Patricia Wilder

April 1, 1940December 2, 2018

Patricia Ann Wilder age 78, peacefully passed away on Sunday, December 2, 2018. She is survived by her husband, Gordon Wilder; children, Michael (Noemi) Wilder, Joyce (Ronald) Pacheco and Trisha (Paul) Laub and grandchildren, Alena Marie Pacheco and Ronald Pacheco. Services were held privately by the family at Chapel Lawn Funeral Home with interment at Chapel Lawn Memorial Gardens, Crown Point, IN. Online condolences may be left at


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The Kendra Family

January 2, 2019

Just heard the news about Patricia. We are so sorry for your loss and wanted to let you know we are thinking about you and your family. Sending you our deepest sympathy.

Kathy & Steve Bruce

December 16, 2018

Mr. Wilder, Mike, Joyce, and Trish
So sorry to hear about Mrs. Wilder, our prayers are with you all.
Kathy, Steve,Bruce
Ann Hakos

Gale Churitch

December 9, 2018

The First Presbyterian Church of Highland would like to extend our prayers and sympathies with the loss of your love one. Blessings to you all.

Michael Hakos

December 9, 2018

We were so sorry to here of your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Timbra Sikorski

December 7, 2018

Gordon, Mike, Joyce and Trisha,

My condolences to all of you on the loss of your wife and mother. I'll always remember Patty as a woman of integrity and poise. She was a wonderful mother and wife, as well as a loving and dutiful daughter to her own father and mother, and later to both of her younger brothers. So smart and musically gifted, always positive and upbeat, Patty was an example of grace in all situations. She raised fine children, in whom she trained to be like her. I know she will be greatly missed on earth, but also joyfully received by her Father in heaven and by those family members who were promoted to glory before her. Again, my condolences to you all.

Mark Novosel

December 4, 2018

I will always have fond memories of Mrs Wilder and the Wilder family growing up.I will always remember her kindness and smile. I will keep the wilder family in my prayers through this difficult time.