Mrs. Carole Kletch Barna, age 80, of Secaucus passed away peacefully January 13, 2020. Carole forever remains a lovely and loving soul, kinder than kind, and a smiling ray of light and love. All who knew her were struck by her generous and unconditional outpouring of warmth, kindness, generosity and love. She was incredibly special and will be sorely missed.
Carole Kletch was born in Jersey City on August 11, 1939 to the late Henry and Jean Kletch. In 1959, Carole wed US Army Veteran John Barna who followed through on his promise to "love her more today than yesterday and even more tomorrow." They were completely devoted to each other and always doted on one another. Beginning and ending every day together with a kiss and “I love you myhoney”. John always said ‘Carole would give anyone the shirt right off MY back’.
Carole and John raised their family in Secaucus and enjoyed numerous family vacations on the Jersey Shore in recent years at ‘the penthouse’ in Wildwood. Carole retired from her position as a Senior Administrative Assistant at the Secaucus Town Hall in 2016. Carole enjoyed crocheting, reading, ‘puzzling’, watching Game of Thrones and Blue Bloods, family dinners, barbeques, lounging in the pool and sitting out on her front porch on sunny days. She was completely dedicated to family and reveled in family time which was plentiful as her children and grandchildren were constantly visiting. She regularly had to referee arguments between grandchildren over whose turn it was to sit next to her on the couch. That coveted seat entitled that lucky grandchild to hold grandma’s hand, have their hair stroked and get unlimited kisses and hear “I love you” repeatedly. Her easy manner, and warm personality made her the center of attention at any gathering. She listened intently when you spoke (unless momentarily distracted by activity or conversation nearby as she was also a bit of a busybody). She always empathized and provided wise guidance and unconditional support and acceptance.
Carole is survived by devoted husband John, dedicated son Jay and caring daughter Linda of Secaucus; daughters Karen, Janine, Jackie Tobin and her husband Robert of Rutherford; sister Halina and her husband Jack Stone of Secaucus; and seven adoring grandchildren - EACH of them her favorite: Sean, Jay, Eva, Hannah, Leah, Abby and Janina all of Rutherford. Carole was the grandma everyone wishes they had.
If Carole were writing this herself, she would agonize over adding dozens more names of those that are dear to her for fear of leaving anyone out. Even if she was not in constant communication, close to her heart were beloved nieces, nephews, cousins, friends, neighbors and co-workers. She fondly remembered and cherished each one. We are comforted to hear and read your fond memories of her, so please feel free to share.
She will always be in our hearts.
Visitation will be held Wednesday, January 15, from 3:00-7:00 PM at the Mack Funeral Home in Secaucus.
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