roger, you were one of the funniest people.    i ever met in my life. i remember you use
d to joke about everything even if was serious. i had so 
many fun times with you and stella. every time i pass that 
hotel in saddlebrook with the 
club on top of it i always think about when we all used to go there and dance and have the
 best time. you were an amazing person and will be missed by many. its so upsetting that you were taken so young.
rest in peace,
cindy seymour

hello roger, its chanel. i just wanna say i miss you so much... no one else can call me smurf or shrimp cocktail like you did. you were by far the funniest  dad i know... i miss you alot but most of all your family misses you more... it breaks my heart to see all them hurt. but i know your doing your best up there to make it better... weve had so many good times from laughing or joking around. you definatley new how to keep me laughing and smiling... not a day goes by that your not on my mind. i just want to hear you laugh again....... miss you and love you.... keep shining down on your family and everyone who loves you which is so many people btw. rest easy <3

Dad, youre my life now. I hear a laugh and i think its you. I live for you now, not me. I heard a song today, "I was here" by Beyonce. For some reason i think its you trying to talk to me. I dont know if its true but it helps. It seems like something you would say. I wanna tell you that I'm sorry dad. I really am. I didn't think you would go so soon. Im gonna miss you at graduation and im gonna walk down the aisle at my wedding alone, so you better be next to me even if i can't see you. You will never be replaced. Ever. I love you. I always have. We fought, every day, but i loved you. I'm gonna miss driving with you, or going to the pool and i know you said that you would be ok with leaving now because all of your kids are ok, but i really miss you. i wish this was a dream, a nightmare, i wanna wake up to your face asking me if i want breakfast on a saturday morning. I wana smell the homefries. I wannna come into your bed crying so you can rub my back and tell me its ok and that you love me no matter how much we fight. i wanna hear you call me your toosie roll. i wanna tell you i love you. im sorry ive been distant, im just sad, i hope youre not sad. I dont want you to be sad. I want you to be happy - happy that all of us love you. Mommmy misses you dad, we all do. I'm gonna make you proud, im gonna do everything life ables me to. I wanna go on nitro again for you. Ill leave the right seat next to me empty for you. You gotta sit there with me. Watch over me dad, lead me to the right paths. I miss you. I love you. I always will. I thinnk about you every second and thats never gonna change. I want you to be proud and happy because youre the reason i am who i am. You and mommy raised all of us together. Youre my best friend. Always have been, secretly. Dont forget me dad, ill never forget you. I love you so much. Love, your tootsie roll darling.

dad you were and amazing father, you loved to joke around and you were the life of the family to be honest, you were laughing everyday. not a day went by with you having a smile on your face. I will do my best to carry on your tradition.
love your son nick

You are all in our prayers here and in California.  Lisa and Jessica Huse (Meadowlands Hospital) Please tell Chrystal we haven't stopped praying for her.

To The Schaffer Family,
  Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.  In time, let happier moments bring comfort to you and know that his love is never far away.
Love, Lana, Michael, Marc, Sam and Alex Schlemm

May this light bring you into heaven.
 Roger,we will miss you.Please,watch over Stella and the kids.Keep them safe.Rest in peace buddy.

Dear Stella and family,
We are deeply saddened by your tremendous loss.  Our thoughts and hugs embrace you, always.
Tracy, Marc and Addison

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

My deepest Sympathy goes out to your family during this very sad and difficult time.

Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Roger was a great person and will be deeply missed..... Jean and Kim Totowa NJ

To The Schaffer Family,
 We are so sorry for your loss.  You are in our thoughts and prayers.  We hope you know that if you ever need anything, we are here for you.
Love,
The Mele Family

Stella and Family,Anthony and I are so very sorry for your loss.Roger,was a great guy ,father,and husband to all of you.We will miss him.I will never forget all the great times we had with you both.Rest in peace Roger.Always in our hearts.

The Schaffer Family -- Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.  May happy memories help to bring you comfort during this most difficult time.

Dear Chrystle and Nick - my heartfelt condolences to you both and to your entire family as you grieve the passing of your beloved father.  My thoughts, prayers and love are with you at this sad time.
Ms. Carlson

Crystle & Family -   We are so very sorry for your loss and pray that with time you and your family will see passed the tears and remember your Dad with laughter and smiles.  Keep strong and if there is anything you need, please let us know.  You are in our prayers.
Gina, Gabrielle & Ian Povolotsky

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

so sorry for your loss
he will be missed terribly

Lucy diguglielmo and Kevin

You will always be in my heart.
I love you, Mom

My deepest sympathy go out to the Schaffer Family. Stella and family I can't express the sadness I feel for you and your family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.

OBITUARIO

Roger W. Schaffer

24 diciembre, 1964 – 5 junio, 2011

Mack Memorial Home

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