Kimberly Dawn Ruhmke

Kimberly Wisener Ruhmke left this world unexpectedly on November 6, 2026, leaving behind a family who loved her deeply and countless memories that will continue to bring comfort in the days and years ahead. Above all, Kim was a devoted mother and spouse who loved her husband and her three children with all her heart. Her family was the center of her life, and the arrival of her first grandchild last year brought her a special kind of happiness and pride. The love she had for her husband, children, and grandchild was immeasurable, and that love will remain an enduring part of her legacy.

Kimberly had a wonderful eye for beauty and a true passion for interior design. She had a gift for seeing the possibilities in a space and creating surroundings that felt welcoming, beautiful, and uniquely her own. Her creativity and sense of style were an expression of the way she saw the world. She loved to travel and experience new places. Of all her travels, she especially treasured trips taken to enjoy the brilliant colors of autumn. There was something about the changing leaves, crisp air, and beauty of the fall season that spoke to her and brought her joy.

Kimberly’s unexpected passing leaves an emptiness that words cannot fully express. While her passing leaves an immeasurable emptiness, there is comfort in imagining that Kimberly was greeted in heaven by her parents, two sisters, father-in-law, and her beloved dog, Georgia, faithfully waiting to give her the Wheaten Greetin. Surely theirs was a joyful reunion. Those who loved Kimberly will remember far more than the sadness of losing her. They will remember her love for her family, her creativity, her appreciation for beauty, the places she traveled, and the moments they were fortunate enough to share with her.

Kimberly will be deeply missed by her husband, her three children, her grandchild, her family, and all those whose lives she touched. Though she left this world far too soon, the love she gave and the memories she created will remain forever. May Kimberly be remembered whenever autumn leaves turn brilliant shades of red, orange, and gold, a beautiful reminder of a life that brought color and love to those around her.

Please join us for a Celebration of Life at the Apex Funeral Home located at 550 West Williams Street in Apex, North Carolina on Thursday November 12, 2026 at 2 pm. Visitation with the family will begin after the Celebration of Life at 3032 Sainsbury Way in Apex, North Carolina.

*We & She would love if everyone wore shades of blue to the service as that was her favorite color*

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in her honor to www.nationalwheatenrescueinc.org