Muriel Lynn Lamoureux

Born on April 25, 1952, Lynn grew up in New Rochelle, NY, the youngest of six children. As the baby of the family, she was cherished by and looked up to her brothers Dick, Jim, Ross, and Alan, and her sister, Jan. After graduating from New Rochelle Highschool in 1970, she attended The University of Colorado in Denver to study Health Sciences, setting her course with quiet determination and a deeply caring purpose.

Lynn devoted her working life to others as a beloved and dedicated Physicians Assistant, serving with steadiness, discernment, and compassion until retiring at the age of 70. It is heartbreaking and unfortunate that shortly after this milestone, Lynn was diagnosed with lung cancer, and Ron’s Alzheimer's worsened. Ron was placed in memory care, while Lynn fought and beat cancer with remarkable resolve. When Ron passed in 2023, Lynn lost the love of her life, along with the energy to keep fighting for her health.

Lynn and Ron were married at Roger Williams Park, RI in 1984. Together they welcomed two daughters, Ashley in 1986 and Nicole “Gibou” in 1988. They raised their girls in Chepachet, RI on Lake Washington, where many gatherings occurred and many memories were made. After several snowy winters, the family relocated to Raleigh, NC, where they remained, and where their girls still reside today. Lynn’s love was steadfast and protective, offered with warmth and affection, and guided by the kind of wisdom that made others feel safe, seen, and supported.

Lynn’s interests reflected a curious mind and a generous spirit. She loved music—growing up as a teenager at the height of the Beatles craze—and she encouraged her children to learn piano and guitar, two instruments for which she also took lessons. She was devoted to books and reading, often keeping at least two on her nightstand for the quiet hours before sleep. She loved the beach, where she could spend hours in the sun, crossing sand and boardwalks and enjoying fresh seafood. She was fascinated by wildlife, especially giraffes, donated to Holly’s Nest animal rescue, and delighted in photographing the birds and deer that visited her own back yard. She also loved antiquing; she and Ron were known to visit local yard sales regularly and antique shops when away from home, with favorite finds that included books and musical instruments.

Lynn carried a lifelong wonder for astronomy. As a child, she dreamed of being an astronaut—discouraged then because of her gender—yet as an adult she reclaimed that dream in her own way, decorating her dining room with suns, moons, stars, and a copy of Van Gogh’s Starry Night. She was also an avid crossword puzzler and a devoted fan of Jeopardy!—a nightly family tradition in which Lynn would even give 25¢ for each correct answer to anyone watching with her. After her daughters moved out, the tradition continued through a group chat, where they texted one another their final guesses each night.

Lynn believed in showing kindness to everyone. Brilliant, beautiful, and truly empathetic, she wanted others to be happy, and she gave of herself with a generosity that asked for little in return. Independent and strong-willed, she met life with clear-eyed strength, while never losing the tenderness that made her presence so comforting to those she loved.

To her surviving siblings (including Mary Scott)—thank you for your condolences as Lynn’s family offers theirs to you. She always spoke so highly of you. Her final wish was to apologize for not staying in better contact and to tell you she loves you. Heartfelt gratitude is also extended to SECU Hospice House, who extended compassion and dignity to Lynn during her last days, allowing for a peaceful transition. Also a special thank you to her trusted and loyal next-door neighbor, Dave, for his help and care.

“Limitless undying love which shines around me like a million suns. It calls me on and on across the universe.” — John Lennon