Dear McCargo Family~ 
Only today did I find this heartbreaking news of Jim.  Although it's been almost 10 years, I am truly sorry for your loss.  Jim was very kind and compassionate. I am blessed to have known him and be a recipient of his warm, genuine smile. Last night, I was going through 'old memories' and reread letters of encouragement, from Jim, during a difficult time in my life and decided to try to locate him and once more say, "Thank You." Saddens me to have missed this opportunity. While I am uncertain anyone will read this, may it be that your cherished memories of Jim are filling your hearts with joy, as Jim most certainly would want for you.
May God continue to bring you healing and may it be that Jim is sharing eternal life in Heaven with our Lord and Saviour Christ Jesus. 

I just learned about Jims' passing. I went to Laurel Elementary School with him. His family was well respected in the neighborhood. From reading other posts, it sounds like he continued on that path.

  I have had the pleasure of knowing Jim McCargo for almost thirty years.  He is a great friend, who I considered my big brother. What I love about Jim is, he was brutally honest about everything!  If you ask a question; be prepared to be set free. God bless you ..... You're Free!
                                                           Jim Morris   (Stratford, Ct.)

Jim was a mentor to me while I attended UOP from 1989-93. I recently reconnected with Jim a few years ago at a UOP Basketball reunion held by the Athletic Department. He was an amazing person who cared deeply about UOP and its students. You are going to be missed by so many. I know I am going to miss our conversations about business, life and UOP Basketball immensely. Thank you Jim for the positive impact you've had on my life.
Cory Clemetson, UOP '93

I think that I might be able to speak for all of those who are connected to Phi Kappa Tau/Archania is saying that Jim is going to be terribly missed.  For me “Jimmy Mack” was the ultimate friend at UOP.  Star athlete, very engaging and one of the nicest guys you ever want to meet.  There are so many stories that we all have about Jim.  I know that I will remember Jim very fondly when I remember those stories.  I never had the opportunity to tell Jim but maybe I can do it here.  Jimmy Mack we are really going to miss you and you are not alone, there are so many people whose lives you enriched.  I am honored to call you my friend.  Friends like you don't come around very often. I will miss you.
Les Palia, UOP ‘73

Kristin and I met Jim about 6 years ago through some mutual friends. We had the honor to get to know Jim, his quick wit and humor... Jim's pesonality was electric and we loved hanging out with him. Our brother in law played basketball against Jim in college and told us how he was the strongest, most dominant player on the court, but always a gentleman to the opposing team. Jim will be missed by his many friends in Stockton, where he is a legend. All our best to the McCargo family, our thoughts and prayers are with you

I already miss Big Jim, we conversed at least weekly for the last 20 years.  I'll always remember that "Oh My" and that "Oh My, Oh My" and especially that trip to Mazatlan with the fellows. Keep shooting baskets big man!

My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

I met Jim at UOP. I have many fond memories of sitting on the steps outside the library and talking for hours. Jim was always such a kind, and humble man with a warm enormous smile. I feel blessed to have known Jim. He touched so many lives. My thoughts and prayers are with the McCargo family and his dear friends.

My thoughts and prayers are with the McCargo family. I went to high school with Jim. He was one of the most kind, humble,and friendly human being I have ever known. What a shining star! Sorry for your loss and peaceful hearts to the family.

I sat next to Jim in Physiology class at OHS.  I will always remember how much fun he was.  I was saddened to learn of his passing at such a young age.  My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Phyllis Sabourin  OHS Class of 1970

My heart hurt when I heard this. I will ALWAYS "HONOR A WONDERFUL LIFE" James was such a KIND, HUMBLE and CARING friend. So touched and glad that YOU spent Thanksgiving with my Mother, Brother and Sister and the reset of our family. You will be missed by the STONE FAMILY! Noreen E. Stone....

I met Jim while playing Little League in Oceanside and was friends throughout high school.  He was always friendly and upbeat.  Prayers for the family.

My thoughts go out to the McCargo family.I became friends with Jim at Jefferson Jr.Hi. He was a humble and gentle man.I miss you. Joan Herron Sims OHS1969

Condolences to the McCargo Family. Know that my prayers are with you and on a personal note: hugged and spoke with Jim last year 2012, at the OHS Induction Ceremony. Your family has been a beacon in the community of Oceanside. Sincerely yours, Glenda J. Foreman(Howard).

My heart is sad to hear this. Had a couple classes with Jim. Always a smile, kind word and ready to help anyone.

James and I have been close friends since 1962. I feel so lucky we had the last several months to re-connect. I will miss him.

You will be missed & fondly remembered...Che tu possa riposare in paradiso. My heartfelt prayers to the McCargo family~

Donna Montagna   OHS Class of '70

Jim was a big man with an even bigger heart. Always smiling, always friendly .... those of us who knew him at UOP were so lucky. I'm saddened that he's left us too soon but I'll remember him always with such fondness.

So very sorry for your loss. Jim was 2 years ahead of me at OHS but such a very nice boy and a beautiful smile.  I loved to watch him play basketball, there was pure joy on his face.  He will be remembered for countless kindnesses and he is gone too soon. Janet Erickson Hogan

So sorry to learn of Jim's passing.  He was such a nice guy and a lot of fun.  I will never forget that smile!

A great great friend who will be deeply missed.

Sending condolences and prayers to the MCCARGO OHANA! Thank you for sharing the pics of James> I didn't know him personally but we went to school with Dana & Janna and I'm sure they role- model after him all their great  qualities.  As we say in Hawaii "until we meet again" God Bless you all and may He wrap His loving arms for comfort and strength!

Aloha,
Robert (76) & Linda (75-Orr) Forton

Jimmy was such a great kid.  I was excited to see him recently after so may years.  The world loses a great man.

Hard to match the class of Jim McCargo.  Always positive, great listener, never judgemental, and he was one helluva Basketball Player.  A better friend you could not have.  He will be sorely missed.

Tom Waddell Class of '70 OHS and Teammate of Jim's

Jim was a constant source of sunshine for those of us who went to UOP with him, and it was always a pleasure to see him at University events.  My thoughts are with his family.

Clutch Cargo could do it all: throw a football 60 yards, swat winners at will on the frat house ping pong table with his huge left-handed forehand, and dominate a basketball court like few could. His athletic talents were truly impressive, but pale in comparison to who he was as a person.  He was the gentle giant, with a kind heart, and a great smile.

McCargo Family, 

May the peace of God engulf you and His love uphold you during this time of remembrance and celebration of your loved one. Know that James is in the presence of the Lord - rejoicing.

Jim and I had a wonderful friendship for 13 years.  He was my support rock and always full of laughter,fun and pushed me and pushed me. He was so kind and helpful. Forever in my heart.
RIP Jim.  You will be so dearly missed.

My closest friend who was always there when needed,,,He had my back.God Bless

I didn't know Jim well, but remember him as a gentle, friendly guy at UOP. Peace to his family.

OBITUARIO

James Samuel McCargo Jr.

19 enero, 1951 – 30 marzo, 2013

Eternal Hills Mortuary & Crematory at Eternal Hills Memorial Park

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