Vera Deter, (nee Curcione) age 90, of Livingston, NJ, passed away peacefully on Wednesday January 20, 2021. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Philomena Church 396 South Livingston Avenue Livingston, NJ, on Saturday January 23, 2021 at 11 AM. Interment will follow at Gate of Heaven Cemetery E. Hanover, NJ. Vera was a loving wife, mother, grandmother and great-grandmother. Vera was called “Gram” by many as she enjoyed being an active part of her grandchildren’s lives. She has resided in Livingston for over 60 years and was a faithful member of St. Philomena’s Parish. Vera is survived by her beloved husband of 70 years Ralph E. Deter Sr., her devoted children Debbie Seay, Gary (Carol) Deter, Ralph Deter Jr., Barbara (Greg) Menarguez and the late Marilyn Gebhardt (and her late husband Al), her loving grandchildren Rob, Michael, Bobby, Matt, Kristen, Aaron, Sean, Kevin and Brian and 8 great-grandchildren. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital 501 St. Jude Place Memphis, TN 38105-9959.