Pamela Jane Shaffer

July 3, 1960November 9, 2012
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Services for Mrs. Shaffer will be held on Friday, November 16, 9:00am at the DFW National Cemetery. Pamela Jane Shaffer, who was born in Long Beach, California on July 3, 1960, to William Gerard Pelham and Margie Loard, passed away on November 9, 2012 at Medical Center of Arlington after an extended illness. She is survived by her husband, Roy Shaffer, of Grand Prairie; sons: Brandon Heering and wife Stormie, and Corey Heering; step-son: Jesse Shaffer; step-daughter: Samantha Shaffer; sister: Debbie Kolojaco; brothers: Michael Pelham, Ronald Erbst and wife Elizabeth, Darryl Erbst and wife Lori; 4 nieces, 5 nephews, 4 great nieces, and 4 great nephews.


God saw you getting tired and a cure was not to be so he put his arms around you and whispered, "Come to Me"

With tearful eyes we watched you and saw you pass away and although we love you dearly we could not make you stay.

A Golden heart stopped beating hard working hands at rest. God broke our hearts to prove to us He only takes the best


Pamela Jane Shaffer

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Brandon Heering

November 28, 2012

You are missed very much. I love you mom. Brandon. You will live on because of the way you raised me. I love you mom. Cory. Love you forever and always Brandon and Cory.

Stormie Heering

November 28, 2012

Missing you, but loving you forever! Your daughter inlaw Stomie Heering.

Misti Montgomery

November 17, 2012

With love

Shirley Strickland-Walker

November 16, 2012

Memories of days gone by that feel our hearts with gratitude and love. You will live on in our hearts and we will treasure the memories we have of you all the more.

Belinda Erbst

November 14, 2012

Forever in our hearts and our Family! Sister, Aunt, Friend!