OBITUARY
Betty Marie Dean
January 27, 1938 – February 12, 2021
Betty (Mills) Dean, a resident of Lake Forest Falls community in Conroe for 43 years, passed away at 83 years of age on Friday, February 12, 2021. She was born in the great north woods in Rexton of Michigan’s Upper Peninsula to Arthur and Leona (Barr) Mills on Thursday, January 27, 1938.
Most of her adult working career was spent in retail sales and she retired from this position at JC Penny’s after 28 years of service at the age of 62. She was a member of the 1st United Methodist Church of Conroe and early on in her retirement had enjoyed working with those older than she with their age-related health issues. She also spent a good deal of time feeding the hungry and was an ardent supporter of St Jude’s Children’s Hospital.
Betty cherished all her Children, Grand’s and Great Grand’s. She would always make the comment on how blessed she was to have such a wonderful bunch of which to be so proud. All the Grands and Great Grands loved to visit her and take turns exploring grandma’s magic box of toys and books. She also really enjoyed keeping in touch with her siblings still residing in the north country of Ohio and Michigan.
Her children thank the good Lord above for blessing them with such a generous and loving mother for all these years. They where also blessed with the honor of being present at her bedside for the last hours of her earthly presence in the ICU ward at Methodist Hospital in The Woodlands, Texas. We thank her medical teams for her excellent care, comfort and concern while in their charge.
Left to cherish her memory are her beloved children, Russell Tanton and wife Susan, Danial Tanton and wife Sharyn, Debbie Roze and husband Terry, Lee Tanton and wife Donna. Grand Children Jason and wife Amanda, Christy and husband Ian, Tyler and wife Meagan, Dustin, Tom and wife Brandy, Howard and wife Sara, Jennifer, Christopher and wife Amanda, Sheila, Eric and wife Laura. Great Grandchildren, Hallie, Annabelle, Caroline, Bennett, Ella, Grayson, Marshall, Malachi, Evangeline, Alex, Sebastian, Paige, Jeffery, Zachery, Clara, Cooper and Wyatt, surviving Siblings; John, Leona, Louis, Louise, Donna and Art along with her loving family friends.
Betty, Mom, Grandma, Great Grandma - we will cherish and carry your love and commitment with us in our hearts and memories and are in peace in knowing that you are now renewed by our loving savior. We take comfort in knowing that you will be watching over all of us as our newest angel in heaven.
The Family will receive friends on Saturday, February 27, 2021 at Metcalf Funeral Home, 1801 E White Oak Terrace from 2:00PM to 3:00 PM. She requested that her remains be cremated upon her passing and that request will be honored with ashes placed per her request.
In lieu of flowers we are certain that Mom would be pleased if you could make a small donation to St. Jude’s Children’s Charity Hospital at StJude.org. Our family would like to thank you for your prayers and support and ask all of you to join us in our celebration and remembrance of her life and adventures while she was with us.
Fond memories and expressions of sympathy may be shared with the Dean family by clicking the “ Add a Memory” tab.
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Celebration of Life
Saturday, February 27, 2021
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Betty Marie Dean
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ADD A MEMORYSteve Tennyson
February 27, 2021
A beautiful and touching ceremony. Great stories about Betty who was a strong, loving mother, grandmother and great grandmother. I remember her as a sweet woman who treated us like her own children. God bless her family.
Debbie Roze
February 27, 2021
Debbie Roze
February 26, 2021
Mom loved life and her Family as I look at these pictures you can see the love and actually feel it!! We were all very lucky to have such a strong loving Mother/Grandmother in are lives. I love her down to my very core of being! We shared a very special relationship best friends! I miss her dearly but I do know she's happy to have gotten out of here before any of us! I love you Mom and I'll make sure that cookie jar is full!!!!
Donna Tanton
February 26, 2021
Donna Tanton ( Lee’s wife)
I want to share the first time I met, my mother-in-law, not knowing that she would be....
Lee and I started dating in the summer of 1990. One day, we were out and about, cruising down IH 45, and he said, hey, you want to meet my mother, she works at JC Penny in Greens Points Mall. My response was “ sure do!” So, we walk into Penny’s to the furniture department and Lee introduced me to his Mom, as his girlfriend. Long story short, we hit it off immediately and just started to talk, then came the laughs and the hugs!❤️ I never felt so welcomed and knew Lee’s mother was a very special, caring and loving woman. ❤️ As we were leaving, we passed by an apple mirror on display and I made the comment on how much I loved it! Well, guess what I got for Christmas! Just goes to show that Momma Betty knew that I was going to become part of the family .... Lee and I were married on August 7, 1992, and the apple mirror has lived in 4 houses! BTW, Chris & Eric became fast friends when we both lived in the Cedars Apartments, if it wasn’t for our boys, we may have never met💙❤️💙. Already missing you, my sweet Betty❤️ Loved all our talks and visits, she always gave me insightful advise when I needed it most. Going to be hard coming up 105 and not turning right to Lake Forest Falls. Thankful Lee & I had one last fun and wonderful visit with you, Mom, not knowing it would be our last. 🥲 Betty, was the best and most loving mother-in-law a girl could ask for... for that I am truly blessed. Love you, mom, Rest In Peace❤️🙏❤️
Chris Tanton
February 26, 2021
Grandma Betty was the best grandma anyone could ever ask for. The love that she had for all of us was unmeasurable.
I will never forget all the good times I had as a kid at Grandma's house. Getting dropped off by the school bus at Grandma's so she could watch me for a couple hours until Dad could pick me up in the evenings. Us grand kids would gather at her house on the weekends, playing school or JCPenney. All the nights and weekends I would stay over and fish in the back yard with more cousins and friends. This woman was never off the clock and still had the energy to shower us all with love and attention.
Grandma loved to be on the road, taking many of us grandkids on adventures. I had a few trips to Hot Springs Arkansas with Grandma that were really special. We always stayed at the same hotel on the lake. We would take walks through the hills, check our the natural hot springs and look at the neat rocks or gems for sale. It was those road trips with Grandma that introduced me to new places and the idea that there is just so much out there to see. This has stuck with me through my life and helped inspire me to move around the country, which also led me to meet my wonderful wife Amanda in Seattle.
I am thankful for the couple trips I was able to make back to Texas over the past 5 or so years. I am so happy Grandma could meet Amanda and visit with her grand dog Smigel. I am also thankful for everything Grandma has taught me in life. From sewing and cooking to standing up for myself and following my passions. Thank you for always believing in me Grandma and cheering me on. It has helped to make me the person I am today and I am forever grateful for that.
We love and miss you so much. It feels like there is a big hole in our lives now, but knowing you will always still be there for us, always in our hearts, makes this a little easier each day.
- Chris and Amanda Tanton
Dustin Tanton
February 26, 2021
Grandma was the sweetest person I've ever known. She was a wealth of knowledge. There was never a question she didn't have an answer to. She always had the Oreo jar that everyone knows and loves, and then a secondary bowl of the usual Reese's and Hershey's. I can remember all the times she stocked the fridge with A&W Root Beer and Sunkist, not for her, but for all her grandkids. The blankets she made, the time she put into them. She had a particular genuine love that I have yet to encounter anywhere. Someday I hope to embody the kind of love she has for her family. She has such a beautiful relationship with God as everyone can attest, I can't wait to see her again.
Lee (Chop) Tanton
February 26, 2021
My mom was without a doubt my biggest hero and fan that a son could ever hope and pray for. The support she gave me, my wife and our children was unwavering and unconditional. To say I will miss my mother is an understatement. She is such a huge influence in my life and all of our family. Our mother was and still is ( in sprit) the strongest person I have ever known. The best advise she ever gave me was simply to "do something" because doing nothing didn't fit with her. I knew what she meant by this statement. No matter what life throws at you, "DO Something" right , wrong, or indifferent. Grab it and do your best to fix it. Well Mom, I bet I have told my kids this same advise a hundred times and now look at them. Your advise works. We all know how proud you are of all of us. I just hope you realized how we are all just an extension of you. You made us what we are and you did it alone with our Lords help. Thank you. We all know your only fear in life was something happening to one of your kids, grand kids or great grandkids before you. Well congratulations ! YOU WON! We love and miss you very much. Chop "Lee"
Tyler Tanton
February 22, 2021
Grandma taught us all, taught me, what love looks like. Real love, in action. No questions, no judgements, just open arms kind of love. The kind of love that we are intended to live out. The kind of love that the Father has for his people. The kind of love I aspire to be able to express. Thank you for showing us that. Thank you for showing me that. I pray I can learn to love others as well as you did. Love you. Thank you grandma.
Jason and Amanda Tanton
February 21, 2021
With newborn Annabelle Tanton (Jason and Amanda's middle daughter). May 2010.
Jason and Amanda Tanton
February 21, 2021
More porch swingin' with Bennett Tanton (Jason and Amanda's youngest).
Jason and Amanda Tanton
February 21, 2021
Living that porch swing life with baby Caroline (Jason and Amanda's 3rd daughter).
Jason and Amanda Tanton
February 21, 2021
Jason's (Russ and Susan's oldest) graduation from UH with his Masters in Architecture.
Jason and Amanda Tanton
February 21, 2021
Visiting Hallie Tanton (Jason and Amanda's oldest) when she was born 01.29.2009
Danial Tanton
February 21, 2021
Mom's Parents
Danial Tanton
February 21, 2021
Mom as a little girl family photo - I believe Mom is the littlest girl in photo but not sure
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
A pillar of light shines from this lady, my mother!
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Dan and Mom (Grand Mother, Great Grand Mother)
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February 20, 2021
Grandma and Grandson Dustin (Dan's son)
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Dan and Mom
Darn she is short or I am tall?
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Tyler (Dan's son), Meagan (Tyler's wife) and Grandma
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Dan, Sharyn and Mom
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February 20, 2021
Mom, Sharyn (Dan's wife) and Susan (Russell's wife)
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Mom being Mom, dust never settled on her!
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Lee (Chopper) and Grandma!!
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
A loving Grand Mother!
L to R: Dustin, Grandma and Tyler (Dan's kids) down on the Beach in Sargent, Texas
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
My beautiful Mother!
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Grandson Chris (Lee / Chopper's son), Grandma and Chris' dog
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
July 4th celebration back several years ago in Mom's back yard with one of her grandsons Dustin (Dan and Sharyn's youngest son)
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Texas A&M Aggie Ring day for my oldest son. Woop!
left to right: Dan, Sharyn (Dan's wife), Mom, Meagan (Tyler's wife), Tyler (Dan & Sharyn's oldest son) and Dustin (Dan & Sharyn's youngest son)
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Mom's birthday family picture from couple of years ago
Left to Right - Russell, Lee (Chopper), Mom, Debbie and Dan
DANIEL TANTON
February 20, 2021
Just last year we all got together to learn and write down how Mom created the beloved Homemade Noodles.
Left to right: Dan, Sharyn (Dan's wife) Lee (Chopper) and Mom
Art I see a whole lot of you in Chopper!!
Sharyn Tanton
February 20, 2021
TRIBUTE TO BETTY
* from Sharyn (Dans Wife) *
Thank you, Betty for sharing many, many stories with me, genuine True Grit stories that go to your core. You were without a doubt, a pillar of strength. You were also a gentle, sweet, friend.
My heart goes to a story you shared with me only 1 year before you crossed over into Glory. It shines bright in my heart because it reflects the true nature of our God. You spoke of when you first moved to Houston, in the very early days like you were still driving down, or you were looking for employment. You told me of how scared you were much like a trembling bird, so incredibly afraid. You then said you heard God speak to you very clearly as if tapping your shoulder and saying, “You are going to be ok”. You said that touch, love, and affirmation from God is what you needed to make all this work, whatever you would face, you knew He would be there with you. What a beautiful gesture and memory of our God, to empower you for the road you had to bear. It also reflects a deep faith and connection you have always had and relied on your whole life. You have always professed to me that the one thing so important to you before you go, is that every last member of your family will have a faith that they depend on, strive for and are comforted by in their most difficult time. You have also confided in me in recent years that you believe you have accomplished this.
It’s a miraculous day when we stop breathing and cross over and meet the face of Jesus, and He can say “Well done, my good and faithful servant”. Betty, I know you have earned that hat! Put it on and wear it well. I know we are all comforted knowing we have you as one of our newly appointed angels watching out for us until we make our way home. I hope and know as well that you can see all the love we all have for you.
Danial Tanton
February 20, 2021
TRIBUTE TO MOM
* from Dan *
Thank you, Mom for being such an example for us 4 kids to live by. You were so strong to leave Michigan with 4 kids between ages of 9 – 13 by yourself, to make life normal for us kids because of a failing father, which I won't get into that here. Thank God that Uncle Elsworth and Aunt Leta and their kids welcomed us to Houston to restart our lives. From that moment on Mom was a pillar of strength for us to lean on. She worked 2 and 3 jobs just to put food on our table because of no financial help from my Dad. Yes, my mother might only be 5 foot tall, but she definitely ruled the house and you didn't want to cross her. But she did it in Love!
Mom thanks for wanting better for me
Mom thanks for making me a better man
Mom thanks for loving me so well
Mom thanks for loving each of us to the core
Mom thanks for setting the example of if you want it, you can do it
Mom thanks for being you and giving me such an example to live by
Mom thanks for bringing me to Houston where I met my loving wife of 37 years
Mom thanks for being there when my wife had Cardiac Arrest not once but twice and helping me through that
Mom thanks for all of the Holiday get togethers
Mom thanks for spending time with my kids and making memories with them
Mom thanks for just showing up at my house and cleaning and cooking when my kids were young
Mom thanks for going to Michigan with my two boys and myself years ago so that they could meet your family at the ‘Mills Family Reunion’
Mom thanks for the drives that I would take with you thru the National Forest that you so loved - this one I will miss for sure
Mom, I will miss our weekly Monday talks on my ride home from work
Mom I’m missing you immensely, not a day goes by without me thinking of you. I know you are in a better place and I know you are watching over us as we live out our lives. I love you, I miss you and so that you know I will be talking to you as I live out my life.
Becca Eudy
February 18, 2021
I’m blessed to have known Grandma Betty for most of my life. She was always so kind to me and treated me like one of her own grandchildren when she saw me. She will be greatly missed. I know she’s flying high with our Lord. We love you!!
Sherri Laporte Eschhofen
February 15, 2021
I am happy that I brought mother down to visit Aunt Betty. It was a very good trip for both of them. I know it meant a lot to them. As traveling was getting hard for either of them.
She will be missed. But in a better place, having a ball with her mother.
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July 4th Fireworks Display
Mom and Dustin
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Grandma, Leroy, Leona and Rich on her wedding day
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Grandma hanging out at the Beach in Sargent, Texas with grandson's Dustin and Tyler
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Fishing at Grandma’s house
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Great great Grandma and Gracie
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Great grandson Cooper being born
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Another Family celebration at Mom's
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Mom enjoying her flower gardens and yard
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Daughter Debbie and husband Terry
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Most likely another Thanksgiving Family get together at Mom's house
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Family gathering at Grandma’s house.. a tradition of ours
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Sharyn and Mom
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A young Miss. Betty
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Tyler's Texas A&M Graduation Day
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Montgomery tea house she frequented often
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Grandkids waiting to hunt Easter eggs
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Yay! Birthdays
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Jennifer and Grandma
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Grandma and great grandma supporting Sebastian in the arts
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Grandma and her great grandson Cooper
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Christmas with Grandma and Dustin
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Relaxing in the chair
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Dan's Birthday Photo
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Celebrating Jen’s birthday with grandma
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Tyler, Meagan and Grandma
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Mom and her 4 kids
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Mom, Sharyn and Susan
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Celebrating Christy’s coming baby girl, Ella
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Leroy aka Lee, Chopper, Little Brother and Mom
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Christmas gathering with these lovely ladies
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Grandma and her son, Lee celebrating birthdays together
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Dan, Mom and Dustin
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Family photo, Mom is the youngest one
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Bo, Sarah and family
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The magical box of toys!
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Laughing with family always
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Grandma and granddaughter Jennifer.. we loved our selfies :)
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Dan, Sharyn and Mom
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Blowing out candles and making wishes
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Another Birthday Celebration
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Snookie and Grandma
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Mom's parents I believe
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Sebastian, grandson, and Grandma after his show
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Grandma and Dustin
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Thanksgiving Family Photo from 2016
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Darn Mom has shrunk over the years!
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2020 Thanksgiving Photo at Danial and Sharyn's house - this photo will be treasured forever!!
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Grandma’s 80th birthday
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Homemade Noodle Day at Mom's
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Grandma and Malachi
Tyler and Meagan's first born
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Chris, Grandma and Chris's dog
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The infamous swing
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July 4th Fireworks Display
Mom and Dustin
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Grandma, Leroy, Leona and Rich on her wedding day
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Grandma hanging out at the Beach in Sargent, Texas with grandson's Dustin and Tyler
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Fishing at Grandma’s house
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Great great Grandma and Gracie
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Great grandson Cooper being born
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Another Family celebration at Mom's
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Mom enjoying her flower gardens and yard
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Daughter Debbie and husband Terry
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Most likely another Thanksgiving Family get together at Mom's house
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Family gathering at Grandma’s house.. a tradition of ours
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Sharyn and Mom
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A young Miss. Betty
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Tyler's Texas A&M Graduation Day
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Montgomery tea house she frequented often
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Grandkids waiting to hunt Easter eggs
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Yay! Birthdays
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Jennifer and Grandma
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Grandma and great grandma supporting Sebastian in the arts
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Grandma and her great grandson Cooper
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Christmas with Grandma and Dustin
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Relaxing in the chair
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Dan's Birthday Photo
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Celebrating Jen’s birthday with grandma
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Tyler, Meagan and Grandma
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Mom and her 4 kids
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Mom, Sharyn and Susan
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Celebrating Christy’s coming baby girl, Ella
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Leroy aka Lee, Chopper, Little Brother and Mom
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Christmas gathering with these lovely ladies
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Grandma and her son, Lee celebrating birthdays together
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Dan, Mom and Dustin
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Family photo, Mom is the youngest one
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Bo, Sarah and family
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The magical box of toys!
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Laughing with family always
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Grandma and granddaughter Jennifer.. we loved our selfies :)
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Dan, Sharyn and Mom
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Blowing out candles and making wishes
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Another Birthday Celebration
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Snookie and Grandma
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Mom's parents I believe
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Sebastian, grandson, and Grandma after his show
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Grandma and Dustin
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Thanksgiving Family Photo from 2016
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Darn Mom has shrunk over the years!
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2020 Thanksgiving Photo at Danial and Sharyn's house - this photo will be treasured forever!!
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Grandma’s 80th birthday
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Homemade Noodle Day at Mom's
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Grandma and Malachi
Tyler and Meagan's first born
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Chris, Grandma and Chris's dog
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The infamous swing