Shirley Lee Young

Shirley Lee Young, a woman whose life was defined by love, grace, and boundless compassion, passed peacefully on January 24, 2026, at the age of 90. Born on September 1, 1935, in Red Lodge, Montana, Shirley carried with her the warmth of her roots and the strength of the family who shaped her.

She was the beloved daughter of Charles Hayes and Elizabeth Frankovich, and the cherished granddaughter of John Lukus and Justine Frankovich. Shirley shared her early years alongside her siblings—Betty Keating, Ruth Braley, Roger Hayes, and Bobby Hayes—forming bonds that would remain dear throughout her life.

Above all else, Shirley was a devoted mother. She was endlessly proud of her five daughters: Diane Young with her husband Guy Young, Jeannette Young, Brenda Young, Michelle Porterfield and her husband Lee Porterfield, and Lisa Harris with her husband Christopher Harris. Being their mother was her greatest joy, her proudest accomplishment, and the calling she embraced with her whole heart. Her love expanded effortlessly to her grandchildren—Michael David with his wife, Talia David, Collette Harris with her husband, Edward Prevatt, and Veronique Harris—and to her great-grandchildren; Stokely and Seraphina, who brought her laughter, wonder, and endless delight.

Shirley was previously married to Warren Jack Young, with whom she raised a family that became the center of her world.

Professionally, Shirley devoted her life to caring for children. As a self-employed childcare provider, she created safe, loving spaces where children were nurtured, protected, and cherished—much like the homes she lovingly built for her own family. Every house she lived in became a cozy sanctuary, filled with warmth, beauty, and the unmistakable feeling of being loved.

Her passions were simple, soulful, and joyful. She adored cooking and baking for those she loved, tending to her garden, redecorating her home, and spending meaningful time with family. Music filled her heart—especially disco—and favorites like Jailhouse Rock, Unforgettable, and Santa Baby often brought a sparkle to her eyes. Pink was her favorite color, a fitting reflection of her warmth and gentle spirit.

Shirley loved God deeply and lived her faith through kindness, forgiveness, and unwavering compassion. She believed in unconditional love, never holding grudges, and always seeing the good in others. Her life was a quiet lesson in grace—how to care for one another, how to forgive freely, and how to walk through the world with faith and an open heart.

She found joy in traveling with her daughters, especially to Napa Valley and San Francisco, creating treasured memories filled with laughter and love. A woman of many talents, Shirley painted a beautiful freehand mural of an Italian vineyard and villa on her bedroom wall, wrote short stories, and even received a letter signed by President Barack Obama recognizing her compassion and concern for others.

Those who knew Shirley will remember her radiant smile, her gentle presence, and her ability to make everyone feel seen and valued. Strangers were drawn to her energy; friends felt like family; and family knew without question that they were loved beyond measure. She lived her life with honor, generosity, and a quiet strength that touched everyone she met.

Shirley wished to be remembered as a loving mother and grandmother—and she was that and so much more. She was kindness in action, love made visible, and a reminder that the greatest legacy we leave behind is how deeply we love.

She will be profoundly missed and forever held in the hearts of all who were blessed to know her.

A gift of flowers will be welcome for the service! To ensure that they are delivered on time, Please send the flowers to the Holy Rosary Office before 5:00 pm on February 25th. The address is: 4139 42nd Avenue SW, Seattle, WA 98116, (206) 935-8353.

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