Today mark one year since your passing. The difficult and unexpected emotions, from anger to disbelief and sadness running through my vein brings me to my knee. I sit here in front of Shasta County Jail in hoping I can just feel your presence one time but tears is running down my face thinking about the fun times we had. Your laugh, your jokes I miss it all. This year has been a challenge for me , it just not the same. But in time, I can ease my sorrow, start to look to the future, and eventually come to terms with my loss. I know your in a better place but I still miss and love you. I love Gee Jow Pet Lai Saechao

Dear Lai Pok Gee Jow Pet,

I didn’t know this existed until my counselor showed me today. I just want to tell you that you are loved beyond words. Thanks Lai for the way you brightened our lives, even though God granted you half a life. You are one of a kind, with a big heart that went along with your big smile that no one can forget. I question myself sometimes about my belief as we really don’t know what happen in the afterlife. If there is such a thing of enteral life I hope you’re there. Tell mom and dad I love them very much and I miss them. I miss how you irritate me by putting your finger close to my face and say “I’m touching you, I’m not touching you” or while you’re playing game on your phone and I will slap the phone out of your hand to get your attention. All the family get together won’t be the same with out you. This pain is so devastating especially the unknown of what happened to you and very hard to accept. We will all feel cheated that you were taken from us so young. I will grieve and feel loss deeply, but it won’t stop me from remembering and cherishing the countless memories I have of you. I will miss you in ways that not even words can describe . Your life was a blessing and your memories will be treasure.
I love and miss you Lai Pok Gee Jow Pet.

Love always, 
Your baby sister Pamela aka Hey BaDet

Lai was my friend. No matter what people thought of him, or the lifestyle he chose to live, he was a kind hearted, fun loving person just trying to find his way. He was a hustler, and I will never forget him. I send my deepest condolences to his brothers and sisters, to his children and other loved ones. I will miss u Lai. Rest in Peace.

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Lai Kuang Saechao

30 octubre, 1981 – 23 mayo, 2021

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