Bobby Ray Simmons

Bobby Ray Simmons, age 90, passed away surrounded by the love of his family. A devoted husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, Bobby’s life was defined by quiet strength, deep commitment, and a heart that found joy in the simple, meaningful things. Bobby was born on October 13, 1935, in Elmore City, Oklahoma, to Lee Bob Simmons and Alice Simmons. He graduated from Elmore City High School in 1954, beginning a life marked by service, hard work, and devotion to family. In March of 1955, Bobby entered the United States Air Force, completing basic training at Lackland AFB. He served honorably for four years and was released from active duty on March 23, 1959. During his military career, he served at Thule Air Force Base in Greenland, as well as Dyess Air Force Base and Tinker Air Force Base. After his active-duty service, Bobby continued his dedication to his country as a federal civil servant at Tinker Air Force Base, where he worked faithfully for 33 years. On November 17, 1961, Bobby married the love of his life, Phyllis Williams. Together they built a life rooted in love, commitment, and shared values. In 1967, they moved their family to Bethel, Oklahoma, where Bobby farmed and ranched, raising cattle and attending auctions, and cared deeply for the land he worked. He took pride in making things look right—whether it was the pasture, the livestock, or the home he loved so dearly. Bobby had a deep appreciation for bluegrass and old country music, but his greatest joy was always his family. He cherished time spent at home, following his grandchildren through their sports and activities, working with livestock, attending cattle sales and auctions, and simply being present for the people he loved. He was a proud member of the American Angus Association and the North American Limousin Foundation. Those who knew Bobby describe him as a very sweet man—one who laughed often and loved deeply. His kindness, steady presence, and gentle humor left a lasting impression on everyone fortunate enough to know him. He is survived by his beloved wife, Phyllis Simmons; his daughter, Sheila Atwood and husband Jeff of Porum, Oklahoma; his son, Scott Simmons and wife Debbie of Shawnee, Oklahoma; his grandchildren, Jessica Clemons and Clint Simmons; and his great-grandchildren, Bexley Clemons and Case Clemons. He was preceded in death by his parents; his brother, Freddy Simmons and wife Marylou of Elmore City, Oklahoma; his sister, Geneva Pool and husband Floyd of Elmore City, Oklahoma;his sister Sue Cochran and husband Floyd of Pauls Valley, Oklahoma and his sister, Imogene Brooks and spouse Bob. The family would like to extend a heartfelt thank you to Visiting Angels for the compassionate care and kindness shown to Bobby and his family. Bobby Ray Simmons leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, hard work, and unwavering devotion to family—a legacy that will continue through the many lives he touched. A graveside and committal service will be held at Resthaven Memorial Park located at 16006 S Rock Creek Rd, Shawnee, OK 74801, on February 11, 2026. The service is scheduled to begin at 12:00 pm and conclude by 1:30 pm.