

Joy Rae (Stewart) Findley (b. December 16, 1938), beloved mom, grandma, sister, aunt, and great grandma, passed away on February 26th, 2024. Raised in Fayetteville, Arkansas in the loving home of parents Charles and Mettie Stewart and her three siblings, Charles, James, and June, she graduated from Fayetteville High School in 1956 and the University of Arkansas (BS/BA in Accounting) in 1959. After college Joy worked as an auditor for the Dallas County (TX) Schools and the Internal Revenue Service. A blind date at a Texas A&M – SMU football game in November 1960 changed everything. Her date Wayne Findley, a persistent farmer from rural south central Kansas, kept coming back to the big city until she relented. They married (six months later) in May 1961. After a short stint on the farm, they moved back to Dallas when Wayne enrolled in the Perkins School of Theology. Joy and Wayne raised four kids—Doug, Stephen, Kevin, and Stacy—who all managed to leave home and make their own way. While the kids were growing up, Joy went back to school, earned a Master’s of Education degree from Wichita State University in 1976, and worked as a public school counselor until 1997.
During this time, Joy was devoted not only to her family but also to the United Methodist churches (UMC) in which Wayne served as minister, including Asbury UMC, Terrell, TX; Douglass UMC, Douglass, KS; Johnson UMC, Johnson, KS; University UMC, Wichita, KS; and First UMC, Hutchinson, KS. When Wayne was asked to serve in the UMC Conference Office, the two of them re-joined University UMC in Wichita, where Joy remained a faithful member to the end. Joy loved to spend her time working puzzles, traveling, reading (especially on contemporary politics), and playing games, very competitively, with friends and family.
Joy is preceded in death by her parents, her husband Wayne, and her brother Charles Stewart, and is survived by her brother James Stewart and sister June Newkirk; children W. Douglas Findley (wife Mary), Stephen Findley (wife Pascale Perraudin), Kevin Findley (wife Lisa), and Stacy Findley; eight grandchildren (Samantha Nelson, Jessica Yang, David McCoy, Allen Findley, Joel Findley, Anna Spradlin, Jonah Findley, and Danny Findley); and two great-grandchildren (Oliver Yang and Graham Findley).
In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the United Methodist Open Door (UMOpenDoor.org) or St. Anthony Family Shelter both in Wichita, Kansas. Please specify "in memoriam of Joy Findley" in the donation.
A memorial service is scheduled for Saturday, March 16th at 11 a.m. at University UMC, 2220 N. Yale Ave.,Wichita, KS.
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