Margaret Dorothy Kary

Margret “Margo” Dorothy Kary, a vibrant spirit with a heart full of adventure and kindness, passed away on March 2, 2025, at the age of 70 after a courageous battle with cancer.

Born on April 8, 1954, in Waupun, Wisconsin, Margo was the first child in her family born in the United States after her parents immigrated from the Netherlands in 1953. She grew up in the small town of Randolph, Wisconsin, where she attended grade school and graduated from high school in 1972. She later pursued a degree as a medical assistant at Madison Area Technical College in Madison, Wisconsin.

Margo had an adventurous soul, which led her to live briefly in California before settling in Dallas, Texas, in the early 1980s. There, she made a bold career change and became a flight attendant for American Airlines, a role that perfectly suited her love for travel and meeting new people. She spent 25 fulfilling years in the skies before retiring.

Though she found joy in exploring the world, Margo’s greatest love was her family. She was a devoted wife, mother, and grandmother, always putting loved ones first. She was an advocate for any family member in the hospital, offering unwavering support and care. Margo married the love of her life, Norman, in 1987 in a beautiful backyard ceremony at their home on Somerville Avenue. Together, they raised two children, Rachel Rae Kary and Aaron Edward Kary.

Margo’s passions were as diverse as her spirit. She had a knack for crocheting, creating thoughtful gifts for friends and family. She was a social butterfly with a wonderful sense of humor, always lighting up every room she entered. She had a deep love for animals, volunteered with Meals on Wheels, and enjoyed watching Animal Planet and the History Network. She was an avid collector of heart-shaped stones and Hull pottery and was deeply fascinated by Vedic astrology.

Margo was also quite the athlete. She played softball as a pitcher and even met her husband, Norman, in a scuba diving class with her brother Woody. When she and Norman had free time, they loved traveling—especially visiting national parks and wildlife areas, with San Francisco holding a special place in their hearts.

She is survived by her beloved husband, Norman; her children, Rachel (Ben) Adasha and grandson Ari, and Aaron (Cassidy) Kary. She also leaves behind her cherished sisters, Alice (Lloyd) Satterfield, Janice Andrews, and Kathleen (Marc) Clements; her brother, Edward “Woody” (Coleen) Van der Woude; her aunt in the Netherlands, Reiny Stellingwerf; and many nieces, nephews, and relatives in the Netherlands. She is also survived by her sisters-in-law, Cathy Bauer, Mary (Ray) Barr, Laura Kary, and Jeanne (Michael) Courtney, along with many nieces and nephews.

Margo was preceded in death by her parents, Newton and Florence Van der Woude; her brother-in-law, Todd Andrews; and her sister-in-law, Cindy Harding.

Margo’s love for flowers, especially tulips and Gerber daisies, will be honored during the service. Her ashes will be released at Parfrey’s Glen State Natural Area in Wisconsin, a place she held close to her heart.

A celebration of Margo’s life will be held on March 8, 2025, at 3:00 PM at Faith Presbyterian Hospice, 12477 Merit Dr., Dallas, TX 75251. Please note that there will be construction at the intersection of Churchill Way and Merit Dr. Attendees should cross over Merit Dr. on Churchill Way and turn into Bay Dr. (follow the balloons).

Following the ceremony, a brief gathering with light refreshments will be held in the adjacent building at the Forefront Living facility. Friends and family are encouraged to attend.

With her warm smile and generous heart, Margo touched countless lives. Her family was her greatest joy, and she was deeply devoted to those she loved.

“You will teach them to fly, but they will not fly your flight. You will teach them to dream, but they will not dream your dream. You will teach them to live, but they will not live your life. Nevertheless, in every flight, in every life, in every dream the print of the way you taught them will remain.” - Mother Teresa

We’ll meet you in the stars, Mom.