OBITUARY
Bobby Eugene Matthews
December 9, 1928 – January 31, 2021
Bobby Eugene Matthews, age 92, of Conover, passed away on Sunday, January 31, 2021 at his residence after a brief illness. Born December 9, 1928 in Catawba County, he was the son of the late Robert Jones and Metta Hefner Matthews. He was the second child and first son of his parents, who welcomed 5 more children.
Bobby spent his entire life in Conover, a town he loved dearly. He was reared knowing the value of hard work. In addition to helping with the family farming, he worked summers at Sipe’s Orchard Home, walking miles there and back, earning 7 cents an hour, 12 hours a day picking fruit. He also drove a school bus while he was a student. There was even a stint at Warlong Glove Mill. He was educated in schools in Catawba County and graduated from Newton Conover High School. After graduation, he and his buddy, Glenn Smith, ventured to Detroit to work in the automobile industry. There they secured jobs at a Ford Plant in River Rouge welding bumpers at night. Returning from Detroit, he and his buddy joined the Army in 1948. Bobby was stationed in South Carolina, Texas, and Washington, until he was honorably discharged with the rank of Sergeant and having earned a medal for sharp shooting.
After returning to Conover, he worked at Carolina Mills, but left for a job as a brick mason for which he developed a passion. He mastered this craft which helped form his lifelong career. Bobby and his wife, Frankie began a family business out of their home in 1955, B. E. Matthews Construction Company. Most of the early years involved building homes. In 1969 he purchased and renovated the old Conova Theater building into company headquarters. In 1974 Bobby founded Conover Hardware, and in 1979 he purchased the Saunders building and renovated it into office space. As the business expanded, his children began joining it, specifically sons Gary and Andy, who helped their dad become a successful, multi state, award-winning builder. Today the company operates offices in both the Conover headquarters and in Charlotte.
Bobby’s interests and contributions were many. From his childhood he maintained his love of gardening, producing enough for family and friends. Hunting was a passion. He hunted all over North America, telling his family stories they will never forget. Fishing was also a joy. An active member of Catawba Country Club, he loved golf and was fortunate to be able to play on some of the most famous courses in the United States and the United Kingdom. Ireland was his favorite where he played with his son-in-law,Tom Considine. Bob always worked and played hard especially with his good friend, Fred Harman. Side-by-side Bob and Fred, who preceded him in death, made all of these pursuits great fun and relived them many times. In addition to the fun times, Bobby was proud of being a founding member of the Catawba County Masonry Association. He also served on the People’s Bank Board of Directors for 32 years. On August 5, 2019, the Conover City Council presented Bobby with a key to the city for his outstanding contributions to the community. Although too many to list, a few of the local building projects include Conover City Hall, Lee Industries, People’s Bank, and Interstate Foam.
Sunday was his favorite day. He was a man of strong faith, telling his family many times to remember the Lord is in control. He loved to attend services, dressed in his suit and tie, ready to worship and sing. He had those same expectations for his family. Always involved, he served his church on many boards and committees. He was first to lend a hand or his company’s services to make a repair or improvement to the church when needed.
In addition to his parents, Bobby was preceded in death by his infant son, Roger, his great grandson Cody Harrelson, his sisters; Kathleen Matthews Robinson (Solon), Jean Matthews, Martha Matthews Holtzlander (Eugene), Dorothy Matthews Laughlin (Harley), and Mary Nell Matthews.
Survivors include the mother of his children, Frankie Moser Matthews; his children and their families, Vicki Matthews Shull and husband Roger; Beverly Matthews Considine and husband Tom; granddaughter, Jana Sweezy and husband Tiger; grandson, Chad Whitmire; great granddaughter, Britney Moses Lundy and husband Cameron; great-great-granddaughter, Lillyanne; great-great- grandson, William; Gary Matthews and wife Marigene; grandson, Brian Roberts; grandson, Andrew Matthews and wife Susan; great-granddaughter Allie; great-grandsons, Isaac and Jacob; Penny Matthews and husband Mark Long; grandson, Adam Campbell and wife Amanda; great-grandson, James; Andy Matthews and wife Amy; grandsons, Collin and Connor; brother, Richard Matthews and wife Revonda and their family; and special niece, Donna Hager and her family. Because Bobby loved family, he considered himself doubly blessed. In addition to those previously mentioned, he regarded his work force, both past and present, his family, and inspired mutual respect and love between himself and them.
The family would like to thank Bobby’s four special caregivers: Anita, Renee, Mary, and Mandy. His last 2 weeks were blessed with their presence. Family friend and adopted son, Dr. Billy Price, guided Bob through his last days.
A celebration of life service will be held at Concordia Lutheran Church in Conover on Friday, February 5 at 1:00 pm with Pastor Michael Geml presiding. A private burial will follow. Pallbearers are Chad Whitmire, Brian Roberts, Andrew Matthews, Adam Campbell, Collin Matthews, and Connor Matthews.
The body will lie in state in the church sanctuary from 11:00 a.m. until 1:00 p.m. Because of COVID-19, the family will not be present to receive. Masks and social distancing are required. The service will be live-streamed on the Concordia Lutheran Church Facebook page.
Memorials may be given to: Concordia Lutheran Church, 216 Fifth Avenue SE, Conover, NC 28613; Concordia Christian Day School, 215 Fifth Avenue SE, Conover, NC. 28613-191; University Christian High School, 602 Seventh Avenue NE, Hickory, NC. 28601; or Camp Linn Haven, PO Box 1096, Conover, NC. 28613
Condolences may be sent to the Matthews family at www.drumfh-conover.com
The Matthews family has entrusted funeral arrangements to Drum Funeral Home & Cremation Services in Conover, NC.
Services
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Lie in State
Friday, February 5, 2021
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Celebration of Life
Friday, February 5, 2021
Memories
Bobby Eugene Matthews
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ADD A MEMORYKlaus Bendixen
February 20, 2021
I had the honor of meeting Mr. Matthews many years ago through my friendship with Thom and Beverly. I always admire him and enjoyed so much when we were watching the news or having supper and Beverly home. Also my son Klaus Alexander share a good dinner conversation with him and he always admire him when the good advise he gave him. I pray that he will be an angel to all the people that he touch with his kindness. My most sincere condolences to Thom, Beverly, Chad, Brittany, Lily, Cameron and the rest of the Matthews family. Thank you Beverly and Thom for your years of friendship since 1988. God bless you. Klaus Bendixen and the Bendixen Family.
Jolleen Christians
February 7, 2021
My sincere sympathy, love, and condolences to the Matthews family. Bobby was a true community person and his love for family was evident in so many ways. May God give you His comfort and peace in the days ahead.
KRIS KUNIK
February 6, 2021
Bob was a man of conviction. He loved his family dearly. That was so easy to see in how he kept them all around him through out his life in business and in family life. He had great love and respect for GOD along with his family. I noticed that he also loved what he did for a job (his company). Mark Twain once said "Find something you love to do and you never work a day in your life". He was so very blessed to have been able to do that very thing through his lifetime. I had the greatest respect for him in his personal drive and his ambition to do his best at all times.
He is the kind of man that our country was built on.
GOD BLESS YOU BOB.
I am sure you are working on a very large project in HEAVEN now for THE MAN ABOVE. Your accomplishments in this life were incredible.
Kris Kunik
Aspen Cabinetry
Conover NC
Michael/Geraldine Considine
February 5, 2021
Our heartfelt sympathy to all the Matthews family on dear Bobs passing may his gentle soul find rest. Bob was a true gentleman and always made us so welcome. With healing prayers comforting hugs and sharing with you in your sadness. With love Michael Geraldine
Jimmy Bowman
February 5, 2021
So many wonderful times and memories of Bob and his family. A true joy to have as a friend and business associate. Bob you will be truly missed. See you on the other side. God bless.
Jimmy Bowman
Kevin Conrad
February 4, 2021
Bobby was a great man and I’m greatful to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Matthews family. He will be missed.
Bill Stoner
February 4, 2021
Have high regards for Bob and Matthews Const. Sorry for your loss as he was to me a special man! Thoughts and prayers at this time and always to the family.
Alice Baker
February 3, 2021
Our dear family,
Please know that our love and prayers are with each one of you at this time. May God bless you all. May you find comfort and healing in knowing that your loved one is with our dear Lord and Savior in heaven. Some day we will all be together again forever and always.
Blessings,
Jerri Alice and Grammy
Judy Harman
February 3, 2021
Prayers to your whole family and may God help you all through the loneliness of missing him. He and Fred were friends for many years and we love all of you! He loved his Father in Heaven and He will take care of him. Blessings to you all!
Paula Klim
February 3, 2021
Bob was a good friend of my parents, Paul and Hattie Smith. He built their beautiful home on 8th Avenue, NE. I have fond memories of him. His daughter, Vickie Shull, was a dear friend and colleague of mine. My love and prayers to his family.
Larry Travis
February 3, 2021
Bob was a great man who was a mentor to me and so many others. He taught me so much about construction, and supported me when I wanted to start my company, Travis Construction & Drywall. Bob’s 90th birthday gathering was so much fun seeing all the people’s lives Bob was a part of and listening to his stories about his life. He will be greatly missed by many people, especially his family who loved him dearly. I will miss you Bob, but am sure you will be in heaven helping supervise all the building , and making sure it is done right. Rest In Peace.
Charles Canrobert
February 2, 2021
This story has been on my mind since Bobby passed.
Bobby and I went to Lincolnton to look at a potential building addition. The building was in the city limits a couple of blocks from the main road. Not much traffic. Bobby taught me that day how to approximate elevation differences without equipment. As we were getting started to do the 30' elevation difference a car pulled up and the driver said "you're Bob Matthews". They talked for a few minutes and the guy drove off. I asked Bobby "who was that?" He said " I don't know but the most important thing is he knows me".
Thank you Bobby for helping me come home from Virginia. And my most sincere condolences to the family.
Scott and Mary Millar
February 2, 2021
A wonderful man and a wonderful legacy of company, family, laughter, and joy. Many great memories and fun stories, and he always left you just smiling somehow.
Holly Baynham (Holtslander)
February 2, 2021
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of our Uncle Bobby. He was such an amazing man. Though we only got to see him a couple of weeks every summer, we all loved spending time with him. There were many happy hours spent sitting on the front porch of Mamaw Metta’s house listening to his stories. Wherever we went with Uncle Bobby, be it a restaurant, the local golf course or hardware store, everyone knew him and always had a kind word for him. Such an accomplished and loving man in all aspects of his life. We’re honored to call him our Uncle. Rest In Peace.
With Love,
The children of Martha & Eugene Holtslander
Chuck, Amy, Cheryl and Holly
(hbaynham@sbcglobal.net) Holly
Jeff keever
February 2, 2021
Bobby was always so nice and kind to me and would always speak to me whenever we passed at the diner or the hardware store. He will be greatly missed and I will miss seeing him . Conover has lost one of its finest. May the Father give you comfort during this difficult time. My prayers are with you.
Randy Baker
February 2, 2021
I remember one Saturday morning when Mr. Matthews showed up on my back porch with one of his grandsons wanting to just shoot their shotguns a little. I was pleased to let them have a ittle fun in my back yard and fields. There were many occurrences where we would run into one another and he always recognized me and was cordial as well. The last time we spoke, I was pleased to set up a business deal between him and my son. Quite an accomplishment for this small time entrepreneur and him being such an accomplished businessman.
Linda Moser
February 2, 2021
Prayers are with everyone in the
Matthews’s families. God has definitely gained a God loving man. He and my Dad were good friend's. LLL and Camp Linn Haven.
God bless everyone and grant you comfort..
Love to all,
Linda Moser
Karen Davis
February 2, 2021
Bob and his family have been connected to my family my entire life. His friendship with my dad, Fred, was deep and served as an example of true friendship. I appreciate Bob’s determination to visit daddy even after losing most of his sight and enlisting several of you to drive him. He was special to us. We will tell and retell some of those stories of their adventures as time goes on. Our love and prayers are with you all.
- Karen Harman Davis
Charles E DeBord & Lucy
February 2, 2021
We morn the loss of a great employer and wonderful friend. You’re in Gods hands now. Lucy and I will miss you dearly. Our love and prayers go out to the Matthews family. It has been a great pleasure working with Bobby and the entire Matthews family for the past 15 years. God Bless.
Dean Bush
February 2, 2021
Mr. Matthews was to me, a marvelous, kind, ole style southern gentleman that began and grew into a life similar to my own, except he was much more successful in many ways. I preformed fire sprinkler protection work for his company for many years and saw Mr. Matthews many many times at both job sites and at his office. He always had a kind and respectful word for me and my associates, most of the time sharing a forgotten memory of a particular project or a co-worker that we had both known and shared a funny endearing story about. He is one of the people I'll always remember with a smile and due respect, which he earned with a gentle kindness, and a Gentleman I hope to see once again someday....
Johnny Wise
February 2, 2021
My prayers are with the Matthews family during this time. I pray that you will be comforted.
Nancy Stedman Bolick
February 1, 2021
I’m so sorry for your loss. God makes no mistakes, His timing is not our timing. Now Bobby is in heaven with our Father, at peace & with a new heavenly body. We grieve for ourselves at the loss of a loved one, but would we ever deny our loved one to be in God’s presence, at peace & forever free of pain & suffering.
I have only fond memories of Bobby as a friend & neighbor. I pray that God grants each of you His peace that passes understanding as you grieve the loss of Bobby.
Gail Carpenter
February 1, 2021
I am so sorry for your loss. Bob was a very special man. Prayers for all!
david smith
February 1, 2021
I appreciate being employed by your fine company these past twenty years. Rest in Peace .