So Ngor was born on August 22, 1928. She came from Kow How Toon (born in Leung Toon), Gong Yet, Toy Sun, Canton, China.
She is survived by her husband Joe (Fook Loon) Lee; her sons Alfred, Gordon and Edward; her daughter Maxine; her daughter-in-law Cassandra Lai; as well as her grandson Michael Lee. So Ngor was predeceased by her sons For Hon and Douglas.