Quinn-Hopping Funeral Home


Vera Deter

11 agosto , 193020 enero , 2021

Vera Deter, (nee Curcione) age 90, of Livingston, NJ, passed away peacefully on Wednesday January 20, 2021. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Philomena Church 396 South Livingston Avenue Livingston, NJ, on Saturday January 23, 2021 at 11 AM. Interment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery E. Hanover, NJ. Vera was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. Vera was called “Gram” by many as she enjoyed being an active part of her grandchildren’s lives. She has resided in Livingston for over 60 years and was a faithful member of St. Philomena’s Parish. Vera is survived by her beloved husband of 70 years Ralph E. Deter Sr., her devoted children Debbie Seay, Gary (Carol) Deter, Ralph Deter Jr., Barbara (Greg) Menarguez and the late Marilyn Gebhardt (and her late husband Al), her loving grandchildren Rob, Michael, Bobby, Matt, Kristen, Aaron, Sean, Kevin and Brian and 8 great-grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959.


  • Funeral Service

    sábado, 23 enero , 2021

  • Committal Service

    sábado, 23 enero , 2021


Vera Deter


Jodi Pimentel

24 enero , 2021

Vera, will be missed by many. God Bless her, her smile will always shine above.

Rosemary & Bob Curcione

22 enero , 2021

Aunt Vera truly will be missed by all. She was one of the kindest and sincere people I ever met. I will miss our conversations. She always had a positive outlook .
God Bless a special woman. We love you and Rest In Peace.

Jeannine Curcione

21 enero , 2021

Aunt Vera will be loved and missed always. . We will miss how she always called at random and ask after each and every family member by name right down to the youngest She was so sincere and caring and always referred to everyone as how is my. Love ❤️

Alec Vidiksis

21 enero , 2021

Much love being sent down from Buffalo! I will never forget the wonderful women whom helped raise me and Vera was around for a big part of that. Her infectious smile and how she would never let you be sad more then a few minutes. I don’t think meatloaf will ever taste as good, but even if you had the exact recipe it wouldn’t be the same because you couldn’t bake in Vera’s love! Huge hugs and kisses down to the Menarguez family and everyone who shared those special times. Love and miss you guys a ton!

Kristina Deter

21 enero , 2021

I am so glad that her happy hailee and mr Johnny had the privilege of getting to spend some special time with great grandma vera a few summers ago. She is such a special lady and will forever be loved and remembered. Heaven got such an amazing angle.

Rosemarie and Mike Mazzei

21 enero , 2021

Vera holds a special place in our hearts! She was always upbeat and positive and had a great sense of humor. A great mom to all her children and grandma to her grandkids.
She will be sorely missed but we know she is with God in a much better place.....

Debra Vidiksis

21 enero , 2021

My heart is broken for the loss of Miss Vera. Too many memories to share but I can still hear her voice & see her ever-present smile from her heart to her tiny (fashionable) toes and in her face. May God welcome you into his kingdom where we know he has great plans for you! Loving and with the Greatest Honor to have had you touch our lives with your grace, Debbie & Alec

Fran Miller-Perullo

21 enero , 2021

My heart is saddened to hear of Vera passing. Spending time as a kid with Barbara and listening to our moms sharing stories of their life over tea. Heaven gained an Angel for sure. My love and prayers to Barbara and all of you at this sad time.