The only NEGATIVE thing I can say about my aunt, Mary Westerholt, is that she makes the rest of us, humans, look bad!  In my 50 years, I never ONCE heard Mary complain, yell or say anything mean about anyone.  She is an inspiration to all who knew her and a fabulous example of a life well-lived.  I speak on behalf of my entire family.   

Just two months ago, I was sorting my mail and saw a card from my mom.  Not unusual.  Then I saw a card from Aunt Mary.....and I suddenly remembered my OWN anniversary was THAT DAY!  She never ONCE missed sending me a greeting card - for any occasion.

Mary, from your place next to God, please pray for us sinners.  We miss you more than you know.

Don't weep for me for I am not gone
I've simply moved to a brand new home 
My trials are over, I've received my reward
I have life eternal with Christ our Lord 
There's no more pain, no darkness in sight
Just a land of beauty and eternal light
I'm with friends and family catching up on the news 
Who arrived before me and have paid their dues 
There's life in Heaven like Earth has never seen
Friends & family please join me when your tour on earth is done
And sit at the Master's table when your race you've won
It's an awesome rebirth, an unprecedented feeling 
Eternal Life with Jesus, it's the ultimate healing 

Love you all! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Mary was never without a smile.  Mr. Westerholt & family, you are in our thoughts & prayers.  Joe, Stacy & Marlo

Grand ma was the nicest person I have ever known, Her illness and passing 
touched my heart in a place that I thought was gone.  Jimmy Mitchell

We could always count on Mary for a smile. She was a wonderful neighbor and truly a joy to be around.  I will miss her smiling face and will never forget her voice as she called my name from her front porch when she saw me outside.  My young daughters will and do truly miss her.  She was like a 2nd Grandma to them.

Our condolences to the entire Westerholt family.

Dale, 

I am so sorry to hear about your Mother's passing.  I hope it helps to know that you are in the thoughts of many friends and co-workers. 

Tom Shelton, St. Louis

The photos are beautiful. She is such an example of a life well lived and loved.  Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember in the days to come that according to Martin Luther King Jr "Faith is taking the first step, even when you don't see the whole staircase." Believe that she is with you always and keep stepping forward in her honor. 
Namaste.
Nancy Torno (St Louis, MO)

We are so sorry for your loss.  Our thoughts & prayers are with you.  (Beverly & Tom Ross, Glen Carbon, IL)

Aunt Mary always brought a smile to my face and love to my heart.  I'll always remember the wonderful times and laughs we shared.  We were truly blessed to have her as part of our family and lives and she will be sadly missed.  A beautiful, beautiful person inside and out.  All our love and sympathy, Mark, Liz and kids

Westerholt Family:  Take comfort in knowing you now have a guardian angel to watch over you.  Mary was such a good friend to my mom and dad.  She was always happy and smiling.  What wonderful times they had together and our family will certainly cherish all those memories.

Our deepest sympathy to the Westerholt family.  We will truly miss Mary.  Her smile and laughter was infectious.  When she talked and laughed with you it created a inner happiness in your heart.  Mary was the meaning of the word good.  She was kind, considerate, caring and many more things to many people.

She is in a better place now smiling down.  Mary left her mark in the world by her and Gene creating a wonderful close knit family and the offspring continuing in their footsteps. Mary was a perfect example of what all of us should be like and this world would truly be a better place to live in.  Not many people accomplish all this in a lifetime.  Her family and the world has surely lost a very special person.

Sincerely 

Mary & Larry Stangler

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this sad time. Be comforted knowing she's no longer suffering. Mary was a delight to be with.
She is also joining some good company "up there"
Dennis,Karen,Joe, & Lisa Zundel

I had the pleasure of working with Mary years ago at the Ronald McDonald house.  What a wonderful, giving woman with a big heart.  I am happy to have known her.  She is a great example for the rest of us.

Dear Jim and Carole, this is Howard and Gerri Little. Howard is a former CWS Employee and we would like to offer our sincere condolences to the westerholt Family. Howard just said he has fond memories of Mary when he was working at CWS. MaY God Bless your Family in this time of sorrow. Always Cherish the memories. Sincerely, Howard and Gerri Little

In loving memory of Mary, who made this world a brighter place.  She will  forever play a part in the smiles, the priceless moments, that are treasured in our hearts.  With warmest thoughts and deepest sympathy.  Howard & Judy

Dear Gene and all the Westerholts,

I received notice of Mary's death just now.  I hope that she and my mom and dad have had a truly joyous reunion in heaven---because I know both of them felt they had no better friends here on earth than Mary and Gene Westerholt.  I promise you my prayers, and will be sending a Mass card tomorrow.  Please be comforted and strengthened knowing that Christ has promised her (and all of us) eternal life in the Kingdom.  

Sincerely,
Jim Thompson
410 W. North Avenue #1
Pittsburgh, PA 15212

chantermt@yahoo.com

I am sorry to hear of the loss of your Dear Mother. It is especially hard when the time is around the Holidays. Remember her awsome smile, and the laughter, and all of the Great memories, and everything that she stood for, that will be carried on by all of you, her loving children ! May God Be With You All,  Teri (Long)(Holtzmann) MacBush

My Mom & Dad absolutely adored her. I also have many fond memories of her kindness and thoughtfulness when my parents passed. Our prayers are with you all. Take comfort in the fact she is now surely with many friends and relatives who have gone before her.  Rich & Donna Diffley

Such a pleasant lady to know. She will be missed by so many. My deepest sympathy to the Westerholt family.

I have seen a rainbow circle across the sky.  I have seen a sunset more beautiful than gold.  I have seen so many wonders and blessings from above, but I haven't seen anything to match the wonder of a Mother's love.
Miss you Mom!
P.S. Save me a place up there!!

Our hearts go out to everyone greiving for Mary.  She was a super lady and will be unbelievably missed.  We send all our prayers and good wishes to all of you;  we are here supporting you from afar.  Know that we surround you with love and kisses at this empty and sad time.  You are in our thoughts, Love Laura and Ken

Dearest Westerholt's--- We know and can feel your sense of shock, loss, emptiness, love and grief.  going thru this only a year or so ago, the feelings are still there, nothing like losing a parent, or spouse.  our hearts are with you at this trying time, even though we cannot be there in person.  God rest her soul and surround her with all the love she deserves as she travels to her resting space with those who wait to welcome her to her new home.  Peace be with you Aunt Mary-Del, we love you!!!!!   Laura and Ken (Albany NY)

Our Aunt Mary was the sweetest and nicest lady. She was always fun to be with and she loved having her family all around her. We will miss her so much. love, Kathy, Laurie, and Gail, too

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Mary A. Diffley Westerholt

4 septembre 1925 – 26 novembre 2010

Hoffmeister Colonial Mortuary

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