OBITUARY
Matilda Emma Padhi
November 3, 1933 – January 3, 2021
Matilda Emma Padhi passed away peacefully at the Rockyview General Hospital Calgary on January 3, 2021.
Born November 3, 1933 in Belleoram, Newfoundland daughter of John and Irene (Rose) Whatley. After graduating from high school Emma headed to Halifax to work in the Moirs chocolate factory until she was old enough to begin nurses training. In 1950 she entered the Halifax Infirmary School of Nursing. Upon graduation in 1953 she headed west to Saskatoon where she worked at the Sanatorium and later as a head nurse at St. Paul’s Hospital. She met her future husband Radhakrishna (Rad) Padhi while working at Fort San and they were married in 1956. The two travelled to Kingston where they started their family, and her husband pursued a career in cardiac surgery. They decided they should travel to Rad’s home country India, so he went ahead to get settled. In November 1961 she travelled with 2 children, while expecting a third child to join her husband. She travelled from Halifax to London and then onto Cairo. She was the only adult female on the inaugural flight of the United Arab Airlines flight from Cairo to Bombay. She loved India, the country, the people, the food… She assisted her husband by running the bypass machine for the first successful open-heart surgery in Wanlesswadi India in April of 1962. They worked alongside each other for 6 years. In 1967 they returned to Canada living in Saskatoon, Regina and settled in Moose Jaw in 1970. She raised a family, continued a nursing career and for a while sold real estate. She loved hockey and was a huge supporter of the MJ Canucks/Warriors. She was president of the Moose Jaw Newfoundlanders club. A member of the Saskatchewan Registered Nurses Association. She occasionally worked in Northern Saskatchewan outposts providing relief to nurses on their time off. Upon retiring in 1987 Emma and Rad decided to travel to Cameroon in West Africa for a 3-year medical mission. Again, Emma helped teach the nursing staff, assisted in the operating room, re-organized equipment and supplies and helped to rebuild the hospital. She continued to volunteer for medical missions (Haiti and Guatemala) after her husband died.
Her religious beliefs were a guiding force in her life. She loved the hymns and took great comfort in reading and reciting verses from the scriptures. Throughout her life she always made time to volunteer whether it was at the church or in the community. She travelled the world and made lasting friendships wherever she went. She was a progressive thinker, accepting of individual differences and always up to date on world affairs. She loved to shop especially for jewelry. She enjoyed sewing, knitting, and reading. She loved life and knew how to have a good time wherever she was. She was devoted to her family and friends and was always there to lend a hand to someone in need.
She was preceded in death by her husband R.K. Padhi (1998). She is survived by her children; Pamela (Kim) Railton, Desmond (Laura) Padhi, Devkumar (Veronica) Padhi; grandchildren Aaron (Jessica) Railton, Sarah Railton (Bernie Banovic), Nathan Railton, Evin Padhi, Krystle O’Brien (Justin) and great-grandson Charlie Railton.
Our hearts are heavy, and our loss is great, but we take comfort in knowing that she is at peace in heaven.
We wish to thank the staff at the RVGH Unit 74 for their wonderful care of our dear mother in her final days. We also wish to thank the staff at Father Lacombe Care Centre which has been her home since her stroke in May of 2016. Thank you for all those special little things you did for mom, it meant so much.
Due to the current Covid restrictions we have decided to hold a celebration of life once things settle and family are able to travel.
In lieu of flowers, please consider making donations to the Canadian Down Syndrome Society (https://cdss.ca).
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- Canadian Down Syndrome Society
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Memories
Matilda Emma Padhi
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ADD A MEMORYJohanna Roskey
January 14, 2021
I was so sorry to hear about your mother's passing. I met Emma at the 55plus social group we both belonged to. Since we both had a grandchild with Down Syndrome, we immediately had a connection. A few summers ago Emma and I went to Eau Claire Market to their annual Food Tasting event. We both really enjoyed that lovely summer day.
William Hatcher
January 14, 2021
Dear Pam,Des and Dev,
We have sadness in our hearts and at the same time wish to celebrate a wonderful life lived. Emma enjoyed life, was kind and generous to others and she loved you all so much! We have many fond memories as she was a big part of our lives growing up in Cape Breton.
I remember when she and Rad left for India. My Mom was so worried but excited for them at the same time. Mom would say that if anyone could do this it was Emma. We loved getting the blue airmail envelopes in the mail. They were exotic and full of exciting adventures that we read over and over.
She opened my eyes to the world and encouraged us to travel. We enjoyed sharing our travel stories with her and she would tell us about where we should go next. She was full of good travelling tips.
In later years Carolyn and I enjoyed our visits with Emma on both Canadian coasts. We shared some good wines and enjoyed her many stories. These we will remember always.
Please take care of each other and love to you all.
Bill &Carolyn
Ann Brown
January 14, 2021
Emma was a very gifted women who shared her light and love freely. She always greeted everyone with a smile and told a joke or story that brightened the day of those in her presence. Emma was a lady of deep faith.
May you trust that love is stronger than death and draw comfort from the bond that unites you with your loved one.
May you find solace as you grieve the loss of Emma
Blessings of His Comfort
Love Ann Brown
Darlene Romashenko
January 13, 2021
So sorry to hear about the loss of your Mother.
I had the privilege to meet her at a coffee group and visted her at Father Lacombe, very nice lady.
My Deepest Sympathy.
Anne Szabo
January 13, 2021
I met Emma through a club we both belonged to and became fast fiends due to our shared love of travelling. As a result we travelled together for a number of years. A Caribbean cruise, a tour of Turkey, a riverboat journey from Moscow to St Petersburg, Vietnam, Myanmar, Bangkok, Hong Kong, Seoul Korea, a music tour from Nashville to New Orleans, and the Galapagos to name a few.
Emma being a seasoned traveler was totally unflappable when the unexpected occurred whether that was missing a flight from Hong Kong to Hanoi or setting off the security alarms in foreign airports due to all the jewelry she insisted on wearing.
She only had two vices that I was aware of. One was her love of jewelry especially rings which she purchased all over the world and always managed to bargain a great price. Her motto was "if you can't eat it or wear it, don't buy it"! Her second vice was enjoying a glass of wine, often justifying it by saying "it's got to be Happy Hour someplace in the world"!
Emma enjoyed meeting new people all around the world. She would strike up a conversation in the most unusual places and sometimes with some shady looking characters. I recall we stumbled on a Biker rally in a small BC town and Emma started chatting up some suspicious long haired, beer belly biker dudes because she recognized their "Newfie " accents.
I'm quite sure that Emma in Heaven is enjoying her new experiences , riding on the clouds, trying on her new angel wings and finding out where everyone is from. I for one will never forget her.
Ronnie Hatcher
January 13, 2021
Dear Pam, Dev and Des,
We were saddened to get the news of Emma's passing. Your mother was so proud of her children and grandchildren. She lived a good life and accomplished so much. My earliest memories are of Emma and her dear friend and classmate, Marie Howe, coming to work at the Sydney City Hospital and living with us at the time. I was only 8 years of age at the time. She was very close to my Mom ( her aunt Janet) and a big sister to me and my brothers. Emma also baby sat us anytime our parents needed a break or the odd trip to Halifax. Always a fun loving lady.
Please accept mine and Mary's deepest condolences and God bless you all.
Alice Irvine
January 12, 2021
Emma always had a joke to share with our group at RDLUC.
Until I read this obituary, I did not realize that she was Sarahs
grandmother. Please accept my condolences for the loss of
this wonderful lady!
A. Lorraine Irvine
Marj. Den Hoed
January 12, 2021
We are sorry for your loss. Your Mom, Grandma was a special lady and my Mom and I enjoyed visiting her. It was fun to play Rummikub with the two of them. Unfortunately it became too hard for mom to keep coming to see Emma but we talked about her, and the memories of the times they had together. Love Marj. (Doris)
Fran and Andy Porter
January 12, 2021
Dev, Veronica, and Nathan, we have come to know you so much better since our visits to Emma at Lacombe Centre after her stroke. But Andy and I knew Emma from church before that, and we loved her kindness, sense of humour, and all the funny stories she told at Bible Study! Our sincerest condolences go to all Emma's loving family members on the loss of a beautiful lady who will be much missed. No doubt her sparkling eyes and keen wit are now charming them up there in Heaven! May you all take comfort in knowing she suffers no more and will live on forever in your hearts. Love and hugs, Fran and Andy
Katie Mutlow
January 12, 2021
When we moved to our Condo in Evergreen to be a part of Red Deer Lake United Church for a few years we met many special
people. One of those became my dear friend--Emma. We lived
within walking distance of each other so it was easy to drop by.
Emma had so many precious and interesting stories to tell about her life of service. She was such a dedicated witness to works of
human kindness. I will always treasure her friendship and inspiration. Blessings & Peace to the family,
Katie (Bob) Mutlow
Donna McSherry
January 12, 2021
Dear Dev, Desmond and Pam;I was sorry to hear about your Mom's passing! I had met her a few times when Dev and I used to hang out in the basement for our "wild party's" 😊,pop and chips. Not just us, but some of the Palliser Heights crowd. If I recall, you were neighbors to Patty Scott, and she had a pool which was so fun. I also went to school with Desmond, but think he was a few grades ahead! Dev you were the guy who always had something funny to say, the class entertainment. But the few times I met your Mom, she was always so gracious to us crazy teenagers, and always beautifully dressed, and your home was so meticulous! You could tell she was very proud of her home, never once did I see anything out of place. Also Pam , a few years older was so nice, friendly and so pretty! Anyway, my condolences to you all, take comfort in all of your beautiful memories 🙂.She was a very special lady, as I'm reading the sad news, you can see she was loved by many! I hope you remember me Dev, as you were hard to forget, and I hope you continue to have that great sense of humor, Sincerely, Donna McSherry, Moose Jaw (yes I'm still here🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹💐💐💐
Mike Coe
January 12, 2021
I'm saddened at the news of Emma's demise. My, what a busy Lady throughout her life. Quite the person obviously; who enjoyed life.
HELEN Fiander(Rose)
January 11, 2021
A great Cousin indeed.Her mother and my father were brother and sister.I remember Emma',s few visits to Belleoram over the last twenty years to attend festivals ,social gatherings and church services.She enjoyed them imensely.on her last visit I remember walking around the harbour visiting old friends and sitting on the beach overlooking the harbour and remembering old times. This brought tears to her eyes. On behalf of all my sibling of the late Nathan & Meta Rose I send condolences to the family, RIP Emma
David Kachan
January 10, 2021
I was saddened to hear about Emma’s passing. What an incredible life she lived. I remember fondly the summers we spent at your family’s cottage at Buffalo Pound. I will always be grateful for the support and compassion Emma provided for my mother after the passing of my father. You in are in our thoughts as you grieve Aunty Emma’s passing.
David, Asa, Maia, Gabrielle and Elliot Kachan
Halifax, Nova Scotia
sharon mannion
January 10, 2021
Emma and I are one day apart on birthdays, November 3 and 4, and we were both "true" Scorpios in every way. She was a "character" from the first day I met her and we became friends. Learning about her life was ongoing as she told us many stories of her amazing life and I never stopped learning about her life. I met Dev, and Pam and immediately realized how accomplished and dedicated they were to Emma, but are also outstanding human beings. I know that Emma is at peace with her beloved Rad, and I can only envy such well lived lives. RIP my dear Emma.
Carolyn Scidmore
January 10, 2021
Have such fun memories of our days in real estate together and our visits st the lake
She was a great lady 😊
Stephanie and Jim Evans
January 9, 2021
Our love and condolences go to Emma’s family, our thoughts and prayers are with them.
My earliest memory of Emma was in 1970. Our family arrived in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan, in June 1970. A few days after our arrival, when I was shopping with our three children Emma stopped me on the street and asked if I was Dr. Evans’ wife. I replied that I was and she said "welcome to Moose Jaw, we arrived here recently too". It was the start of a friendship, which continued for over fifty years.
Karen Walsh
January 9, 2021
A long time friend of the Walsh family... We are very sorry to hear of the passing of Mrs.Padhi and send our deepest most sincerest condolences along with love and prayers of peace to the friends and family.🙏♥️
Craig Snyder
January 9, 2021
Pam, Des, Dev,
I was sorry to hear about your Mom.
Hopefully you were able to spend some time with her through the challenges and restrictions we are all living through.
Please stop in at the cabin if you are in the area.
Take care
Craig Snyder
Karen Torres
January 8, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. My mom Noella and I have known Emma since she came to my mom’s wing at Father Lacombe. I will greatly miss bringing her a tea with dark chocolate treats and having her join us so that we can listen to her many life stories and adventures. She was such a wise and funny woman. She always gave good advice. Emma was so good to my mom, always looking out for her. She loved coming out to visit with my little pack of dogs. We loved her dearly. It will not be the same without her. Hugs to everyone in the Padhi family. Emma, RIP my friend....until we meet again...