Mary Elizabeth Weigle

If anyone ever cared, really cared for someone else it would have to be Mary Elizabeth Weigle. She was a warm hearted and well liked individual, and these wonderful traits came easily to her because she was such a sociable and amiable person, someone who was always making certain that those around her had whatever they needed. Mary was a talkative person who was tactful at all times but typically said what she meant.

Mary was born August 28, 1913, in Trinidad, Colorado. She was the daughter of Ward Porter Woolridge and Ednia Eliza Teays. Mary was raised in Rye, New York and Hollywood. During her childhood she learned to be reliable and respectful. Mary was an obedient child who wanted to win the favor of others. She found it easy to show sympathy and to perform kind acts for others. These admirable qualities would become a part of Mary's personality throughout her life.

Though Mary was frequently the one to initiate games and activities with her family, she was also quite often the family member who took the role of referee. Mary was a peace-maker with an ability to resolve all sorts of family conflicts. In fact, Mary worked conscientiously to keep those typical family spats at bay. She had one brother, Ward Woolridge. Mary and her brother had the typical rivalries while growing up, but they cared deeply for one another.

As someone who reveled in the sheer joy of her experiences, Mary was always enthusiastic about new adventures. Although she had an exacting nature, Mary was always tactful. One thing Mary will certainly be remembered for is that, when she got up in the mornings, she was ready and raring to go. As a young girl, Mary had a number of interests and was an active child. Mary took part in swimming and tennis.

For Mary, the school routines were never a problem although she generally preferred variety to structure. She seemed to be able to start a project and work right through to its completion. And she was able to do it quickly and efficiently. Mary was also adept at details. Mary was very observant and was generally quick at picking up new things. She graduated from Hollywood High, California in 1931. She enjoyed some courses more than others, having favorite classes and teachers. Her favorite classes in high school were Mathmatics, Journalism and English. She had many friends and was a member of the Girls Glee Club, Civic Club, Hospital Club, G.A.A. and Swim Team.

College can be a challenge, but Mary appeared to be well equipped to succeed. She had a knack for staying focused and on track no matter what was going on around her. Mary had the ability to work undisturbed through all of the constant interruptions that are a regular part of college life. Mary enjoyed using the skills she'd already learned and applying them to new courses. She knew the facts and rarely made factual errors. She earned her Nursing Degree. She also pursued graduate school, continuing her Nursing Degree. Her favorite courses were Anatomy and English.

Mary was a faithful and loving person. Some would even call her sentimental and a romantic at heart. Her kindness and consideration radiated an aura of warmth to those around her. Mary cared for what others thought and carried that into her marriage. On March 1, 1941 Mary married Fredrick Beckwith Weigle, I at Wee Kirk O' the Heather in Glendale, California. Compassionate and devoted, Mary worked hard to make her new life partner happy.

Harmony was important to Mary and she made every effort to maintain it with her family. Mary was blessed with three children, Fred B. Weigle, II, Mary Lee Lytle and Wendy Weigle. They were also blessed with seven grandchildren, Mary Irene Placial, Anna Marie McFarland, Raymond Anthony Martin, Chad Weigle, Shannyn Weigle, Shawna Miranda and Brad Davis. Mary was always conscious of the feelings others had. She was reasonable and understanding. As a result, Mary was quick to solve disputes and did so without much fuss. Her secret of success in this area was simple: Mary would listen before she would act.

Taking her work seriously came naturally to Mary, and she expected the same from those around her. Mary was a good team player, someone who was born to cooperate with others. She was what some would call a “people person” and it was demonstrated in her good communication skills. Mary was a steady worker, one who was realistic about schedules. The kind of details that would give family members and work colleagues fits were situations that Mary handled well. She could understand the details without getting lost in the broad “big picture.” Her primary occupation was registered nurse and director of nursing. She was employed for a Dentist in Hollywood, Riverside County Department Of Health, Dr. Wallace Holley, M.D., Sunset Haven and Weigles Menu Restaurant. She brought harmony to her work environment, doing what was necessary in order to get the job done, while always maintaining respect for her colleagues.

A methodical woman, Mary enjoyed spending time working on her various hobbies. She had no problem following all of the steps and instructions on a given project and was proud of the fact that she could have something to show for her efforts. Her favorite pursuits were gardening, bird watching, watching grand and great grandchildren as they grew and family times.

Mary was one of those people who took pride in constantly putting forth her best effort. Nowhere was that more visible than in sports. Mary was always enthusiastic and a great team player. In high school, Mary took part in swimming and tennis. Mary also liked being a sports fan and enjoyed following her favorite teams whenever she got the opportunity. Tops on her list were Lakers Basketball and the Dodgers.

Her keen interest in things that affected the lives of other people led Mary to become actively involved in professional and community organizations. Because she was outgoing and worked well with others, Mary did her fair share of volunteer work. And she wouldn’t shy away from taking the lead on committees or events, either. She was a born list maker and was great at creating and sticking to schedules. Throughout her later years, Mary was given an Honorary Life Membership thru California Congress of Parents and Teachers, Inc, 1966, President PTA of 1960's, Director of Nursing for 7 years at Sunset Haven and assisting her husband in the restaurant and creations of ice programs.

Mary was the kind of person who would readily move into action in order to help others. She was appreciated and respected. She could find value in the opinions of others and was passionate about her own values and beliefs. Politically, Mary was a member of the Republican Women's Club.

Her high moral standards and traditional values served Mary well with her faith. Religion and faith were important to her. She was a member of the Presbyterian Church of Beaumont, California since 1957. She was well respected because she was such an outgoing individual who sought to help in any manner she could.

Not only did Mary enjoy traveling, but she also seemed to enjoy planning all of those trips and vacations. She was a facilitator who could easily make up a near perfect schedule of all of the things to do and see. She rarely tired of going back and revisiting her favorite places. Favorite vacations included New England, New York and Washington D. C.

Since it was easy for Mary to meet and get to know new people, she quickly made friends, even in retirement. Once she met those new friends, she loved sharing stories and talking about the good old days. Her new life involved relocating to Cherry Valley, California. In retirement, she found new pleasure in the Republican Women's Club. Even in retirement, Mary stayed in touch with her old friends and made plenty of new acquaintances. She was active in the community and felt fulfilled with the opportunities that retirement offered her.

Mary passed away on May 10, 2010, at her home in Cherry Valley, California. She is survived by her children Mary Lee Lytle, Fred B. Weigle, II and Wendy Weigle. Memorial services were held Wednesday, May 26, 2010, at 1:00 PM, at Weaver Mortuary, 1177 Beaumont Ave, Beaumont, CA.

Mary was a fantastic conversationalist who could engage just about anyone in a discussion. And whenever she said something, she meant it. Mary was a down to earth person, outgoing and gregarious. She was without question the type of person who enjoyed experiencing things first hand. She was practical and sensible, but what friends and family will remember her for most is the fact that she was so understanding and kind. Everyone whose life she touched will miss Mary Elizabeth Weigle.

Arrangements were entrusted to Weaver Mortuary, Beaumont, California.