It’s been a little over two years son. On the 20th we gathered to remember you at your favorite spot the Oceanside Pier, though part of it burnt down and is no longer there where the restaurant sat. Julie made a beautiful wreath in memory of you and Trin Trin. With both of your pictures on it. She tossed it in and it landed beautifully in the water. It moved so gracefully in the ocean with each little wave. I miss you so very much son. My heart aches so bad without you. There isn’t a second that goes by that I don’t think about you and miss you son. I don’t know how I’m still here. Just existing. I don’t know how to live without you son. I’ll never know how. I’m sad everyday all day son. You were everything I had. It was just you and I. You were my reason. My purpose. My oxygen. My world. My best friend. I lived and breathed for you son. I no longer have reason or purpose. I can no longer breathe without you. I no longer have my best friend by my side and world has been taken from me. I no longer live and breathe. I’m here gasping for air, barely breathing in a world I can longer live. I can’t do this much longer son. I don’t want to be here. The day I am no longer here, is the day I pray I am reunited with you son. I will finally be happy again and I will have my smile back the day I wrap my arms around you and with a big smile and say I’m home son. For now my heart will continue to hurt and I’ll be here just existing with a devastated  broken heart remembering all the good times we had son. Thank you for letting me be your mom and your best friend foe 25 years. I’ll see you soon son. I’m ready. 

Anthony “Antwon” 👼
SUBARU555 🚙
LLAA 💙



Love Mom

I can’t believe it’s been a year since you been gone son. It seems like yesterday when you were here helping me and then went home. I miss you so so so much son. I’m so sad without you. I cry all day everyday. My heart is broken and it hurts. I’m so lost without you. I pray everyday I go to sleep and when I awake I’m with you again. I’ll pray it every night until I’m eternally with you son. I’m sorry I can’t live without you. You were my reason for being. Now I’m just existing. The day I find happiness and will ever be happy again is the day I am with you son. I love you so much son. I will see you soon and it will be the best day of my life. I can’t wait until that day comes. I think of that day everyday and it always makes me smile. Wait for me son. I’ll be there soon, I promise. 
I love you Anthony. 
Love mom 

SUBARU555💙👼💕

My bestest friend forever 💙

Love Mom 💕



555

My bestest friend 💕

Love Mom 💕



555

My twin. My first love. My only baby. And I wouldn’t  have it any other way. 💙

Love Mom 💕



555

Antwon, today is the day we lay you to rest. I’m so saddened by the thought I’m never going to see you again physically. I do know you have your beautiful blue wings and you are happy in Heaven. I love you so much baby! I’m going to miss your silly ass. Your beautiful smile and your amazing laugh. I know you’re with us ALWAYS! May you rest in peace you beautiful soul! 💙💙💙🕊️🕊️🕊️💔💔💔

Thinking of you today, yesterday, and everyday until we’re all reunited again. You were always so sweet and funny with all the kids. I wish jetson got to know you the way I did. I’ll never let the memory of you disappear he will always know his uncle Icejjfish. Love you always. The triangle🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

Antwon,

Thank you for all the Disneyland memories and G eazy conversations, we never got to go to that concert like we planned. I remember when you actually let me drive your Subaru and I was so scared because I know how much you loved your car. You have and always will be one of the funniest and kindest souls I ever got the chance to meet. Rest easy.

When I met you Anthony you were a young awkward teenager (about 13yrs old) who didn’t quite know who or what direction to take in life.  You were trying to Learn how to be an independent young man, to explore and express yourself in this big world.  Over the years I have watched you fall down, make mistakes and get back up only to try again.  That fighting spirit is one of your greatest strengths. You are one of my Daughters best friends and for that I will always be grateful. It has been a great pleasure to see you as the person you had grown up to be. A good role model, a caring friend with a great kind hearted soul. Thank you for being a part of my family’s life. You are missed more than words can express. 

Antwon, it’d been a long time since we talked but I can honestly say that to this day every time I see a Subaru I think of you. The first time you mentioned them in our class everyone thought it was hilarious & the rest is history because after that you’d bring them up every chance you got 😆 You’ll be missed dearly. Thank you for the laughs we shared momentarily. I’ll be praying for your family and friends ❤️

From high school to working together. Thanks for all the laughs, all the Subaru facts, & for just being a bad ass friend. Your laughter & silliness will be missed forever 🤍  even tho I’m states away, I’m still at your service I’m spirit. Holding your family & loved ones right. Forever & ever, bud! 

We will never forget all the memories we shared together as you were apart of our family! May you rest in peace Anthony.  
With Love, The Wheeler Family 

How can I choose just one memory when we have so many amazing ones I couldn’t even imagine what would best describe all the incredible memories we have together. I will never forget you and the goofy, sweet, loving, and protective man you were for all our family, especially your mom. I hope you never stop reminding us how close you truly are. I wish you  had never left. Life is so unfair. I’ll keep you alive in my heart and mind, you’ll hear from me daily. I love you forever Icejjfish 555 Subaru💙🕊️

OBITUARY

Anthony A Valdez

January 5, 1998 – February 20, 2023

Weaver Mortuary and Crematory

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