Joseph Hockaday

Elbert, a native of Angier, NC, was born on September 16, 1930 to the late Joseph and Alma Hockaday.

He was a Master Craftsman and home builder. He made many items for family members using his gift of woodworking that are a testament to who he was, both in deed and character.

As a member of First United Methodist Church in Cary NC, Elbert put God and family first in everything he did. He was a model for what a husband and father should be according to God’s word.

Being a Mason, Elbert’s dedication to the Masonic philosophy of helping others less fortunate was a large part of his life’s mission. He spent many years helping the children at the Masonic Home for Children At Oxford in Oxford NC.

Elbert constantly gave unselfishly to everyone around him. His kindness and generosity were equally measured out to everyone he came into contact with throughout his life.

In addition to his parents, he is preceded in death by his wife of 70 years, Kathryn Goss Hockaday; daughter, Diane Hockaday, daughter Charlotte Hockaday and sister Inez Durham.

He is lovingly remembered and will be deeply missed by his sisters Jene Dunham (Billy), Faye Blackburn (Carl); daughter, Sharon Aiken (JW); grandchildren, Kelly Maddox (Ken), Korey Hatch (Christie), Joey Hatch (Christy), Natalie Chase (Dave); great-grandchildren, Ryan, Grace, Ethan, Trevor, Lucas and Grady; and great-step grandchildren, Aiden and Conner.

The family will receive friends and guests on Friday, November 12th, 2021 from 1:00 PM to 2:00 PM at Apex Funeral Home. A private family burial will take place at the Hockaday family cemetery.

In lieu of customary remembrances, memorial donations may be made to the Masonic Home for Children at Oxford using the link below and please indicate in the comments that this is a memorial contribution in honor of Joseph Hockaday.

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