Sheila Louise Burke-Howard

Sheila Louise Burke-Howard, 66, passed away on October 14, 2026. Born on September 11, 1960, in Richfield, Utah, Sheila lived a life marked by steady determination, deep love for family, and a generosity of spirit that showed itself in both everyday kindness and the way she opened her heart to the world around her. A resident of Bakersfield, California, she will be remembered with respect and lasting affection by all who knew her.

In her early years, Sheila lived eight years in Barstow before moving to Bakersfield with her family. She spent her childhood immersed in Bobby Sox softball, where her hard work and drive earned her many trophies—early signs of the resilience and resolve that would continue to define her throughout life. She attended Bakersfield High School and graduated from Richfield High School.

Sheila was a successful entrepreneur. She built two businesses over the years, a testament to her work ethic and self-reliance. One of those businesses was J. Cameron Tool where she met the love of her life, Johnny, beginning a chapter of devotion and partnership that remained central to her story. Sheila and Johnny were married on May 15, 1999. After Johnny’s passing in March 2017, Sheila carried forward with strength, holding close the love they shared and the life they built together.

Above all, Sheila loved her son Cameron with all her heart. She was deeply grateful that he was able to care for her during the many months preceding her passing—an expression of family devotion that meant the world to her and reflected the bond they shared.

Sheila’s adventurous nature and generous heart were evident in the life she made at home and outdoors. She was known for bringing home every stray she found, including turtles from the desert—an impulse that eventually led her to create a large habitat housing many turtles of all species, including two 200 lb. tortoises. She loved the outdoors and was a passionate fisher woman. She also loved the races and, together with Johnny, hosted tailgating BBQ’s at Famoso Raceway during the March Meets, creating warm memories rooted in togetherness and simple joy.

In the kitchen, Sheila’s spirit was just as vivid. Growing up, she loved “messing up the kitchen,” and she became a natural born chef who could cook anything. Her care and diligence extended to her yard as well, which she kept immaculate—filled with flowers, decor’, vegetables, and fruit trees. She loved canning her own fruit and vegetables, preserving the results of her labor with pride and purpose. A huge John Wayne fan, she enjoyed surrounding herself with memorabilia throughout her house, a personal touch that made her home unmistakably hers.

Sheila was a member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. Her life reflected a steady determination—captured perfectly by her license plate: “CUZ I WILL.” That resolve, paired with an infectious smile and a spirited, sassy way of enjoying life, is how many will remember her: resilient in hardship, hardworking in all she undertook, and beloved for the warmth she brought into every room.

Sheila is survived by her son Cameron; Mother - Nina Sipe-Russell; Sister - Lisa Michelle Garretson (Michael); Sister - Sonja "Sopey" Pappas; Brother- Douglas "Duke" Sipe; as well as many nieces, nephews, aunts, and grandchildren.

The family is grateful that Sheila is no longer suffering and is now in the arms of family and loved ones who were waiting for her. She will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved her.