Alexis was born in The Bronx, New York to Alex and Elizabeth O'Seep on March 2, 1949. Her family moved to Westchester County, New York where she attended Lakeland High School and graduated in the class of 1967. She married Carl Cacace on May 24, 1969 in Yonkers, New York. She worked at IBM for 30 years. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, playing canasta, mahjong, and swimming. She also enjoyed exercising and traveling.
Alexis is preceded in death by her parents Alex and Elizabeth O'Seep. Her twin brother Alex O'Seep and sister Janis O'Seep.
Alexis is survived by her husband Carl of 58 years; sister: Susan Booth; three children: Carl (Edel), Michael (Angela), and Alexis (Charles); ten grandchildren: Michael, Rachel, Marissa, Phillip, Chloe, Luke, Emily, Olivia, Alexander, and Ella; great-granddaughter: Magnolia; and her precious puppy: Tango.