

Tom was born on May 27,1954, in Lackawanna, New York. He married the love of his life, Kathy, and together they had their son, Thomas M. Tom cherished spending time with his family and was a loving father to Tommy. He was overjoyed when he became "Papa" to his grandsons, Max and Ben. The boys brought so much happiness to him.
He enjoyed spending time tinkering in his garage and previously riding his motorcycle. Tom was most happy when he was able to create memories with his family and grandsons. He made a lasting impact with those he loved most and will be greatly missed.
Tom is survived by his wife, Kathryn "Kathy" (Antonik) Capodicasa; son, Thomas M. (Sydney) Capodicasa; grandchildren, Max and Ben; son-in-law of the late Matthew and late Blanche Antonik; sister-in-law Susan M. Drew; treasured uncle of Matthew Drew and Christopher Drew; son of late Thomas J and late Margaret; sister, Mary (Jim) Lawless; his pet pal, Bentley; and many friends and relatives.
A memorial gathering for Tom will be held Friday, November 1, 2024 from 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM at McEwen Funeral Service-Mint Hill Chapel, 7428 Matthews-Mint Hill Road, Mint Hill, NC 28227.
An additional service will be held on Friday, November 8, 2024 from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM at John J Kaczor Funeral Home, 3450 South Park Ave, Blasdell, NY 14219.
Flowers gratefully declined. The family encourages all who knew and loved Tom to write their favorite memory or story and bring to gathering or email [email protected]
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