Bev, we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

From the Staff of St. Aloysius Church.

Growing up with Nik was an adventure every time we were together, whether it was fishing trips to Long Point or hiking the Bruce Trail or camping all over Ontario.  This is just a small list…
Weenie roasts during winter hikes.  
Learning how to fillet perch from his grandpa.  
Playing Trivial Pursuit against Nik Sr. – and trying to lose gracefully.
Making forts and spaceships out of blankets and furniture.  
Playing Star Trek.  
Biking.  Everywhere.  
Mini-golfing.
Woodside Pool.  
Playing pool at Mark’s house.
Chinese New Year at Feng’s house.  
The Ouija Board.  
Playing Dungeons and Dragons.  Yes, the first edition…
Playing Ninja Turtles at Zappers.  
Watching Much Music.
Countless hours of Atari sessions.  

And we did have our share of shenanigans…
The Night of a Million Mosquitos in Nik’s old canvas tent.
Cutting down the maple tree.
Retiring Nik Sr.’s old, worn-out hiking shirt.
Miraculously clubbing Nik Sr. with a broken tree branch – also the reason Nik Sr. wore helmets around us in future hikes.  
Bypassing the lock for the Pepsi locker in the basement.  
The epic Elastic Fights…  

When I was in university, I was talking with Nik when I said, “Everyone has to learn to be themselves because it’s too hard being what others expect you be…”  Soon after, Nik came out as gay – and I was proud of him.  About a year after that, Nik thanked me for “not changing” after finding out.  I replied, “Nothing should change.”  Truth be told, what I said to Nik is something I learned from him.  

We never discussed his coming out for many years but we did have a chat before Covid where we were comparing people coming out – and Nik was a bit exasperated, “I feel sorry for kids today because now it’s so complicated with pronouns…  Why do pronouns have to change?”  

I’ll miss the adventures but I’ll also miss the chats where Nik would ask a random question that would really get me thinking… and his grin… and his chuckle that always made us laugh with him.  





Mrs. Ebner, I am truly sorry for your loss of Nicki.  He was the epitome of kindness and generosity; and for a while, the big brother from next door.  I will be forever grateful that I had him in my life the years that I did.  Forever missed and never forgotten. 

Bev, my sincerest condolences on the loss of Nik Jr.  You are in my thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.

Bev,  We are so very sorry to learn the passing of Nick, we always looked forward to visit with Nick, he was such a nice guy, and so easy to talk to. Everyone who knew him will miss him, and we will all cherish our happy memories of him. RIP Nick, and big hugs to you Bev,  John and Mary Ann

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