Jay A Rader

1939 - 2025

Age 86, of Rochester Hills.

Jay is the loving husband of the late Linda Ann (d.2024); cherished father of Todd Alan Rader of Clawson, Michigan, Julia Rader-Pacifico of Rockwell, North Carolina and Richard L. Malain of Auburn Hills, Michigan; loving brother of Linda Golden, Kay Miller, Stephen (Cherie) Rader, Roberta (Butch) Brewer and Brother-In-Law Jack Plotner. Sadly, he is preceded in death by his sister, Diane Smith and his parents, Everette and Marciel Rader.

Jay was a devoted father and patriarch whose love, guidance, and steady presence shaped the lives of his family, friends, colleagues, and all who met him. No one remained a stranger for long. He led by example, teaching the values of hard work, honesty, kindness, and service to others. Through quiet encouragement, patience, and unwavering support, he instilled principles that continued to guide them throughout their lives.

He generously gave his time to others, serving as a Boy Scout leader and mentor, always willing to teach, encourage, and lead by example. His kindness, patience, and willingness to help were never unnoticed. He dedicated 50 years to Scouting and was honored with the distinguished Silver Beaver Award.

A skilled mason and dedicated member of the Masonic Temple, he took great pride in the craft, principles, and fellowship it represented, living out its values through service, integrity, and brotherhood.

Through his service, hard work, and quiet generosity, he made a lasting contribution to humanity. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched, the values he instilled, and the love he shared.

Funeral services will be held at 2:00 PM, Saturday, January 3, 2025, at New Covenant Church, 4217 N. Squirrel Rd., Auburn Hills. The Rader family will greet guests at the church at 1:30 PM.

Visiting hours have also been arranged for Friday, January 2nd from 4:00 - 8:00 PM at the Pixley Funeral of Rochester, 322 W. University Dr. Rochester. A Masonic service will be held at 6:00 PM Friday evening at the funeral home.

Please join us in sharing your memories of Jay. He nurtured all of us, spreading the tree of life. As a symbol of his gift, we invite you to take a leaf and write down a memory or experience you shared with him. These reflections will be read aloud to him as the conclusion of his Celebration of Life.

In lieu of flowers, please consider memorial tributes to The Scouts of America or The Masonic Temple.

Thank you for keeping the Rader family in your thoughts and prayers at this sad time.