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The Fortin Group

217 Turner Street, Auburn, ME

OBITUARY

Rita Claudette Ray

November 18, 1936August 7, 2019

Poland - Rita C. Ray 82 passed away 8/7/2019 peacefully with her family by her side.

She was born in Danville ME to the parents of Joseph and Hermenie Lalemand November 18th 1936. Rita attended local schools in Auburn, ME where she was a head majorette.

She married her high school sweetheart Ernest Ray on August 31, 1957 and they raised 3 lovely daughters Tina, Tammy, and Tracy. They also raised their grandson Derek after their daughter Tina passed.

She was a very caring mother of three daughters, grandmother of 5 grandsons and 6 great grandchildren.

After schooling she worked at Knapp Shoe, Old Town shoe in old town while her husband attended University of Maine. After being a stay at home mom and her children had grown up, she worked at Fabrita Faberics & Paine Products. She also worked with her daughters, Tina at her ABC childcare center in Auburn ME and Tammy’s Greenhouse in NH.

Rita’s pride was living and enjoying her lakefront home on Middle Range Pond, the lake life she loved most was swimming, boating, gardening, and hosting her family events. She also enjoyed traveling to Aruba and Florida, camping in her motor home, and also loved watching her grandsons sporting events.

Rita in her younger and current years enjoyed, camping at the ocean, skiing, snowmobiling, tennis, bowling, roller skating, and most of all dancing with her husband.

Rita was predeceased by her parents, her (3) sisters and (3) brothers and her 1st Born daughter, Tina.

She is survived by her husband Ernest Ray of Poland; daughters Tammy of Otisfield and Tracy and her husband Michael of Poland; Grandsons, Derek and his wife Robyn of Raymond, Jacob of Poland, Joey and his wife Sarah of Poland, Ryan and Riley of Poland; Great-Grandchildren, Lucy, Addison, Holly, Oliver, Emmett, and Lachlan.

Visiting hours will be Monday August 12, 4pm at the Vineyard Christian Fellowship, 90 Lewiston St, Mechanic Falls, ME. A celebration of life service will follow.

A poem written by Ernest Ray in 1954, for his sweetheart Rita

Remember me my dear Misses remember me for my kisses

for the days that I would wait

for the evenings of our dates

the Eskimos would look at their dogs and say mush

but when I look at you all I do is blush

So remember me my dear Misses

Remember me for my kisses

Love, Ernie

Services

  • Visitation Monday, August 12, 2019
  • Celebration of Life Service Monday, August 12, 2019

Memories

Rita Claudette Ray

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Heidi LaCascio

August 18, 2019

So sorry to hear of Rita's passing. The fondest memories I have of her are of her and Papa at the rink. She would always greet me with a smile and a hug. She was a wonderful woman who raised a beautiful family that I am lucky to know. My thoughts are with you all. May Rita rest peacefully.

Linda Neal

August 15, 2019

Dear Ernie,
I 1st met Rita when she and I were in CMG having our girls in 1966.What a vibrant and friendly lady she was. I liked Rita immediately and am so sorry for your loss.
Every time I met her it was a joy. Her smile was so infectious.
My Sympathy goes out to the whole Ray Family.
Sincerely,
Linda Neal

Steve Robinson

August 12, 2019

Ernie,

So sorry for your loss. Rita was a lovely woman. It goes without saying she will be missed. wishing and praying for you and your family to have the strength during these times. Wishing you all the best. Remember those great days with love and admiration.

Steve and Louise Robinson
Poland

Mike & Laura Everhart

August 11, 2019

Sending our love and deepest sympathies.
Mike & Laura Everhart

Anita Bernard

August 11, 2019

My Sister Rita, I know You where My Aunt but You were always My sister since I was born. We shared many wonderful times together. Will miss You so much. My heart is broken. Your Sister Anita

Charlene LeClair

August 9, 2019

Our family was blessed to have known Rita & her beautiful family, when we discovered ABC CHILD CARE 34 years ago. I became close to her daughters and through the years, remained close to Tammy. Family meant everything to Rita & Ernie. Their love & devotion to Derek, after Tina's passing, was something that always remained in my heart. My deepest sympathies to Ernie, Tammy, and Tracey...as well as their entire family. The loss of someone as loving and amazing as Rita is profound & will be felt for years to come. May the beautiful memories all of you shared together bring a smile to your face, and help you get through this difficult time. We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. Our deepest sympathies, Charlene & the LeClair family

Jamal Parham

August 9, 2019

I'm sorry to hear about your loss. John 5:29 says: "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." While words fail to capture the pain of losing a loved one, we look forward to the time when words will fail to capture the joy of having God return your dear one to you.

Russ and Deb Lalemand

August 9, 2019

Such a beautiful soul we are so happy we were able to spend time with our aunt Rita recently. She always had her arms opened to everyone and had so much love in her. When she talked about her family, grandkids and great-grandkids there was so much tender love and she was so proud of all of them!!!! Rest In Peace dear lady you made the world a better place probably more than you ever knew. We Love You❤️❤️❤️

Kim Redmun

August 9, 2019

Dear Aunt Rita,
You are one of my favorite people in the world! I love you with all my heart and will miss you every day! My memories of you will always stay with me and will always bring a smile to my face! Until we meet again my dear Aunt!!
I Love You,
Kim

Filomena Day

August 8, 2019

Rita, you were always so sincere and authentic whenever we spent time together. Your laughter was contagious. Your love for your family so obvious. I am grateful you introduced me to your loving family. Especially to your beautiful daughter, Tammy, with whom I have been blessed to call my friend for these past 30 years regardless of how far apart we live. You will always be loved and missed dearly.

FROM THE FAMILY