

He was born in San Diego, California to his parents Emily Mershon and Thomas Durkin Sr., a navy veteran. When Tommy turned 18, he followed his father’s example and also joined the navy for 4 years and received an honorable discharge. After the navy tommy lived many adventures. He had a heart of gold and he strived his life on loyalty. He was always “running against the wind.” He was very loved and will be missed by many.
He was proceeded in death by his parents, and three ex-wife’s Helen V, Janice B, Susie M, and many other family members and friends.
He is leaving behind surviving cousins Christie Kirkland, Jan Kirkland, Louise Berg, and Katie Kirkland of Oklahoma. He had several stepchildren and many grandchildren.
Please join us in celebrating Tommy’s life on February 22nd, 2025 at 11:00 am at The Light House Church 950 E Ohio Ave, Escondido, CA 92025.
Tommy’s Words
"He started off young". Picked up a gun. Just trying to get ahead the game he lost his freedom it cost he went to the pen instead…Life in the fast lane running against the wind. Searching for happiness but where does it begin? I looked in hidden corners I tasted the forbidden wines. But all I found were prison bars a lifetime of doing time… If there is a god and a heaven then… Hey, maybe I’ve rolled seven and can leave my demons far behind. No more prison… no more drugs no more being known as a thug. In dying I’ve found peace of mind….
Farewell
I want to thank my family, my angels, my friends, my homies, and yes even my life long law enforcement adversaries for the roles all of you played in making my wild and bumpy outlaw life a magnificent and exciting adventure. If I hurt you I sincerely apologize. If I helped you it was my pleasure.
ME SENTÉ EN TEOCALLI CONTIGO
LIFE HAS BEEN “MY BOWL OF CHERRIES”
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