Born in Birmingham, Alabama, to Allie June Burton and Bill Thomas Carpenter, Tommy grew up with a sharp mind and a call to serve. After graduating from Fairfield High School, he pursued higher education at the University of Alabama, where he was a proud member of the Beta Theta Pi fraternity.
Tommy’s professional life was defined by precision and dedication. He earned his master's degree at UAB and enjoyed a long, successful career as an electrical engineer for Southern Company.
In addition to his civilian profession, Tommy served his country with honor and distinction. He rose to the rank of Lt. Colonel in the Air National Guard and served several active duty missions in the United States Air Force. Before retirement, he was given the opportunity and great honor to serve with the Air Force Reserves at the Pentagon.
Tommy lived life fully and found joy in many pursuits. He treasured time spent in Destin, Florida, and enjoyed bird hunting, fishing, playing tennis, and boat rides on Lake Mitchell. He was a passionate Alabama football fan, followed NASCAR closely, and was well known for his competitive and intense games of dominoes. Those who knew him will remember his sharp mind, sense of humor, and unwavering loyalty to family and friends.
Tommy was preceded in death by his parents and his brother, Christopher Bill Carpenter. His memory will be carried on by his two daughters: Joan Hedgepeth (Phillip) and Bailey Dickson (Andrew); his granddaughter, Dylan Dickson; and his sister, Vicki Carpenter. He is also survived by his cat, 2 Socks.
The family wishes to extend their deepest gratitude to Wellstar Hospice System and Homewatch Caregivers for the compassionate care and dignity they provided Tommy at the end of his journey.
A visitation will be held on Monday, April 20, 2026, from 1:00 PM – 2:00 PM at Ridout’s Elmwood Chapel, 800 Dennison Ave. SW Birmingham, AL 35211. Following visitation, he will be laid to rest with full military honors at Elmwood Cemetery & Mausoleum.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made in Tommy’s memory to the Wounded Warrior Project at www.woundedwarriorproject.org, honoring his lifelong commitment to his fellow service members.
