Robert W. Elzer

He lived a life defined by quiet strength, deep devotion, and an unwavering love for those closest to him. A husband, father, grandfather, and friend, Robert built his world around family, loyalty, and the simple joys that made life beautiful.

In 2005, he was diagnosed with a rare bone marrow disease and given a limited prognosis. But in true Robert fashion, he outlived expectations, using that time to make more memories, share more stories, and savor more moments. He and his wife, Joy, filled those years with travel, laughter, and companionship.

Family vacations became cherished times together: Disney World trips, horseback rides through Utah, exploring Gettysburg and Martha’s Vineyard were some of his favorites. He found delight in the small things—meals shared, history books read, and hours spent on the golf course with longtime friends. For over 40 years, he played thousands of rounds at Highland Golf & Country Club, never tiring of the game or the company.

Born on February 8, 1951, in Boonville, Indiana, to Otto and Edna Elzer, Robert grew up working on the family farm, playing trumpet and basketball at Boonville High School, and developing a lifelong love of learning. He earned his BA from Indiana University and his JD from Harvard Law School, beginning a distinguished legal career at Baker & Daniels in 1976. Over 42 years, Robert practiced primarily as a trust, estate, and tax attorney, retiring in 2018. He was deeply appreciative of the lasting relationships he built with clients and colleagues alike.

Robert was active in his profession, holding leadership roles in bar associations and earning recognition as a fellow of the American College of Trust and Estate Counsel. He was equally committed to his community, serving on boards including the WFYI Foundation, CICOA, Indianapolis Civic Theatre, and the Indiana Golf Foundation—where he especially enjoyed supporting the First Tee Program, helping children access summer golf programs.

In retirement, Robert continued his quiet service, acting as a trustee of the Downing Charitable Trust and volunteering at the Second Presbyterian Church food bank. He found meaning in giving back, especially in support of food security and rural communities.

At home, Robert was the go-to source for sports trivia, a fan of breakfast at Patachou, and a faithful reader with a deep interest in history and politics. He followed current events with conviction, always eager for a thoughtful discussion. He was endlessly available to his wife and daughters, always ready with a listening ear and quiet wisdom. It was his granddaughter who brought him a special kind of happiness—her laughter, curiosity, and presence filled him with deep joy and pride. Near the end, reflecting on a life rich in love and purpose, Robert said simply, “I’ve had a wonderful life.”

Robert is survived by his beloved wife of 52 years, Joy Elzer; his daughters, Katie Elzer-Peters (Joseph) and Emily Bauer (Nathan); and his cherished granddaughter, Elzer Bauer. He is also survived by his extended family, including his wife’s siblings and many nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his sister, Barbara Roy.

The family welcomes flowers for the service and also encourages attendees to bring non-perishable food items to support the food pantry. In lieu of or in addition to food donations, memorial contributions may be made to First Tee, P.O. Box 26159, Indianapolis, IN 46226.

Services will take place on May 29, 2025 with visitation from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm, followed by the funeral at 12:00 noon at Second Presbyterian Church, 7700 N. Meridian Street, Indianapolis. A reception will follow at 1:00 pm at Highland Golf & Country Club.

Online condolences available at www.leppertmortuary.com