My Heart Breaks for this entire family! I’ve had the pleasure of learning about this beautiful woman through my new friend Sudesh! May God give you all the peace in your heart that surpasses all understanding! She is in the arms of God and smiling fondly at her husband once again!

For Ryan, Shawn and Family,
Very sorry to hear of the passing of your grandma/mom Bibi Sheela Farmah Ji..

I hope you find comfort in all the memories and  the legacy she leaves behind. 
May God grant her peace and give your family patience, strength, and courage for these difficult times.

Thinking of you all and keeping you all in my prayers.
Please have a safe trip.

Didi, I have always treasured your advice to spend quality time with my own parents, and your wisdom has really had a lasting impact on me. Because you certainly did it. You spend countless times with your mom, even during your lunch hours. And the stories you shared about your mom were impeccable and now, what amount of words can I share to console you and the rest of the family? 

For starters, my memory tells me; she was more than a trooper, she was a force of nature. A woman who faced life’s challenges with unwavering courage, grace, and compassion. Her strength did not just carry her through hard times; it certainly lifted those around her. She gave without expecting, loved without limits, and inspired without trying. 

Didi, my deepest sympathies on the loss of your mom. She was a truly amazing woman who raised an equally amazing person. I see so much of her kindness and strength in you. May her legacy live on through you, the rest of the family and the many lives she touched.

We were saddened to hear of this loss. Even though we were not able to meet in person Sheela Massi ji, the love you gave every time we talked on the phone made it feel like you were here with us. My mom and dad used to talk very highly of you when I was very young, which always inclined me to one day meet you. Although you have left this world now, we will forever cherish the love you had given to my family. You will be dearly missed.

I met Asha & Sudesh at college in Sanford, NC. They had just come from India and were a bit shy. I got them to open up and soon they invited me over to meet their three sisters and parents. Everyone was so nice. I got to know and love all of them. Sheela and Ram always made me feel so welcome. I loved going to their home. They were really a lot of fun and I have so many great memories. They moved to Cary and I moved to Arizona. We have been friends for nearly 40 years now. I do go back to visit and spend time with them whenever I can. Sheela had a beautiful smile and kind eyes. She was always making sure I was being taking good care of while in her home. I l feel so grateful and blessed to have known and loved her for so many years. I am truly going to miss her. I know that all her children, grandchildren and extended family will miss her terribly. I am sending you lots of love and prayers, and if anyone feels like talking I will be here for you.  Love always, Sherry

I met Suman in the 7th grade. We became fast friends that has lasted for many decades. I remember sleepovers at Suman’s house as teens and her mother, Sheela and her father Ram and her sisters welcomed me warmly like I was one of their own. Those sweet, precious memories will never fade from my memory. I’m sending love and prayers of comfort to the Farmah family and extended family members and loved ones of Ms. Sheela Farmah. May you rest in heavenly peace. You will always be loved and remembered.🌹🙏🏻🤍

Auntyji was more than just an aunt to me; she was a mother, a guide, and a constant source of love and strength. When I first left India and came to North Carolina alone, she embraced me with open arms, taking care of me as if I were her own daughter. Her wisdom and warmth shaped my life in ways I can never fully express.

She always knew just what to say, how to comfort, and how to guide me through the toughest moments. Her love and kindness will forever be in my heart.

Auntyji, I will miss you more than words can say. May you rest peacefully in heaven. 🙏🙏

Aunty ji was a like a mother to us . She guided us in every walk of our life with her experience and wisdom. We can never forget her love , caring nature and whole personality. She is truly an inspirational person for us . 
   May  she rest in peace in Heaven 🙏🙏

Lifting your sweet family up in prayer. I’ve been so blessed to have Suman as a close friend for many years! She is a sweet, beautiful & kind person & that is no doubt a reflection of her Mom (and Dad) and their love. I will never forget how I was welcomed into your home and the kindness of sharing a meal prepared with love!  I know she will be SO missed.  I pray you find comfort in your cherished memories with her. Love and hugs to you, Heidi

OBITUARY

Sheela Devi Farmah

May 6, 1940 – August 16, 2025

Apex Funeral Home

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