Lilian B. Flores

While it is possible to receive good counsel from a wide circle of family and friends, few could do it with the skill and aptitude of Lilian Bacarro Flores. She had a true talent for helping others reach their full potential and brought out the best in those who sought her help. Lilian was a forward-looking woman whose personality was filled with empathy toward everyone she met. She could be quiet and reserved, but her style of communication was authentic and direct. An excellent communicator, Lilian was a master at using imagery when she explained her ideas and concepts. She seemed to have an endless supply of innovative concepts and strategies for how to help those around her. Her sensitivity, kindness and generous attitude made her a wonderful friend for all who knew her.

      From the time she was born on May 31, 1970, Lilian showed a deep concern for others. She was a giving and caring individual, ethical and full of integrity and warmth. Lilian came into this world at Camiling Hospital in Tarlac, Philippines. Her parents were Aurora and Lodrino Bacarro. Lilian was raised in Barang Panique, Tarlac.

      Because fellowship was so important to her, Lilian promoted harmony with her siblings. She was raised with four siblings. She had two older brothers, Norman and JoJo and two younger brothers, Shirman and Allen. Lilian was something of the family diplomat. She helped to settle problems and conflicts and kept the family running smoothly.

      As a young girl, Lilian interacted well with other children. She was helpful. She was an independent person who had a vivid imagination. Lilian had a number of interests in her youth. She was an active child. Lilian took part in volleyball. She was a Girl Scout. In her spare time she liked to play with her friends outside til dawn. Lilian's memorable achievements included being an honor roll student.

      A good student who was enthusiastic about learning, Lilian was considered by many to be a high achiever. She graduated from Camiling School of Institute in 1987. She enjoyed some classes more than others, having favorite courses and teachers. Her favorite class in high school was English. The teacher she enjoyed learning from the most was Ms. Macaraeg.

      Able to maintain a positive focus on the potential good to be found in others, Lilian was always ready with solid advice and guidance to offer her group of friends. She was generally friendly to all who knew her, yet to some she seemed quite independent. For those who really knew Lilian, they recognized that she could be full of surprises. Lilian enjoyed a small but solid group of true friends. She would willingly support those friends when they needed it. Because of her ability to read people, she had an uncanny knack for knowing when a friend needed help. While growing up, some of her best friends were Jiji, Jony, Juanita, and Betty. Later in life, she became friends with Emily, Rosalind, Regina, and Mila.

      Lilian was romantic, even poetic at times. She was completely devoted to family and friends, able to show her emotions without going overboard about it. On January 8, 1989 Lilian exchanged wedding vows with Johnny Flores at Paniqui Christian Church of Paniqui, Tarlac.

      All who knew her would agree that there was a certain kind of magic in how Lilian was able to bond with her children. While she could be a firm disciplinarian, she could also fill the role of being a collaborator with her kids. Lilian was always a mentor who helped her family reach its full potential. Lilian was blessed with three children, twin sons, Joshua and Jian and daughter, Geleen.

      Lilian projected a subtle but positive influence in her workplace. She was comfortable working behind the scenes to help everyone get their job done, and she worked hard at all times to help others to reach their highest potential. While her colleagues did not view her as a high-spirited type, Lilian was effective at working with others to gain acceptance for her ideas. Lilian could be a perfectionist at times, but wasn’t one to seek out personal recognitions. She possessed excellent insight and a strong ability to meet schedules. She was an innovator who worked well independently, and she enjoyed the task of meeting a constant array of challenges. Her primary occupation was as a cage cashier. She started out at the Plaza Hotel for 10 years, then went to the Venetian for 5 years, then went to the Wynn.

      As an imaginative and inventive person, Lilian was comfortable showing her creative spirit. She enjoyed her leisure time by taking part in various hobbies. Once Lilian took on a new project, she saw it through to its completion. Her favorite pursuits were shopping and house accessories. She was content to enjoy her hobbies alone but was also willing to share her interests with others.

      Lilian was one who put forth her best effort in every aspect of her life, and that carried over to her participation in sports as well. Her sense of diligence inspired others and in turn drew best efforts from her teammates. In high school, Lilian played volleyball. Recreational sports included bowling. Lilian was also something of a sports fan and enjoyed following her favorite events whenever she got the opportunity. Tops on her list were basketball.

      Lilian was a woman with clear convictions and high principles, and her faith was important to her. She was an inspiration to many people who recognized her sense of commitment and esteem for others. She was a born again Christian. During that time, she was a youth leader.

      Lilian was a well-respected woman who was charitable in every way. She would contribute without hesitation for the benefit of others. As a result, Lilian received many accolades for varied efforts throughout her life. Some of her most prestigious awards included receiving the Employee Excellence Award at the Venetian.

      Lilian possessed strong skills in long-range planning and project completion, a quality that positively influenced her travel and vacation planning. Favorite vacations included going to Hawaii.

      Lilian was a lover of animals and cherished her pets. One of Lilian's favorites was her dog, a Shitzu. They were best friends for 3 years.

      Lilian passed away on July 15, 2012 at Centennial Hills Hospital in Las Vegas, Nevada. She fought a brave battle against breast cancer. She is survived by her husband, Johnny, daughter, Geleen and twin sons, Jian and Joshua. Services were held at Palm Mortuary.

      Though she could be a private person at times, Lilian was always able and willing to give of herself. She was so in tune with others that she often seemed able to read their minds. Lilian carried with her an almost mystical sense of life. She was a person who was highly original in her thinking and used metaphors and symbols to describe many aspects of her life. A poetic, intuitive “teacher”, Lilian Bacarro Flores shared herself freely and family and friends will remember Lilian for the strength of her convictions.