph, and Thomas Tomalonis. His family later grew to include two cherished granddaughters, Francie and Ginna Tomalonis, and he eagerly awaited the arrival of a great-grandchild.

Beyond his military service, William dedicated 21 years to Brown and Root, where he rose to the position of Vice President. His career took him across the globe, from Mexico City to the rugged wilderness of Alaska. He often recalled flying in small planes through mountain ranges, looking down seeing wild rams perched high along the cliffs. In 1988, he was honored by the Technical Association of the Pulp and Paper Industry for his outstanding leadership, a testament to his professional excellence.

In later years, while living in McKinney, William founded the ROMEOs—“Real Old Men Eating Out”—a fellowship of friends who shared meals, laughter, and good company. He delighted in fine dining and in spending time with people he loved.

In his final years at Atria, William’s circle of influence continued to grow. He became a father figure and wise adviser to friends and caregivers alike, offering guidance, encouragement, and kindness.

William lived as a loving husband, father, grandfather, and friend. We know that he was joyfully welcomed into Heaven by his beloved Virginia and his parents. His life was one of service, humility, laughter, and enduring love—a legacy that will continue to inspire generations.

In lieu of flowers the family asks that you donate to the charity of your choice.

“But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” — Isaiah 40:31