Charles Andreas Bender

My father, a great man of 5 children, 2 Grandchildren and a Fiancée unexpectedly passed away peacefully in his sleep on June 22, 2018. He was born In Kassel Germany on June 17, 1957. He was a peaceful caring man who only wanted the best for everyone. He gave every ounce of himself to everyone he cared about and always put everyone else's needs before himself. He was a man of great passion and put his whole heart into everything he did, especially his work. He had a great sense of humor and one of the kindest hearts I've ever witnessed, He taught me what it was to truly be a man. A man who cares for others first, who doesn't judge, who laughs, loves and treats everyone equally. He wanted only peace for everyone and taught me everything I know and if I become half the man he was I would truly be lucky. He was all of our best friends and our confidant. My sisters, and brother and I are trying to raise money for the memorial he deserves, one of dignity and respect. He deserves to be remembered and those who loved him also deserve an opportunity to say goodbye. R.I.P. Charles Andreas Bender we all miss you and love you and you will never be forgotten. His legacy left behind is his Fiancée Holly Light, His five children, Carl Anthony Bender, Dominique June Bender, Charles Loren Bender, Lora Mars Bender, and Crystal Alexandra Bender, and his grandchildren Ashlynn Grace Gecsey, and Alexandra Renee Palmer.

Psalm 23

The Lord is my shepherd, I lack nothing. He makes me lie down in green pastures, he leads me beside quiet waters, he refreshes my soul. He guides me along the right paths for his name’s sake. Even though I walk through the darkest valley, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me. You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely your goodness and love will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.

A visitation will be held on Sunday, July 8, 2018 from 4:00 to 8:00 pm in the Westminster Memorial Park Main Chapel. Services will be held on Monday, July 9, 2018 at 2:30 pm in the Westminster Memorial Park Main Chapel with a graveside service to follow. Arrangements under the direction of Westminster Memorial Park, 14801 Beach Blvd. Westminster, CA 92683. (714) 893-2421